You Have to Forgive ! Very Powerful Speech | Mohamed Hoblos

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摘要

TLDRIn this powerful address, the speaker delves into the critical topic of forgiveness, stressing that everyone has experienced hurt or has hurt others. They argue that forgiveness is not merely an option but a necessity for believers in Islam. Citing examples from the community and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad, the speaker contends that holding onto grudges contradicts the essence of the faith, risks spiritual destruction, and impedes one's relationship with Allah. The address advocates for a culture of compassion, encouraging individuals to let go of grievances for the sake of their own peace and spiritual well-being. Ultimately, the speaker calls for an urgent need to embrace forgiveness to align with the moral and ethical standards set by Islamic teachings, emphasizing that true strength lies in the ability to forgive.

心得

  • 🕊️ Forgiveness is essential in Islam.
  • ❤️ Unforgiveness harms our relationship with Allah.
  • 🙌 Holding grudges contradicts being a believer.
  • 🔑 True strength is in forgiving others.
  • 📖 The sunnah emphasizes compassion and mercy.
  • 👥 Family conflicts often stem from unforgiveness.
  • 💔 Let go of grievances for personal peace.
  • 💬 Real forgiveness comes from the heart.
  • ⚖️ Forgiveness acknowledges human imperfection.
  • 🤔 There are no valid reasons to refuse forgiveness.

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  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The speaker introduces the topic of forgiveness as an essential issue that everyone must confront, emphasizing that forgiveness is not merely an option but a crucial aspect of being a believer. Holding onto grudges is portrayed as detrimental to one's spiritual well-being, especially before Allah. He urges everyone to let go of grievances and embrace forgiveness, aligning this with the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad, who stressed mercy towards one another.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    This segment focuses on real-life scenarios where grudges cause rifts between close relationships, such as siblings and spouses, questioning the logic behind allowing trivial issues to ruin deep bonds. The speaker highlights the absurdity of such situations and urges people to consider the importance of forgiving and mending relationships instead of letting misunderstandings escalate into lifelong conflicts.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    The discussion shifts to the consequences of holding onto grudges and seeking revenge, comparing it with people's desire for justice in interpersonal conflicts. The speaker discusses how this mentality can lead to a cycle of hurt and bitterness, drawing attention to how people often forget kindness in favor of resentment. He emphasizes that true justice lies in forgiveness and compassion instead of retaliation.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Using an example from the lives of the early Muslims, specifically an incident involving Abu Dharr and Bilal, the speaker showcases how real humility and acknowledgment of wrongdoing lead to reconciliation and forgiveness. The act of publicly seeking forgiveness is praised as a valuable and honorable trait, contrasting modern-day tendencies to quietly harbor grudges.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:29:39

    The final segment draws on the life of the Prophet Muhammad, illustrating how despite suffering great injustices and losses, he chose forgiveness and compassion when granted power over those who wronged him. The speaker highlights the irony of Muslims struggling to forgive fellow believers while following a Prophet who epitomized mercy and forgiveness, urging adherence to such principles in discord rather than mirroring worldly attitudes.

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视频问答

  • Why is forgiveness important?

    Forgiveness is crucial as it aligns with the teachings of Islam and reflects a believer's heart. It is essential for maintaining relationships with others and with Allah.

  • What does Islam say about holding grudges?

    Islam teaches that holding grudges is harmful and not aligned with the spirit of being a true believer.

  • Is it okay to not forgive someone?

    According to the speaker, there are no valid circumstances where one has a right to not forgive, emphasizing that forgiveness is obligatory for believers.

  • How does unforgiveness affect one's relationship with Allah?

    Unforgiveness jeopardizes one's spiritual standing, as forgiveness is a means to receive Allah's mercy.

  • What examples are given about forgiveness?

    Examples include conflicts between family members, friends, and historical instances from the lives of the Prophet Muhammad and his companions.

  • What is the sunnah regarding forgiveness?

    The sunnah emphasizes showing mercy and forgiveness towards others, mirroring the compassion exhibited by the Prophet Muhammad.

  • How should one approach someone they've wronged?

