Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_w_Jte7Bado

الملخص

TLDRVideo käsitleb tutvumise dünaamikat, rõhutades naiste teste meestele, et mõõta nende enesekindlust ja huvi. Testid hõlmavad näiteks kongruentsusteste, mis hindavad mehe mehelikkust, ja huvi teste, mis peegeldavad emotsionaalset investeeringut. Juhised respekteerimise jaoks, näiteks perioodilise pausi tegemiseks ja kuivadele suhetele vastamiseks, on samuti välja toodud. Tähtis on jääda kindlaks enda piiridele, identiteedile ja mitte liialdada vabandustega, et luua atraktiivsust. Video kogus on julgustada enesekindlust ja enesemõistmist romaanilistes suhetes liikumisel.

الوجبات الجاهزة

  • 🤔 Testide mõistmine on tutvumisel oluline.
  • 💔 Kui naine tõmbub tagasi, ignoreeri ja ela oma elu.
  • 💬 Kuiv küsitlemine on samuti test; mie peaks ülepakkuma.
  • 💪 Pea meeles, et sinu piirid on tähtsad.
  • 😌 Aga ära räägi rohkem kui naine; sobita oma energia.
  • ⚖️ Oluline on mitte needmis tundeid üles näidata.
  • 🤷‍♂️ Ole mugav, kui ta ütleb "ma ei tea, kas täna lähme kokku".
  • 😶 Naised testivad teiste meeste juttu, et näha su kadeduse taset.
  • 😎 Kinnita oma identiteeti; ära luba naisel sind vormida.
  • 🎭 Kui naine küsib sinult vaba aja kohta, arvesta selle tähtsust.

الجدول الزمني

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    Selles videos arutatakse meeste ja naiste vahelisi teste, mis esinevad kohtingutel. Testid jagunevad kaheks: kongruentsitestid, mis hindavad mehe enesekindlust, ja huvitestat, mis mõõdab naise jätkuvat huvi mehe vastu.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Keskendutakse sellele, kuidas meestel reageerida, kui naine 'erakordsetes' olukordades taandub. Mees peaks mitte käituma ärevasti, vaid lihtsalt jätkama oma elu taandujast, mis sageli suurendab naise huvi.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Testid 'kuiva' suhtumise osas käsitlevad olukordi, kus naised ei panusta vestlusse. Meestel soovitatakse mitte liialdada ja mitte paluda tähelepanu, vaid pigem tasakaalustada vestluse energiat.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Ahnuse testina esitleb naine, kes palub meestel tema kotti hoida. See, et ta küsib, võib olla märk tema soovist näha, kas mees on tema teenija. Oluline on mitte nõustuda sellega ja väita, et tal on võimalik kott ise hoida.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Spontaanne solvamine on ka test, et näha, kas mees jääb kindlaks oma enesetunde. Vastamiseks on kolm võimalust: nõustuda ja hüperboolida, erineda või lihtsalt ignoreerida. Tulemuseks on, et mees näitab, et ta ei lase naisel oma enesetunnet mõjutada.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:31:36

    Arutluse all on ka see, kui naine vaidleb. On soovitatav mitte laskuda vestlusesse, sest see toob kaasa naise põhiväärtuste muutmise, mis muudab suhte dünaamikat.

اعرض المزيد

الخريطة الذهنية

فيديو أسئلة وأجوبة

  • What are congruence tests?

    Congruence tests assess a man's confidence and masculinity.

  • How should I react when a woman pulls away?

    Do nothing and focus on your life; if she has genuine interest, she will reach out.

  • Is being dry communication a test?

    Yes, sometimes, it's a test to gauge your interest level. Match her energy instead of overcompensating.

  • What does it mean when she asks me to hold her purse?

    It can be a test to see if you'll become overly accommodating.

  • How to respond to insults from a woman?

    You can agree and amplify, disagree provocatively, or simply ignore it.

  • Why do women test men?

    Testing can indicate interest; they want to gauge emotional investment and confidence.

  • What to do if she says 'I have a boyfriend'?

    It can be a test; use discernment to decide whether to push further.

  • How can I avoid being disrespected in dating?

    Establish and maintain your boundaries and self-respect.

  • What does 'you seem like a player' mean?

    It's a test to see if you'll confirm or deny the label.

  • Is being late a test?

    Generally, if it's too late, it's a sign of disrespect rather than a test.

