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there is an extraordinary story, there used to be a friend of the prophet, his name was Sya'ban,
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radhiyallahu Anhu. Do you know him? [Music]
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friends, radhiyallahu Anhu, were the people who came most diligently to the mosque
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every day without fail, at dawn, midday, Asr Maghrib Isha, and were the hardest
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to carry out . Congregational prayer If you want to count the congregation at dawn, never mind
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the congregation, Ustadzah, we wake up at home at dawn, it's also hard. It's no joke, ma'am, that's right,
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those people who wake up at dawn, assholatu khairum minannaum, we've
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heard the alarm, we set 5 alarms. Husband, one alarm, wife, one child
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. all three alarms went off but they didn't wake up, they just
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turned it off, five minutes later the alarm was changed again, another 5 minutes, another 10 minutes, why? Because
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for hypocrites, for people who have difficulty getting close to
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Allah, waking up at dawn feels like a tough test, but for people who have
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deepening to wake up at dawn, never mind at dawn, he wakes up from his tahajud. He is already
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literate and already Istiqomah with that tahajud.
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God willing, getting to dawn is no longer difficult. It's no different from someone who wakes up at 8
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in the morning. It's hard to wake up. Ustadzah, I don't wake up at dawn, I don't tahajud, I don't wake up at
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Dhuha, finally my prayer is plural tahajud. dawn and Dhuha,
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well, this is our test, ma'am, to be someone who improves his prayers from dawn
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, then Allah will improve his life too, so if there are many people who confide in
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ustadzah, oh Allah, how come my Rizki has a hard time, if only my partner fights, how come
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the family seems to be sick, check Sundanese people's names. there are lots of
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headaches, debts that don't get resolved, don't get paid off, why don't you, Ustaz
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[Laughs] What is the solution, how come it seems like
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there has never been a solution to the problems I'm facing, so
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the answer is that if we want to get a solution to
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the problems we have, we have to improve your prayers first, especially
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the morning prayer, that's why people used to say, ma'am,
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it's already dawn. Don't go to sleep or else your luck will be pecked by a chicken. You can do that, ma'am. Yes, your
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luck will be pecked by a chicken. It means that the chicken only builds it at dawn when it's dawn.
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Kukuruyuk tap tap tap tap for him to look for rabbits everywhere. It's a shame
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if the chickens in the morning are looking for Rizki everywhere but Humans are still in
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their blankets and there is no effort at all. God willing, ladies and gentlemen who are
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glorified by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala today, our theme is extraordinarily
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interesting. Istiqomah Do
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good. I want to ask the same question. Ladies, Mrs.
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Istiqomah is easy or difficult Mothers recite the Koran Every Saturday, if Hakim is easy
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or difficult, it is difficult Ustadzah, there are obstacles,
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right, praying five times a day at the beginning, easy or difficult, especially Ustazah,
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if you are going to pray the Isha prayer, ladies are watching
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later . I've been waiting for the new advertisement, we perform
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ablution for the Isha prayer, even waiting for the soap opera to finish, I fall asleep until dawn, that's why the
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hardest prayer is the morning prayer and the prayer
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for istiqomah in good deeds is difficult, especially I want to discuss the
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initial prayer
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[Music] which is our first charity. First
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of all, what Allah is reckoned with is what you pray,
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so you don't have any other deeds. Pray first Alfar Qubainal Muslimul Kufr. The
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difference between a Muslim or an infidel. The difference between whether he is religious or not is
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seen from his prayers. It seems like a person who prays well must have a better
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personality. The better his life, the better his problems. Hurry, God, love, don't
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go out. Why fix the prayer? How can we be istiqomah in performing
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the five daily prayers? Let's put aside the sunnah prayer first, Tahajud, Dhuha qobliyah
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ba'diyah. Focus on the five daily prayers, dawn, noon, midday, midday,
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it's difficult. Ustadzah's istiqomah is hard, no joke
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, especially for being serious in prayer. It's also difficult, so what are the tips for us to
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be steadfast in prayer, the first thing is to make prayer a
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necessity, not an obligation.
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So far, we think that prayer is necessary or obligatory.
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If we don't pray, it's not a sin, that means the level of prayer
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on our part is still low, not a necessity, Sis. It must be an obligation. what
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is the definition of doing it and getting a reward, leaving it behind getting sins, so
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it turns out that what gives us the pursuit of leaving and praying
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is the reward for committing sins, we think we will get a reward from Allah,
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leave it behind, oh Allah, I'm afraid sin is still there, the level of our faith
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If people have a higher level of faith then they
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will change their mindset to the mindset that prayer is no longer an obligation but
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a necessity for us, ma'am, everyday humans, eating
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is obligatory or is it obligatory? How many times a day is it obligatory? How many meals a day is it obligatory
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? What do you need, do you need three meals a day? If
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you eat once a day [Music] you
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're tired, you're naturally hungry, you're always grumbling, you're fighting with your husband and so on.