    One should acknowledge their wrongdoing, apologize sincerely, and seek forgiveness without pride.

  • What attitudes towards forgiveness are criticized?

    The speaker criticizes attitudes that perceive forgiveness as weakness or an act of submission.

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    my brothers i wanted to speak to you
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    about a topic that absolutely no one in
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    this hall today
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    no one and i mean absolutely no one is
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    free from this topic
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    and that's the issue of forgiveness
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    either you've been hurt
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    or someone has hurt you before
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    and by no means am i here now to talk to
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    you about the
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    you know about the rewards of
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    forgiveness and that if you forgive that
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    this is a noble thing and that it makes
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    you a good person no
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    today we're here to push buttons
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    today we're here to put soul to a wound
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    that we don't like to talk about
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    today i'm here to tell you that if you
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    don't forgive
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    if you don't forgive
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    then woe to you the day you stand before
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    allah
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    you see many of us we tend to think that
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    forgiveness is an option that i have
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    that if i want i'll forgive but if i
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    don't want brother i'm going to hold on
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    to this to the day of resurrection
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    i'm going to hold on to this to the day
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    of resurrection
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    doesn't work like that because a part of
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    being a believer a part of being a
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    muslim a part of being the follower of
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    rasulallah
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    is to have a heart that forgives not
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    only does it forgive but it loves to
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    forgive
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    regardless of the crime
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    so because i'm sure your mind is already
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    going through a process or he's probably
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    think you know he's probably speaking
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    about forgiveness on small issues
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    light issues no i'm here to tell you
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    today that there is absolutely no
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    scenario no issue no situation that you
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    could put forward before me that gives
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    you any right to not forgive your muslim
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    brother
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    nothing and this is being
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    this is real being
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    this is the dean of the heart
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    this is the dean of breaking the nafs
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    the deen that no one likes to play with
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    the deen that no one likes to play with
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    our beloved prophet muhammad sallam and
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    let me make things clear by no means am
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    i saying you need to forgive because the
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    person that you're forgiving is worthy
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    of your forgiveness that's irrelevant
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    here today i'm here to tell you that you
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    have to forgive because you forgiving
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    one another has nothing to do with the
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    individual though there is benefit but
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    has everything to do with you and allah
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    subhanahu wa'ta'ala
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    the prophet of allah says
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    forgive one another have rahma amongst
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    one another why
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    why because they're muslims
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    why because they're deserving of it he
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    says have mercy show compassion towards
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    one another why our prophet of allah
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    he says so the one in the heavens may
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    show mercy and compassion towards us
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    towards you
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    forgive
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    today let's hashtag today's hoodba as
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    let it go
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    let it go my brother
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    let it go my sister no matter what is
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    happening in your life no matter how
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    dramatic shaytaan has painted your
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    scenario or your situation it's only
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    from shaitaan and the key to everything
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    is to just let it go man
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    let it go why because that's the sunnah
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    of your habibs
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    he says he says show compassion to one
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    another why so the one in the heavens
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    can can show compassion and mercy and
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    forgiveness towards us
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    today we live in a world
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    where it's praised the more you hold the
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    grudge then the more it's praised and
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    common terms forgive me i know some
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    people tell me brother it's friday hudba
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    and it's unappropriate to use this sort