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    finally I get to cover a very very
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    exciting topic which is something that a
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    lot of guys struggle with a lot of guys
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    are going to experience this in their
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    day-to-day lives when they're going on
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    dates with women and sometimes from
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    women who they're not even interested in
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    they don't realize that this is
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    happening we're going to be talking
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    about the concept of tests for
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    those of you guys who don't know what a
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    test is it can essentially be
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    broken down into two components the
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    first thing we have is congruence tests
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    AKA like she's testing your confidence
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    she's trying to see your masculinity
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    she's trying to see if you're secure
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    within your identity and then the second
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    type of test is an interest test
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    which is to see how emotionally invested
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    you are in her or whether you're going
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    to go weak for her which ultimately
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    reveals your value in comparison to hers
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    CU if you want her more than she wants
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    you Watch What Happens watch the pulling
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    away watch the complete loss of interest
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    and watch her get out of that
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    relationship so I'm going to be ranking
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    how difficult these tests are to
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    pass right if it's it's a really hard
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    one to pass if it's really Advanced it's
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    going to go in one of these two tiers
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    and some things are considered
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    tests by the manosphere but they're
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    really not uh it's just pure disrespect
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    or she's just not interested in you so
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    those are going to go in this tier over
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    here as always if you want to see more
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    content like this subscribe and DM me on
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    Instagram if you want to talk oneon-one
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    let's get into the video so the first
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    thing we have here is pulling away
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    almost every guy is going to experience
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    this at some point down the line every
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    woman at some point pulls away you know
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    she might do this for 3 days she might
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    do this this for 5 days she might do
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    this for a few hours but at some point a
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    woman is going to be consistent and
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    you're going to think things are going
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    well and then all of a sudden on text
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    she's just going to poof disappear and
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    you're going to be sat there scratching
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    your head your anxiety is going to go up
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    you're going to get nervous what did I
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    do wrong what did I do dude you want to
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    know how to pass this easily you do
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    absolutely nothing because let me tell
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    you this most guys she pulls away
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    they're going to start getting desperate
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    they're going to start reaching out over
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    pursuing she's basically doing this to
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    see if you're going to overp pursue her
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    to see if you're going to get needy and
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    desperate and start you know running and
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    chasing after her while she's pulling
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    away all you have to do to pass this
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    it's so ridiculously easy is do nothing
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    at all go about your life mind your own
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    business and if she actually has genuine
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    interest she's going to reach out again
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    and that's when you know you've passed
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    the test and her interest is
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    actually going to go up after that so I
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    get it when women pull away it's very
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    annoying no guy really wants to
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    experience it but at the end of the day
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    it's like they're going to do it so you
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    might as well know how to respond with
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    when they do uh I'm probably going to
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    have to put this at final boss
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    difficulty honestly cuz most guys like
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    when you guys message me telling me oh
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    she pulled away what should I do do you
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    realize that you already lost because
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    she's in your head if she's in your head
