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you are about to discover the ultra rare
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secret that most men will never know
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about attracting women I assure you that
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by the time you finish watching this
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video you'll know exactly how to talk to
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women how to get inside their minds and
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how to make them eagerly await the next
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time they see you or hear from you this
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is you and this is the girl you'll be
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talking to what should you say to her
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what should you talk about and how can
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you make your conversation flow smoothly
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this is the first mistake you can make
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when you start talking to a girl when
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you're speaking with her don't overthink
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the topic of conversation or how you're
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going to speak before we get into the
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detail I want you to First change your
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perspective on this I want you to change
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your internal mindset when you're
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talking to a girl you need to remember
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that she's just a human being nothing
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more don't Place her on a pedestal just
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because she's attractive I know this
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might sound superficial and like
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something you've heard before but it's
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crucial that you internalize it from now
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on every time you talk to a beautiful
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girl I want you to remember me and tell
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yourself she's just a human being the
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second thing I want you to internalize
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is that you need to see yourself as
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being in a higher position while she's
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in a lower one don't worry I'll explain
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how can do this later but for now just
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listen now when you're talking to a girl
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her subconscious mind the Instinct that
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controls love and seeks the right man is
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evaluating you to see if you're the
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right guy for her or not if you've
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watched all the videos in this series on
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how to attract women you'll know that
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women are emotional beings who are drawn
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to what they feel but in today's episode
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we're going to dive deeper into this
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topic let me explain to you what
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attraction is for a woman the single
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most important and fundamental concept
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you must understand to succeed with
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women is attraction without
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understanding how attraction works you
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will never succeed with women and dating
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there are no exceptions to this rule
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unlike men women often act based on how
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they feel making decisions driven by
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emotions rather than logic they see
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something feel something and respond to
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that feeling because their actions are
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emotion-based they essentially can't
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control who they are attracted to and
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who they aren't attraction is a
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subconscious response that women have
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towards certain behaviors exhibited by
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men therefore to trigger attraction you
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need to incorporate these behaviors into
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your personality but before we dive into
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the specific let me clarify a few facts
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one women do not control who they are
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attracted to two women do not control
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who they are not attracted to this means
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that attraction happens on an
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unconscious level and women cannot
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control it now I want you to imagine
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this subconscious part of a woman's mind
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as a radar when you start talking to her
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it lights up and begins scanning you to
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see if you're suitable for her or not
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this radar is separate from her
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conscious mind meaning if this radar
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wants you her conscious mind won't be
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able to say no that's why so many women
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end up falling for the same bad guy who
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mistreats them and cheats on them her
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logical brain constantly tells her
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you've made the same mistake you'll be
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mistreated again you'll be cheated on
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again but because she's biologically
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programmed to think emotionally and her
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radar is disconnected from her logical
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mind her logic can't control her before
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we move on I want you to take this fact
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with you any girl in the world from the
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moment she is born has a primary goal in
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life which is to find the right man for
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her and know that this is not the
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typical talk you hear from society but
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it is the biological truth a woman could
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be a scientist or an astronaut at Nasa
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but even so her ultimate goal remains
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finding the right man for her and this
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right man is not someone she chooses but
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rather the radar inside her is what
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seeks him out and selects him so from
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now on whenever you talk to a girl know
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that this radar inside her is scanning
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you to see if you're suitable for her or
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not this radar looks for many things in
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you among the most important is whether
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you appear to be better than her or if
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she is better than you the way it
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determines this is by observing how you
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interact with her whether you treat her
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in a way that shows you see yourself as
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better than her or if you see her as
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better than you if you treat her in a
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way that shows you see yourself as
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better than her the radar will
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understand that you are better than her
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and that's when the woman will become
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yours I know this may sound confusing
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and I know it seems difficult and
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complicated but trust me by the end of
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this video you'll understand everything
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and you'll know how to make any goal no
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matter who she is think about you all
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day long after your conversation without
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even knowing why she did it so what
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should you do and what should you say to
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make the raadar understand that you see
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yourself as better than her let's start
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with something simple that many people
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Overlook body language if you've ever
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tried researching body language you'll
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find that some say you should keep your
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head up others say don't put your hands
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in your pockets and others say sit with
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a straight back the first thing I want
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you to do now is to forget all of that
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it's all nonsense and won't help you at
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all there are three points I want you to
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focus on regarding body language a
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common mistake many men make is leaning
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towards the girl while talking this
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often turns her off because you're
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subconsciously signaling that you're too
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interested in her instead make it a
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habit to talk to her while leaning away
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this is the first point the second point
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is to almost start walking away when she
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says something you disapprove of for
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example if a girl says I'm not really
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interested you could respond with I know
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I'm probably too much for you to handle
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you're too much of a nice girl anyway
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and then start to walk away as you say
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it you'll likely see her either walking
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towards you or trying to stop you with a
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quick comment attractive girls aren't
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used to guys walking away like this
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they're usually accustomed to being
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chased therefore walking away will
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demonstrate high value which will
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automatically make her more attracted to
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you the third point and the most
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important point in body language that I
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want you to be aware of throughout your
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life is this I'll give you an example to
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help you understand imagine yourself
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sitting next to an important person
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someone with a high status how would you
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sit you probably wouldn't sit relaxed
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you'd try to show respect and wouldn't
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be comfortable you'd be smiling and
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laughing by yourself to please them but
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now imagine yourself sitting next to a
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friend you've known for 10 years or
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sitting next to your brother how would
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your body language be you probably
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wouldn't care at all about how you're
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sitting you might be sitting with your
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legs stretched out you might be leaning
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back and talking to them you wouldn't
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even care if they're sitting next to you
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or not so when two people sit and talk
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the one with the higher value among them
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is the who sits comfortably and doesn't