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    of language brother we're here to
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    deliver a message i'm not here to speak
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    appropriately and no one walks out
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    understanding what the hell i'm on about
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    now we're here to speak a language so
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    that we understand today we live in a
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    culture we want to forgive is a sign of
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    what it's a sign of weakness bro what
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    you think i'm a gronk
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    you think i'm a grown kid think about
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    well no way in the world brother it's
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    become an issue of pride but who the
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    hell do you think you are yani
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    who on god's green earth do you think
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    you are to hold something and carry it
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    in your heart and look at the language i
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    don't forgive to the day of judgment
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    wow man
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    really
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    really
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    what sunnah is this
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    what deen is this
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    because it's most definitely not from
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    islam
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    and it's most certainly not the sunnah
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    of muhammad
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    to hold on to grudges
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    for what
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    for what
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    my brothers examples i don't have time
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    but examples and i'm sure every one of
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    you knows the scenario
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    wallahi blood brothers
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    blood brothers they grew up they came
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    out of the same womb out of the same
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    mother they circled on the same breast
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    they lived and stepped and grew up in
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    the same bedroom
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    from the same plate and drained from the
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    same cup
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    today they don't speak to one another
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    why
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    because his wife said that my wife said
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    deal with your life
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    how does it possibly sit in any same
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    mind
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    that my brother the one who i grew up
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    with
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    i allow a woman to get in between me and
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    him
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    what deen is this
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    father and son that don't talk to one
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    another
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    mates mates that grew up on the streets
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    they lived by
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    brother we did have us together
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    we were like that in habas
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    10 years i did time with him 10 years
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    i'll take a bullet for him bro
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    one drama
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    one incident
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    and all hell breaks loose
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    [Music]
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    where did the hearts go man
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    husband and wife for 10 15 years
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    [Music]
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    yeah we uh we had a divorce
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    why well what happened
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    [Music]
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    my wife showed me a post once on the
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    internet a woman was having some
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    troubles with her husband she's asking
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    for advice she has three kids
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    i quote
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    three kids
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    husband and wife
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    you shed the same bed for years
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    you ate from the same for years
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    brother how big could your drama be
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    brother we're human beings everyone
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    makes mistakes
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    you're not perfect i'm not perfect
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    but why is it that when a drama comes
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    this is unforgivable why
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    why
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    10 years marriage kids between one
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    another she's asking for advice her
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    husband whatever he did
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    so one of the sisters in a nice hijab
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    masha'allah she writes back to the
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    sister
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    and i quote
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    the hell with him
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    wow man just like that the hell with him
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    just like that bro
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    [Music]
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    we forgot all the good times just like
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    that the hell with him
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    what is this man
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    so then there's always a scholar amongst
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    us who comes to me yes we brother and i
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    give phone calls all the time
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    brother all i want is my heart
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    i'm not asking for anything more than my
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    heart brother is there anything wrong