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    after pulling away she got you she's
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    already winning all you have to do to
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    reverse the dynamic is just not care
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    enough to do anything about her pulling
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    away that's when she's going to come
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    back and that's when you've established
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    the correct masculine to feminine
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    polarity and that's when her interest
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    for you is actually going to Skyrock
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    next up we have being dry so this isn't
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    quite the same as pulling away there's a
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    few differences uh this could happen in
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    real life too where basically you know
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    she's not really engaging much in the
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    conversation she's not really doing
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    anything you feel like you're kind of
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    talking to yourself almost and even on
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    text she sending like one liners one
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    wers very very dry when a woman does
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    this sometimes it's not even a test
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    she's just not interested however you
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    have to use discernment here because
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    sometimes she does this to test your
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    interest level and how much you're
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    willing to invest when a woman all of a
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    sudden becomes dry and doesn't invest in
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    the conversation most guys are going to
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    start to overp pursue and they're going
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    to start to kind of compensate for her
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    dryness by talking more and trying to
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    impress her more almost like you're some
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    Jester almost like you're a circus show
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    trying to entertain her this isn't a
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    circus show bro you have absolutely no
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    obligation to entertain her when she's
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    dry all you have to do is match her
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    dryness cuz if she's not contributing to
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    the convor if she's not giving you
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    energy the last thing you want to do is
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    pour more and more of your energy into
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    it because all that doing is showing
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    that you care too much about her and
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    you're willing to sort of allow her to
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    be this dry boring person because you're
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    in a state of lust and you want to smash
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    so you're willing to deal with a chick
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    who's boring but if you notice that this
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    isn't some sort of test and she's always
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    being dry then this is absolutely not a
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    test and it's pure disrespect so
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    let's just assume that in this case
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    you've identified it to be a test
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    I'm probably going to put this one at
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    Advanced difficulty cuz for the same
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    reason is pulling away most guys get
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    very insecure when the woman isn't
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    really reciprocating their energy they
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    start to overcompensate and start to do
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    things that are out of character all you
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    have to do is just take some deep
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    breaths what really helped me during
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    these situations where I'm getting
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    nervous or anything is just breathing
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    you know when you breathe you're chill
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    you're relaxed you don't really care too
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    much and that is really what's going to
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    put you in the power and authority
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    position over her next up we have asking
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    you to hold her purse yeah this is going
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    straight to final boss difficulty
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    because a lot of guys would say dude
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    what do you mean dude like holding her
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    purse man that's not even deep
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    everything with women is deep the second
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    you start to think something isn't deep
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    and you start doing stuff without
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    actually recognizing what you're doing
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    over time this is when the interest law
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    starts to happen now of course in this
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    1% unique situation where she asks you
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    to hold her purse because she genuinely
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    can't okay fine hold the damn purse but
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    make no mistake in most situations this
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    is actually a test because she can
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    hold her purse she's just trying to Beta
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    tize you and I don't use that word
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    lightly into doing something for her and