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Why, because eating is a necessity for humans, drinking, what is necessary, what is required,
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what is required, is what is required, if we don't drink, we can get dehydrated, get sick, etc.,
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that means we have considered sleeping is no longer mandatory,
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eating is no longer mandatory, if we consider prayer as a
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necessity, it is no longer an obligation, it means our level of faith is above average,
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so God willing, who is present, let's change it. Our prayers are no longer an obligation
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but a necessity
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if we eat physical food. praying remembrance, reading the Koran, spiritual intake,
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we don't pray, we haven't prayed, there's something lacking in our heart, haven't
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we fed it properly, ma'am, we haven't done dhikr, we haven't read the Koran, there's something lacking, oh
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Allah, why is there something empty in my heart, why hasn't my heart been fed,
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so I pray that's the spiritual food we need, we neglect prayer, something is
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missing, it feels like we're neglecting prayer, it's different, it feels like our life is what we
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have to change, first, make prayer a
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prayer, Ma'am
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. what is obligatory is how to make sure that our obligatory prayers can be
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made special to someone. In fact, he knows that he is obligated to
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pray 5 times a day, but he only does two, for example midday prayer and Asr or
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Asar. He only does it. There are Muslims whose religion is only his Islamic ID card. That's right,
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he doesn't really ask what religion he is, ma'am. This Islam, look at my KTP, is Islam, but
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actually he is not a true Muslim. Why is the prayer still spotty? Bentong is
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left behind, so that the second Istiqomah understands that the prayer we
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do is the closest moment to confide in God or Allah Subhanahu
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Wa Ta'ala, so prayer is a time of approach. with Allah
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Mother prostrates Mother prostrates third prostrations Read a lot of prayers
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Ustadzah Subhanallah
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is the closest time to Allah so don't waste it Min Ashari prostrates
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people who pray diligently, we can see that when we meet people look at
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the light on their faces like mothers Everyone who was present had their faces glowing
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under the lamp
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, but God willing, Min Ashari, everyone is prostrating, yes, everyone who is diligent in praying
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is like that, people who are diligent in prostrating even
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prostrate for a long time, so there are many
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signs of being a man or woman who are diligent in prostrating. He said the one with the black forehead, yes
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, but not everyone has a black forehead, he is also a diligent person,
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there are those with black foreheads who are plump and so on, so there are other characteristics,
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Simahum Ashari prostrates, there is a different light from the other faces,
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so a person if he is an expert Wudu expert prostrates his prayers at the beginning of the wake at
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the beginning of that time, he can see us. People have calming faces so that their faces
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don't use expensive skin care so that the makeup isn't expensive. This makeup
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is just a pipe, it's just a pipe. Yes, Kelly, it's like she only uses it when we meet
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Amani, Mashallah. Don't worry, yes, there's an unusual light on her face.
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Even though she's not wearing foundation, she's not using moisturizer, she's not using cushion.
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Yes, she's not using anything. Yes, she's not wearing anything. But when
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we meet, it's so shady. Her face is nice to look at. There's a different light
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. -it's different from the light of the lamp, it's really nice to look at, it could be that this person
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is the person who has the sign [Music]
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Yes, that's a friend of the Prophet Bilal bin Rabah, yes, I know, yes, I like listening to it, the Muezzin whose
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voice Masha Allah was in the time of the Prophet, was
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a friend who was diligent in ablution, even The Apostle had not yet entered heaven when
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Isra Mi'raj happened, he could already hear the sound of his sandals, Bilal bin
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Rabah, because his sandals were often worn for prostration,
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often used for ablution because his ablution was invalidated, the ablution was invalidated a little bit, which is different
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from us, sometimes we do ablution if we want to pray, yes, if we want to. Others
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just don't do it, even though performing ablution is already sunnah
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doing good things, including before going to bed,
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I was there yesterday ma'am, read in one story, yes, on
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tik tok, there was a story about yesterday wallahualam, this story is true or
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not, but because he practiced the sunnah
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ablution before going to bed, there Allah saved him from
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committing adultery. So more or less short story
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like this, we can take Ibrah as well as a lesson, ma'am. So, if you want to
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sleep, don't go straight to bed, clean first, then read
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ta'awuz first. Read [music]
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verses for chairs and so on, so there is a prayer first, protection from Allah, prayer will
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sleeping and so on, this is a story from before,
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I don't know whether this is true or not, but if it is true, Masha
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Allah, this can be used as an example. There was a man who
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was married and had a wife, but his family was religious, husband and wife,
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there were no people who had not been tested by people who
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understood . Any religion that has a deep religion must be tested by men, what tests are there, ma'am,
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women, women are tested by
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money men [Laughs]
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There is a term that says like this, men are tested when women don't
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wear anything because women are the biggest slander to men. That's right
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, and women are tested when men don't have anything. So if women
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are tested when their husband doesn't have any money, doesn't have anything, he's broke, he
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doesn't have anything to provide for a living, here a wife is tested for her patience,
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her strength to accompany her partner is still not there. If you want
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to accompany your husband in a situation like that, that's right, ma'am. Yes, there are a lot of people who
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don't have the strength to take this test. Men are tested when they see a
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woman who apologizes for not wearing anything. This is a temptation for slander,
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that's why women have two choices. They want to be the best.