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    with what i'm asking
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    i'm not asking for an inch more and not
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    an inch less so in his mind shaytan is
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    making him think brother that's your
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    right cuz
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    doesn't allah say look i love how we
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    quote
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    that suit my nufs
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    doesn't
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    [Music]
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    when they got married
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    the sheikh
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    why because it's the opening of the
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    quran and said that the hearts can
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    flourish and we can come together but
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    then when there's dramas it's my lawyer
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    versus your lawyer
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    when the kids are with me on the weekend
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    your mum's a dog your mom's a hayaway
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    your mom said this your mom's a dad
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    then when the kids are with the mama
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    then when the kids are with the mum you
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    know throughout the week your fathers
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    are one two three she wipes the floor in
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    the toilets with him day and night
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    well man just like that just like that
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    the brother forgive let it go no way
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    brother
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    my heart i want my heart
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    i tell you fine
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    so the brother says to me is there
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    anything wrong i tell him brother
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    there's nothing wrong with you asking
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    for your heart there's nothing wrong
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    with you telling the eye for an eye and
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    a tooth for a tooth but i'm telling you
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    this now that if you open this door with
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    people allah is going to open this door
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    with you on the day of resurrection and
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    if allah opens the door of tooth for a
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    tooth and an eye for an eye
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    you're in the world to her
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    every single one of us has troubles in
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    his life every single one of us has made
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    mistakes every single one of us is a
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    sinner and every single one of us is
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    hopeful and wishful that when i stand
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    before allah on the day of resurrection
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    allah is going to turn a blind eye and
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    forgive all my sins
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    yet you can't even forgive the person
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    you grew up with for years of your life
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    for one issue
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    you can't even forgive
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    and people told me brother but it's my
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    heart it's my right let me tell you
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    bluntly brother there is no ha in this
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    world the only high you will ever have
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    is when you stand before allah in front
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    of the real judge in the real court then
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    and only then will you ever really get
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    your heart this world will never ever
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    ever do you justice
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    wherever really my brothers were lying
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    where are we man
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    forgive me you know if i'm a bit too
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    allah in my heart hurts me hurts me
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    when i see two people who before the
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    drama they're the most religious and god
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    fearing on
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    allah brother we're like this
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    i forgive you and i love you for the
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    sake of allah but as soon as you step on
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    my toes what was once a nice bed is a
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    piece of filtrate throws it right out
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    the door come here your little this and
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    there and let me well man
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    what happened cuz what happened
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    yeah he disrespected me
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    let it go man
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    let it get not for you for allah's sake
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    let it go let it go
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    those that show mercy and compassion
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    towards one another
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    the one in the heavens will show mercy
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    and compassion towards them you see my
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    brothers you know what i love about the
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    sahaba
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    the sahaba were real people
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    many of us we like to praise the sahabah
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    so much so
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    to the point where we start painting
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    this picture like they never did
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    anything wrong well you're very wrong
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    sahabah did a lot of things wrong but
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    that's what was beautiful about them
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    because they made mistakes then the way
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    they dealt with their mistakes is what
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    makes them so special and so unique