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    kind of turning you into this like
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    doormat for her you might think I'm
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    exaggerating here and I'm being this
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    complete red pill guy I'm telling you
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    it's the truth dude she's willing to see
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    if she can steal the frame and make you
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    her personal assistant and kind of make
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    you do something like everything you do
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    has to be on your own terms right so
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    when she says hold my purse for me and
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    you hold it for her I know it may not
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    seem deep but it definitely is so how do
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    you pass this test me personally if I
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    notice she's asking me to hold her purse
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    for no reason if she could put it on the
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    table but she's still asking me to hold
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    it I say yo there's a table right there
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    either put your purse there or hold it
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    yourself I'm not holding your damn purse
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    for you some of you may think that's
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    being an or what whatever fine
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    dude do whatever you want but don't come
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    complaining when she starts pulling away
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    after the date next up we have insulting
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    you so if this is like a very hardcore
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    insult I would put it at pure disrespect
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    you never want to take that from anyone
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    however sometimes they're in a state of
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    play and they will try to poke at you to
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    see if there's any chinks in your armor
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    because essentially the idea behind why
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    they do this is that if they insult you
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    and you actually get insecure and
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    offended and you start to like almost
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    defend yourself or almost change because
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    of the thing she insulted you for she's
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    going to see a lack of congruence she's
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    going to see a lack of masculinity and
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    you're not really this badass who you
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    pretended to be when you guys first met
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    so a common example of this test is
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    her making fun of your outfit or making
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    fun of your oh my God your shirt's so
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    weird and then you go oh yeah this shirt
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    is weird maybe maybe I should change my
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    style none of this is my own unique
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    information but it works pretty well
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    there's really three ways to respond to
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    a dumb test like this and it
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    depends on your personality type so if
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    you're like a very outgoing and witty
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    guy what you want to do is you want to
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    actually agree and amplify so if she
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    says something like oh I don't like your
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    shirt be like you could be like yeah
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    this shirt's ass I know you want me to
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    take it off see you played it off in a
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    different way or you could just disagree
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    outrageously what do you mean I
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    love the shirt because you said that I'm
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    going to wear it every day for the next
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    month like you could get creative with
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    these replies so those are the two first
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    ways the last way if you're like the
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    masculine stoic type and you don't like
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    to talk much just ignore the
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    test and pretend it never happen so
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    if she like insults you just change the
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    conversation and take control of the
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    frame again and let me just throw a
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    caveat in there don't play the test
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    game game too long we're not these
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    Pawns in their chessboard if you
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    feel like the tests are too much
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    leave her even if it means she's
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    interested in you because you guys have
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    to understand a lot of guys think that
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    if a girl is testing you it means a
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    lack of interest it's the complete
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    opposite if she's testing you it
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    means she likes you so you should
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    actually rejoice and be happy but there
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    comes a point where these tests get
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    so annoying and you're just like dude
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    this dude I don't even want to
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    play this game so sometimes if a girl