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world jewelry or at worst, world slander, women could be
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world slander, could it be World Jewelry, who is World Jewelry
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almar'atus Sholihah, the pious wife in World Jewelry loses diamonds, gold, silver,
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all of them are the same as almar'atus Sholihah, so this is a person who understands the religion of
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husband and wife, but one time her husband was tested with a woman.
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So there have been many stories, especially in big cities, people work in cinlok offices and
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so on. Yes, the test was definitely a woman.
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Long story short, he had a friend from his office who finally made him have sex
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but never committed adultery. Why do you remember his wife at one time?
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Maybe now In what way was the beauty shown by the devil
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related to the woman's lust aroused? Their appointment was at a
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hotel in a city. He told his wife. Dad has a meeting today. So
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maybe he'll go home tomorrow morning with his wife's permission because his wife
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feels that my husband is really an important person, so he often has meetings. and so
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on. Yes, there are no suspicions that
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in the end, they almost wanted to commit adultery. They came to a hotel, already
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passionate, both of them were in a state of lust.
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The woman took a shower first, cleaned up because they wanted to start
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their sin. After the woman had finished cleaning, she took a shower.
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It was the man's turn . -When he entered the bathroom, he took a shower and cleaned and
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he had the habit of ablution because he remembered that night
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when he had taken a shower, he cleaned then he did ablution
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and the ablution water at that time splashed the area of his body including his face,
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immediately the water was like slapped his face ma'am, it was like
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Allah was realizing what were you doing, what were you doing there, he realized and
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immediately made istighfar, O Allah, he was leaving his ablution, what was he doing? I was doing ablution, I
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was carrying out this sunnah, even though what I was doing was not an
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act of worship, I was starting a sin, Oh Allah, finally he came out with his ablution.
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He saw the woman who was ready to serve him there. Allah closed what was
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before. The lustful turmoil was changed. He was not at all interested in the woman
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because of the whole habit that he was Istiqomah
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so Istiqomah Al Istiqomah khairumin al-fil Karomah is better
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than 1000 Masha Allah's house so that people who are steadfast in
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whatever matters, whether they perform ablution, pray dhikr, read the Koran, have
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Karomah, glory, guard, blessings from Allah for these people,
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don't be ma'am. She commits adultery even though she is ready. A little goes home and she is grateful.
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with Allah, O Allah, maybe because he deepened and was istiqomah with
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ablution, this practice is a form of Allah's grace
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, that's why we also need to be istiqomah in any case, ladies here reciting the Koran
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Istiqomah yes Istiqomah
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Is the house glorious or what Allah's reward is, no need. we are
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looking for the one thing we are looking for the most, only one is Allah's grace,
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I recite the Koran, the intention is to get Allah's approval, if Allah is pleased, let alone the afterlife, the
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world is given to me and everything in it is given by Allah
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, so when I worship, the intention is not to chase the world anymore, but to focus on
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the afterlife, the world will follow, but if Whatever charity we intend for
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the world to come, the mother will not follow my intention of alms. What are
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my intentions for alms so that I can become a rich person, apparently I'm not rich after that, she
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doesn't want to alms anymore, how come I've given a lot of alms, but I'm not rich, that's what I
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'm looking for from my worship. is the world. Try if what he is looking for from alms
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is the blessing of Allah, he can get Allah's blessings. Allah loves the worship
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that I do. Allah said that from your alms, it's not just the grace that I
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give. But what do you want, the blessings of Rizki are added to the blessings of Allah,
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so from now on let's improve it The first weakness of our prayer is
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that we make prayer a necessity, not an obligation. The second is to understand that prayer is
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the closest moment to confide in us and get closer to Allah Subhanahu
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Wa Ta'ala.