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    my time is short
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    one particular incident
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    after one of the battles there was booty
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    of war gold silver
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    swords shields stuff like this
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    so the sahaba gathered there's a lot of
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    it's money
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    so they started sharing their opinions
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    as to how they should distribute this
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    wealth and please don't listen to the
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    story for the she entertainment of it
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    live the story brother try to imagine
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    i'm not sharing with you walt disney
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    fairy tales these are real stories of
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    your fathers
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    why
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    not to entertain you but to learn
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    because you know what my brothers the
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    truth is
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    when really push comes to shove we don't
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    follow the sunnah of rasulallah
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    deep down we're gangsters that's what we
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    are man
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    and being a gangster doesn't necessarily
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    mean you've got tattoos and he used to
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    sell drugs on the streets
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    that are more gangsters than any
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    youngster on the street that i can ever
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    be
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    gangsta with your character and your
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    attitude
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    we don't follow rasulullah
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    we follow people like tony montana in
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    scarface yeah and tupac in my body show
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    that's how it is on the streets brother
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    what din is this man
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    so the sahaba
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    each man gave his opinion
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    then abu dharr gave his opinion on the
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    matter
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    for those of you who don't know abu
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    dharr
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    is arab arab arabia and he makes an arab
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    feel like he's a non-arab
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    you can't be any more arab than what a
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    buddha was
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    also gave his opinion
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    today mosques i was in canada the
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    brother
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    mosques
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    mosques are waiting in courts to deal
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    with the issues why because brother i
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    gave my opinion and this guy
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    disrespected me when we were in the
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    meeting so now it's me versus him and
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    mosques are going to war with each other
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    why
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    who's headed but i gave my opinion why
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    anyone against me
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    doesn't know who i am
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    i've been here for 10 years brother this
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    guy's only been on the boat for five
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    years
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    these are the people that are leading
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    our message masha'allah
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    [Music]
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    sabudar gave his opinion
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    then the next person was bill o'neil
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    not only used to be a slave
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    but an obsidian slave meaning he was
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    black
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    so as far as society is concerned talk
  • 00:15:25
    about being rock bottom
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    but you see islam came to break this
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    so when bilal gave his opinion he says
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    abu dharr i disagree with you
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    [Music]
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    allah
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    i think this is what we should do with
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    the world
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    [Music]
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    imagine being put on the spot in front
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    of everyone
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    he says even you yeah
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    even you you son of a black woman even
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    you're going to disagree with me today
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    these are big words
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    so bilal rightfully so got very upset he
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    picked himself up and went to the
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    prophet of allah
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    now i want to pause you for a minute
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    because
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    i want to prove my point that we don't
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    follow the sun of rasulullah sallam we
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    follow the sunnah
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    montana
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    and maulana tupac
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    when we hear the story of the sahaba
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    we exclude our life when our societies
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    work because it's different times
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    my brothers i want to ask you sincerely
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    and i want you to answer sincere
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    this act that bilan did by picking
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    himself up and going to the prophet of
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    allah to complain