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care about the other person sitting next
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to them this is the mindset I want you
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to adopt when you're talking to a girl
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the first thing I want you to do is to
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sit comfortably in a position that makes
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you feel at ease and not care about how
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she perceives you this idea of thinking
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about how you should sit should
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disappear from your mind if you want to
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put your hand in your pocket do it if
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you want to take it out take it out if
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you want to lift your leg up lift it if
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you want to Lean Back Lean Back the
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important thing is to be comfortable and
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do what makes you feel at ease the girl
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won't care about what you do with your
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hands or your legs while you're talking
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she'll only care whether you're sitting
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comfortably or not and I want you to
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apply this mindset in your whole life
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not just with girls please stop giving
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so much importance to your body language
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and what you should do to impress others
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do what makes you feel comfortable no
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one owes you anything the moment you
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start thinking about what body language
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you should adopt know that you're on the
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wrong path please learn to be
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comfortable make peace with yourself and
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don't care about what she thinks sit as
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you like and do what you want when you
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do all this the woman will feel that you
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see yourself as better than her now
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we're done with body language let's move
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on to conversation how to communicate
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with her I'm going to give you a formula
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that I want you to always remember when
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you're talking to any woman 50% of the
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conversation should be about her and her
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personality 30% of the conversation
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should be about the environment around
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you or anything else and 20% of the
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conversation should be about you don't
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worry I'll explain everything in detail
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but before we continue don't forget to
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like the video we want to reach 3,500
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likes so why 50% about her and only 20%
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about you because in any conversation
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between two people the person who needs
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the others approval is the one who talks
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a lot about themselves imagine you're
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doing a job interview the conversation
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will be about you your personality and
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your abilities not about the person
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interviewing you because you're the one
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who needs the job and they're the one in
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control the same thing applies to your
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conversations with women the person who
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talks a lot about themselves is the one
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who needs the other person's approval
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that's why you should talk about her
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more than you talk about yourself so
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let's start with the first thing which
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is talking about her how do you do that
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I've already explained the listen like a
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therapist technique in a previous video
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you can watch it after you finish this
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one you'll understand more and I don't
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need to repeat myself here but to
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summarize the conversation should be
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about her what she likes and dislikes
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how she spent her childhood how she
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plans to live her life what her dreams
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are what she likes to do in her free
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time what she sees as positive in
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herself and what she sees as negative
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I'm sure you get the idea 30% of the
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conversation should be about the
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environment around you or anything else
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in this phase I want you to stay aware
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of one thing don't think about what you
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should say anything that comes to mind
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say it consider yourself sitting next to
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a friend you've known for 10 years talk
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about anything and everything it's okay
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to say something silly the important
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thing is not to appear as if you're
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trying to say something that's not silly
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just keep talking and don't stick to one
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topic don't try to stay serious and
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discuss important topics imagine
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yourself drunk and talking talk about
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anything even if it makes no sense the
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important thing is not to appear as if
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you're trying to convey a certain idea
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or talk seriously just keep talking and
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by the way if you've made it this far in
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the video I want to let you know that
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you'll find in the description a free
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ebook containing some nearly forbidden
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psychological techniques that will make
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attractive women irresistibly drawn to
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you no matter your age appearance or
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bank account they'll be hooked on you
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like an addiction you'll find the link
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in the description anyway during this
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30% of the conversation just keep
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messing around and say whatever comes to
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mind if you get into an argument on a
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topic don't get angry and debate to
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prove your point remember what I told
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you earlier you don't need anything from
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her you don't need her approval you
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don't have to agree with her all the
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time but don't torture yourself trying
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to convey a certain idea or convince her
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of something now let's talk about the
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20% when you talk about yourself never
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ever never try to show her that you're
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amazing don't talk about your
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achievements or Adventures let me give
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you a golden piece of advice when you
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talk about yourself always make fun of
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yourself a little when you tell a story
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about yourself try to tell a story that
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makes you look silly or crazy not a
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story that makes you look great this way
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she'll see that you don't need her
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approval and you don't need her
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admiration another thing I want you to
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do is to be mysterious your personality
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should have an element of mystery this
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mystery is something I'll make a
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separate video about to explain it to
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you in detail but for now I'll give you
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a brief overview being mysterious
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doesn't mean you have to fake everything
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about your personality it simply means
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you shouldn't reveal too much about
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yourself too soon many guys tend to give
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detailed answers to every question A
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girl asks for example if a girl asks
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where do you work most guys might
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respond with I work at ABC firm in this
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position from 9 to 5 the mistake here is
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that by giving out too much information
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too quickly they unintentionally signal
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low value which works against them now
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let's handle this the right way if a
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girl asks where do you work you could
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say something like hold on there speedy
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kitten we've just met and you're already
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interviewing me see the difference as
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long as you don't reveal too much about
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yourself too early there will always be
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more that she'll want to know here are
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more examples her what are you doing
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Saturday night you something exciting
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but secret sorry can't tell you huh have
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you ever been in a relationship you I
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don't know you that well yet I don't
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discuss private stuff with strangers huh
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so what's your name you take a guess
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I'll give you a candy if you get it
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right now that you know all this you'll
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still have a small problem that might
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come up which is the tests she'll put
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you through when the woman is talking to
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you that radar inside her will put push
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her to do certain things to test you to
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see if you're the real deal or not it
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will try to figure out if you're truly
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the right guy these tests when they
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happen often cause men to panic and lose
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focus and even though I've just given
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you this formula and explained what to
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do a single test can make you lose your
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composure and forget everything or a
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single test can make her doubt that
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you're not genuine that you're just
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pretending to impress her so how do we
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deal with the problem of tests don't
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worry every problem has a solution and
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we'll talk about the problem of tests in
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the upcoming episodes of our series
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