After These Life Lessons, You'll See Life in a Whole New Light (Advice from Elders)

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摘要

TLDRThe passage offers insightful advice on personal development and resilience. It cautions against sharing too much with others, as they may not always remain allies. It emphasizes the importance of being comfortable with being disliked in order to act freely, and notes that we teach others how to treat us through our behavior. Emotions in themselves aren't bad, rather it's our reactions to them that matter, and channeling them constructively is key. Acceptance of people’s true nature without trying to change them is advised. It speaks to the value of learning from responsibility and that starting over means beginning with experience, not from scratch. There's emphasis on kindness over correctness, and maintaining mental freedom from uncontrollable matters. Having too many priorities equates to having none, and life should be cherished lest it pass by unnoticed. Ultimately, life is about navigating and utilizing experiences, even through difficulties.

心得

  • 🤫 Keep your progress and plans private; allies may turn rivals.
  • 💪 Develop a willingness to be disliked for freedom.
  • 🧠 Train others how to treat you through your behavior.
  • 🎨 Accept people’s true colors, don’t try to change them.
  • 🤝 Choose kindness over being right.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Free your mind from what you can't control.
  • ⏳ Limit your priorities; too many means none.
  • 👁️ Life is fast; stop and observe it to not miss it.
  • 🔄 Starting over means starting with experience, not from scratch.
  • 🌦️ Learn to dance in the rain, not wait for the storm to pass.

时间轴

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    Avoid boasting about progress or revealing plans as allies can turn adversarial. Embrace being disliked to act freely despite unpopularity. Train others in how to treat you, understanding transitory relations. Manage emotions constructively and know true character through actions. Embrace new starts from experience, value kindness over rightness, and keep priorities limited. Recognize life's fleeting nature and endings as new beginnings. Learn resilience rather than waiting for challenges to pass.

思维导图

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常见问题

  • Why shouldn't you tell people your plans?

    Because friends today may become enemies tomorrow.

  • How should you treat being disliked?

    Develop a willingness to be disliked for the freedom to do what needs to be done.

  • How do you train people to treat you?

    You train people how to treat you through your actions, either consciously or unconsciously.

  • What should you do when someone shows their true colors?

    Don’t try to change or repaint their true image.

  • What should you choose between being right and being kind?

    Choose kindness over being right.

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