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    what is this act called in this day and
  • 00:16:46
    age that we live in today
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    he's a snitch
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    true or not
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    brother we have a drama you pick
  • 00:16:59
    yourself up to don't complain
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    what are you a woman bro
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    that's sri language
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    you see but bilan wasn't corrupted by
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    your tupac and your tony montana bilal
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    was affected by your prophet who you
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    claim that you follow
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    you see bill had something in his heart
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    so he went to someone that can help him
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    with this situation you and i
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    [Music]
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    that makes me less of a man
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    i'm gonna hold that in my heart for the
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    next 20 years i'm gonna fresh him back
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    bite him wipe the floor with him slander
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    him with any opportunity that i can get
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    for the next 20 years
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    but i won't go to someone that just
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    might be able to help my situation
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    goes
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    he tells the prophet of allah
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    the prophet of allah became
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    furious
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    so the prophet of allah he comes
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    he goes to where buddha was
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    and he grabs
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    he grabs abu dharr
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    talk about bridging up this right now
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    was breaching up
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    and he grabs abu dharr and shakes him
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    and says
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    you are a man that still has jahilia in
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    his heart
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    [Music]
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    [Music]
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    bro
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    see let me tell you the difference
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    between a man
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    and a so-called man
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    a real man is a man when he
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    when he acknowledges that he really was
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    in the wrong he admits that he's in the
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    wrong
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    sabudara lowers his head
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    he understands that he hurt his brother
  • 00:19:03
    he understands he upset his prophet so
  • 00:19:05
    how did he deal with the situation
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    did he stop praying at that masjid so
  • 00:19:10
    that i don't see bill
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    because that's how we deal with our
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    issues isn't it
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    [Music]
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    acknowledging that he's in the wrong he
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    picks himself up he goes into the
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    streets of medina looking for belarus
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    then when he sees and he finds bill he
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    goes to bill publicly leave this with me
  • 00:19:36
    publicly in front of everyone he goes to
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    bell in front of everyone and gets down
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    on the floor and says to bella yabil
  • 00:19:44
    by allah i will not lift my head off the
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    floor until you step on it with your
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    foot and let it be known right here
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    right now in madinah which one of us
  • 00:19:55
    today is the honor and which one of us
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    today bella is the dishonored one
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    come on man how come i haven't heard
  • 00:20:08
    this story before bro
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    so what did bill do
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    he's vulnerable
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    he's on the floor
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    he acknowledged
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    i told you i told you i was in the right
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    what did he do
  • 00:20:28
    wallahi an opportunity that most of us
  • 00:20:31
    would love to have with those that hurt
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    us
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    you see real forgiveness
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    is to forgive from your heart sincerely
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    whether you can do something about it or
  • 00:20:42
    you can't
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    you see there are many of us who have
  • 00:20:44
    issues and dramas with other people and
  • 00:20:47
    we paint on the outside than our brother
  • 00:20:49
    man i forgive him for the sake of allah
  • 00:20:50
    you little kazabi little spinner the
  • 00:20:53
    only reason that you claim that you
  • 00:20:55
    forgive him is not because you really
  • 00:20:57
    forgive him the truth is is you can't do
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    anything to this guy anyway so really by
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    default by the fact that i physically
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    can't do anything i disguise my weakness
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    we thought now allah i forgive him for
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    the sake of allah
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    but deep down in your heart
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    deep down in your heart if you got the
  • 00:21:18
    news that a bus hit him
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    your heart will start to do the dub
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    keeper
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    [Music]
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    some brothers told me you know
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    [Music]
  • 00:21:39
    you forgive but you don't forget
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    well i've got news for you bro
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    if you forgive but don't forget
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    you didn't forgive to begin with
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    [Music]
  • 00:21:51
    you see this topic's not as juicy as
  • 00:21:53