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    tests me too much I instantly call
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    it out I'm just like yo don't do that
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    with me like I bring cont ious to
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    the fact that I know you're testing
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    me I'm not going to play your stupid
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    little game and you might say well
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    that's not optimal or whatever but I
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    don't care bro because tests are
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    just annoying as to deal with but
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    I'm still going to show you guys the
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    best way to respond to every single one
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    anyways insulting you is a pretty easy
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    one to pass I just showed you how to do
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    it so I'm going to put it at
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    intermediate difficulty just don't get
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    offended don't get insecure and you're
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    going to be all right next we have
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    disagreeing with you so yeah this is
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    very similar to insulting you except
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    that when a woman disagrees with you
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    she's trying to see if you're willing to
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    change your opinion I and change who you
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    are to try to satisfy her worldview and
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    her beliefs let me tell you that is the
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    most feminine and thing you could
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    ever do as a man it is your job to have
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    a stable Rock Solid identity Rock Solid
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    beliefs and values she's the one who's
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    moldable she's the one who changes
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    depending on who she's with you're not
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    going to be the guy who stands for
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    something and then she's like um no I
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    actually disagree pro-life kind of sucks
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    you should be pro-choice and then you go
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    yeah maybe you're right maybe Pro maybe
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    pro- lifee is a little bit toxic you
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    know what I'm saying like you have to
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    stand your ground and be who you are
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    don't let her change any of your
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    opinions because the second you do she's
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    going to start feeling unsafe around you
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    cuz she's like if I can change him and
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    mold him I wonder who else can and
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    that's a pretty dangerous thing so I'm
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    actually going to put this at rookie
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    difficulty it's pretty easy to pass all
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    you have to do is just not change your
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    opinions because you want some and
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    when you change your beliefs for her now
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    she has control of the frame her Aura is
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    overwhelming yours and you've just
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    belittled yourself into this like soy
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    Jack liberal who can't stand for
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    anything and I just want to throw one
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    thing out there very quickly if you're a
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    guy who thinks oh if she tests me
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    that means she's not interested I'm
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    going to take a page out of the black
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    pillars book do you think she's
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    testing the five five Indian
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    janitor like let's be real bro if you're
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    getting a test there 100% is some
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    level of interest there it might not be
  • 00:09:44
    as high as you wanted to but it means
  • 00:09:46
    something okay so when you get a
  • 00:09:48
    test don't get disappointed and be like
  • 00:09:49
    dude I'm getting tested be
  • 00:09:51
    happy bro it means she likes you and it
  • 00:09:53
    means that as long as you don't up
  • 00:09:55
    you're probably going to get her and the
  • 00:09:56
    crazy thing you have to know about
  • 00:09:58
    test is they don't do it iously like if
  • 00:10:00
    you tell a woman you know you just
  • 00:10:01
    tested me right like you did XYZ she's
  • 00:10:04
    not even going to be aware of why she
  • 00:10:06
    did it it's all happening in the
  • 00:10:07
    subconscious the only way we can
  • 00:10:09
    transition to a world where tests
  • 00:10:11
    don't happen is if every woman on earth
  • 00:10:13
    increased their Consciousness and became
  • 00:10:15
    these Spiritual Beings who had an insane
  • 00:10:17
    amount of self-awareness and were like
  • 00:10:19
    yes my biology is telling me to
  • 00:10:20
    test him evolution is making me
  • 00:10:22
    test him right now but I will hold back
  • 00:10:24
    on the urge to do so because I want to
  • 00:10:26
    preserve the relationship with this guy
  • 00:10:28
    unfortunately most women women
  • 00:10:29
    especially hot women do not think this
  • 00:10:31
    way they have absolutely no
  • 00:10:33
    self-awareness and they're all operating
  • 00:10:35
    on autopilot so just had to throw that
  • 00:10:36
    caveat out there next up we have apology
  • 00:10:39
    fishing and this is when a woman tries
  • 00:10:41
    to get you to apologize for something
  • 00:10:43
    extremely Petty or even in some cases
  • 00:10:45
    something you didn't do now of course if
  • 00:10:47
    you did something absolutely horrible
  • 00:10:50
    and your moral compass is yelling at you
  • 00:10:52
    to apologize apologize bro I
  • 00:10:54
    don't care but 99% of the time most of
  • 00:10:57
    you guys never ever apologize to your
  • 00:11:00
    girlfriends or your women okay it's all
  • 00:11:02
    a test and it's all manipulation
  • 00:11:04
    the reason they try so hard to fish an