    what you first thought i why because
  • 00:21:55
    it's hard on the nufs
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    because this is real dean
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    this is real dean
  • 00:22:03
    so what did bilal do
  • 00:22:06
    bilal gets down on his hands and knees
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    he kisses abu dharr on the forehead he
  • 00:22:10
    says
  • 00:22:10
    you're i forgive you for the sake of
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    allah done finished dusted never to be
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    spoken about again
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    [Music]
  • 00:22:20
    not drag it on for 10 15 years
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    [Music]
  • 00:22:24
    not forget the fact that hours before
  • 00:22:26
    this they were both on the they were
  • 00:22:28
    both on the same battlefield fighting
  • 00:22:30
    for the same lord
  • 00:22:31
    [Music]
  • 00:22:35
    see we don't have this in our societies
  • 00:22:37
    anymore man
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    why because today weakness is seen as
  • 00:22:41
    what forgiveness is seen as what but
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    that's weakness brother
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    that's a real man
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    because we claim that we follow
  • 00:22:51
    rasulallah
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    i don't need you to die for his honor i
  • 00:23:07
    need you to live for his honor i want
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    you to live like him
  • 00:23:11
    your beloved prophet and of course you
  • 00:23:13
    see
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    this this is the side of rasulullah that
  • 00:23:16
    we don't want to talk about what my
  • 00:23:18
    brothers are taken over by allah forgive
  • 00:23:20
    me if these words are a bit harsh but i
  • 00:23:22
    tell you now and this is my own personal
  • 00:23:24
    opinion wallahi even our love for the
  • 00:23:27
    deen even our love for the sahaba is the
  • 00:23:29
    love of dunya
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    [Music]
  • 00:23:33
    nobody here loves
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    most loved probably one of the most
  • 00:23:38
    loved he's definitely my favorite nobody
  • 00:23:41
    he loves
  • 00:23:43
    because he had permanent marks on his
  • 00:23:44
    cheeks from crying out of fear of allah
  • 00:23:50
    when his name was mentioned the kafir
  • 00:23:52
    used to shake in their knees
  • 00:23:55
    no one loves
  • 00:23:57
    because he had permanent marks on his
  • 00:23:59
    shoulders why because he was servicing
  • 00:24:02
    the community in the late hours of the
  • 00:24:04
    night when everyone was asleep and
  • 00:24:06
    wasn't watching
  • 00:24:08
    he didn't love hammer for that he loved
  • 00:24:10
    ahmad because he was a man brother when
  • 00:24:12
    he rocked up cause everyone buckled
  • 00:24:15
    [Music]
  • 00:24:19
    the prophet of allah who we claim we
  • 00:24:21
    love
  • 00:24:23
    because i'm sure you're thinking in your
  • 00:24:25
    mind
  • 00:24:26
    brother may allah reward you very nice
  • 00:24:28
    goodbye very emotional very touching
  • 00:24:30
    because you don't understand what this
  • 00:24:33
    person did to me is unforgivable
  • 00:24:36
    [Music]
  • 00:24:40
    and i repeat
  • 00:24:41
    there is absolutely no scenario i don't
  • 00:24:44
    care if you shot your mother he shot
  • 00:24:46
    your father he raped your child i don't
  • 00:24:48
    care what scenario you could possibly
  • 00:24:51
    throw at me
  • 00:24:54
    forgiveness is the key
  • 00:24:57
    the prophet of allah for 13 years in
  • 00:24:59
    makkah leave this with me
  • 00:25:02
    13 years in makkah
  • 00:25:05
    prosecuted harmed sworn at spirit had
  • 00:25:09
    dust thrown in his face
  • 00:25:12
    they killed his companions for what
  • 00:25:15
    for what
  • 00:25:16
    what crime did he do
  • 00:25:18
    what crime did he do
  • 00:25:20
    what he looked at someone's sister
  • 00:25:22
    why he didn't cough up his money at the
  • 00:25:24
    end of the business transaction
  • 00:25:26
    what crime did he do
  • 00:25:30
    13 years
  • 00:25:32
    they boycotted him and his family for
  • 00:25:34
    three years
  • 00:25:36
    sahaba said we were eating the leaves
  • 00:25:37
    off the trees until our droppings our
  • 00:25:40
    droppings became like the droppings of
  • 00:25:42
    animals for three years
  • 00:25:44
    for what
  • 00:25:47
    what crime
  • 00:25:50
    they divorced his daughters
  • 00:25:53
    [Music]
  • 00:25:55
    in front of the prophet
  • 00:25:56
    publicly i'm not telling you allah you
  • 00:25:58
    know what that i started sending around
  • 00:26:00
    or what's a video about what no no no
  • 00:26:03
    publicly live in front of the prophet
  • 00:26:06
    and his companions they grabbed sumaya a
  • 00:26:09
    woman
  • 00:26:10
    a woman
  • 00:26:12
    they grabbed her publicly they opened
  • 00:26:15
    her legs in front of her husband and her
  • 00:26:17
    son and they ran the speed to her
  • 00:26:19
    private parts until they killed her
  • 00:26:24
    they exiled him from his land
  • 00:26:27
    exiled him for 18 months in madina 18
  • 00:26:31
    months he was crying
  • 00:26:33
    why
  • 00:26:34
    because he was missing he was missing
  • 00:26:36
    the kaaba so much
  • 00:26:38
    [Music]
  • 00:26:40
    they stabbed his pregnant daughter
  • 00:26:43
    as a result she lost her child
  • 00:26:45
    eight or six a few months later she
  • 00:26:48
    ended up dying in medina
  • 00:26:51
    he buried every one of his children
  • 00:26:53
    while he was alive
  • 00:26:56
    except for fatima
  • 00:26:59
    in
  • 00:27:00
    you know it's one thing to go to war and
  • 00:27:01
    kill that's fine he killed the man in
  • 00:27:04
    ohio they massacred the dead
  • 00:27:07
    his uncle hamza they cut his nose off
  • 00:27:09
    they cut his ears off they ripped his
  • 00:27:10
    liver out hen took a bite from his liver
  • 00:27:13
    and sparred on the floor
  • 00:27:15
    sahaba said when the prophet of allah
  • 00:27:17
    seen hamza we never seen him cry like he
  • 00:27:20
    cried when he seen his uncle hamza in
  • 00:27:22
    narrations
  • 00:27:24
    he prayed janezza for his uncle 70 times
  • 00:27:28
    [Music]
  • 00:27:31
    so much heart and so
  • 00:27:35
    [Music]
  • 00:27:46
    and now he comes back victorious
  • 00:27:49
    with an army of ten thousand companions
  • 00:27:53
    and army the which arabia never seen in
  • 00:27:56
    their lives
  • 00:27:59
    men who at the drop of the word were
  • 00:28:01
    happy to give their lives just to see
  • 00:28:04
    him smile
  • 00:28:08
    he enters into the ma he enters into the
  • 00:28:10
    haram of makkah ten thousand soldiers
  • 00:28:13
    surrounding and those people that harmed
  • 00:28:15
    him for years and years and years
  • 00:28:18
    [Music]
  • 00:28:20
    not muslims
  • 00:28:23
    and i'm asking you to forgive your
  • 00:28:25
    muslim brother
  • 00:28:26
    god forbid i should ask you to forgive
  • 00:28:28
    kefar
  • 00:28:35
    so i'm not even going to dare to go down
  • 00:28:37
    that road god forbid we should follow
  • 00:28:39
    the sunnah of rasulullah
  • 00:28:42
    he enters into the haram 10 000 soldiers
  • 00:28:45
    surrounding the haram those people that
  • 00:28:47
    harmed him for years and years
  • 00:28:51
    where they're going to go now bro
  • 00:28:53
    talk about the tables turning huh
  • 00:28:58
    so he looks at them
  • 00:28:59
    [Music]
  • 00:29:01
    he says to them and and what do you
  • 00:29:03
    think i will do with you today what do
  • 00:29:05
    you think i will do today
  • 00:29:09
    they said you're an honorable generous
  • 00:29:11
    person the son of an honorable generous
  • 00:29:14
    person
  • 00:29:17
    the prophet of allah turns around and
  • 00:29:19
    says to the kuffar
  • 00:29:21
    is
  • 00:29:23
    go every single one of you are free i
  • 00:29:26
    forgive you
  • 00:29:32
    where's this sunnah in our lives man
  • 00:29:36
    where's this deen
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