  • 00:11:05
    apology out of you or make you feel bad
  • 00:11:07
    is to see if they can verbally
  • 00:11:09
    manipulate you into feeling something is
  • 00:11:11
    to see if they can Gaslight you into
  • 00:11:14
    apologizing or being weak so if you feel
  • 00:11:16
    like you did nothing wrong and you
  • 00:11:17
    realize the situation is so petty don't
  • 00:11:20
    apologize yes she's going to be mad at
  • 00:11:22
    you and she's probably not going to talk
  • 00:11:23
    to you for a few days stand your ground
  • 00:11:25
    I promise you she's going to come back
  • 00:11:27
    and she's going to respect you even more
  • 00:11:28
    and interest for you is going to
  • 00:11:30
    increase because she realizes holy
  • 00:11:32
    this guy isn't a little who
  • 00:11:33
    apologizes just because he wants some
  • 00:11:35
    he actually has values and stands
  • 00:11:37
    his ground so I'm not going to
  • 00:11:38
    lie dude I'm probably going to have to
  • 00:11:40
    put this at the top of advanced because
  • 00:11:42
    most guys fold and most guys apologize
  • 00:11:44
    cuz they think happy wife happy life
  • 00:11:46
    dude if I can just make her happy and
  • 00:11:48
    say sorry she's going to forgive me you
  • 00:11:49
    know what she's actually going to do
  • 00:11:51
    watch her use that apology against you
  • 00:11:53
    in the future they always do this every
  • 00:11:55
    time you apologize at some point in the
  • 00:11:57
    future when you have an argument which
  • 00:11:58
    I'm going to going to tell you why you
  • 00:11:59
    shouldn't argue that's the next point
  • 00:12:01
    they're going to bring it up and they're
  • 00:12:02
    going to start trying to make you feel
  • 00:12:04
    guilty over that you didn't do the
  • 00:12:06
    emotional manipulation goes crazy with a
  • 00:12:08
    lot of these girls and my channel is
  • 00:12:10
    partially dedicated to raising awareness
  • 00:12:12
    to that fact next up we have trying to
  • 00:12:14
    argue with you yeah real men don't argue
  • 00:12:17
    with their girlfriends you know what
  • 00:12:18
    you're subconsciously telling her when
  • 00:12:19
    you argue with her that she's equal to
  • 00:12:21
    you and women don't respect equals they
  • 00:12:24
    only respect men who they perceive to be
  • 00:12:26
    above them or an authority figure to
  • 00:12:28
    them a boss or a CEO is not going to
  • 00:12:30
    argue with a employee a king is
  • 00:12:32
    never going to argue with a peasant and
  • 00:12:34
    am I comparing women to peasants no but
  • 00:12:36
    it let's be real a lot of them are so
  • 00:12:38
    you have to understand that arguing with
  • 00:12:40
    a woman is an absolute noo the idea of
  • 00:12:42
    her trying to argue with you is that her
  • 00:12:45
    spirit is Earthly your spirit is
  • 00:12:47
    Heavenly the man's spirit is up the
  • 00:12:49
    woman's spirit is grounded in emotion
  • 00:12:51
    and it's low so she's trying to bring
  • 00:12:53
    you down to her level you're up here
  • 00:12:55
    you're rational you're logical you're
  • 00:12:57
    stoic she's trying to bring you down to
  • 00:12:59
    her chaos emotional level so when she
  • 00:13:01
    baits you into an argument and pay
  • 00:13:03
    attention cuz most of these arguments
  • 00:13:04
    are about stupid bro like she's
  • 00:13:06
    literally trying to get you to argue
  • 00:13:08
    over spoiled milk or some dumb if
  • 00:13:09
    she can get you angry and emotional over
  • 00:13:11
    trifling matters she's going to
  • 00:13:13
    subconsciously lose respect for you
  • 00:13:15
    that's the point of this test it's to
  • 00:13:16
    see is he willing to go down to my level
  • 00:13:19
    or is he always going to be this
  • 00:13:20
    masculine authority figure who's above
  • 00:13:22
    me and doesn't entertain my petty
  • 00:13:24
    so yeah it's either your way or
  • 00:13:26
    the highway I'm going to have to put
  • 00:13:27
    this a final boss dude cuz every guy I
  • 00:13:29
    know who has a girlfriend has argued
  • 00:13:31
    with her at some point like they all
  • 00:13:32
    argue with their girlfriends and that is
  • 00:13:34
    just a complete no-o even married men
  • 00:13:36
    argue with their wives that's probably
  • 00:13:38
    why a lot of men have such horrible
  • 00:13:39
    relationships with their wives where
  • 00:13:41
    she's literally withdrawing intimacy
  • 00:13:42
    she's withdrawing sex from them cuz deep
  • 00:13:44
    down she doesn't even feel safe around
  • 00:13:46
    her husband and man let me tell you a
  • 00:13:47
    woman's biology is a cuz it
  • 00:13:49
    will sabotage her own relationships with
  • 00:13:51
    the man because she can't help that
  • 00:13:53
    she's testing but when she does it
  • 00:13:55
    it ruins her relationship because it
  • 00:13:56
    exposes an internal weakness in the guy
  • 00:13:59
    which makes her feel unsafe so it's kind
  • 00:14:00
    of like women are ruining themselves but
  • 00:14:02
    I'm showing you guys how to pass the
  • 00:14:04
    okay next up we have saying we're
  • 00:14:06
    not hooking up tonight uh this is a very
  • 00:14:08
    common test for all the players
  • 00:14:10
    comment down below if you've experienced
  • 00:14:11
    this cuz I know I have some real players
  • 00:14:13
    who watch me essentially she will invite
  • 00:14:15
    you over and when she invites you over
  • 00:14:17
    it's kind of implied that you guys are
  • 00:14:18
    going to be hooking up right like that's
  • 00:14:20
    an implication if you guys hanging out
  • 00:14:21
    alone at her crib watching Netflix and
  • 00:14:24
    you guys are going to be netflixing
  • 00:14:25
    chilling and she's like I don't know if
  • 00:14:27
    I want to hook up or we're not hooking
  • 00:14:28
    up tonight this is just her trying to
  • 00:14:30
    see if you're very desperate for sex and
  • 00:14:32
    intimacy to where you're going to start
  • 00:14:34
    pushing for the hookup to where you're G
  • 00:14:35
    to be like what do you mean we're not
  • 00:14:36
    hooking up tonight I I I want to hook up
  • 00:14:38
    you invited me over and now you don't
  • 00:14:39
    want to sleep with me like she wants to
  • 00:14:41
    see if her not wanting to hook up with
  • 00:14:42
    you is going to get a reaction out of
  • 00:14:44
    you or make you insecure so the best way
  • 00:14:46
    to pass this is not care watch the
  • 00:14:48
    Netflix eat the popcorn don't give a
  • 00:14:50
    about the hookup and watch her
  • 00:14:52
    break the rule that she just said and
  • 00:14:54
    then try to hook up with you after every
  • 00:14:56
    guy who's a player knows when she says
  • 00:14:57
    this 100% chance if you say all right
  • 00:14:59
    fine whatever and you don't hook up with
  • 00:15:01
    her she's going to throw herself on to
  • 00:15:03
    you so so this one's an easy one to pass
  • 00:15:05
    I'm going to put it at rookie difficulty
  • 00:15:06
    cuz the guys who even hear this already
  • 00:15:08
    know the game so they don't need to
  • 00:15:09
    learn the game next up we have I bet you
  • 00:15:11
    do this with all the other girls yeah
  • 00:15:13
    very common thing that guys hear from a
  • 00:15:16
    woman you do something special for her
  • 00:15:18
    you take her out or whatever and she's
  • 00:15:19
    like I bet you do this with all the
  • 00:15:20
    other girls she's just trying to see if
  • 00:15:22
    you'll go no no I you're the only girl I
  • 00:15:24
    do this to I promise I I I you're
  • 00:15:26
    special to me this is a great
  • 00:15:27
    opportunity for you to move things into
  • 00:15:28
    to a state of play increase the mystery
  • 00:15:31
    and not answer directly okay you
  • 00:15:33
    have to kind of have this Aura of I
  • 00:15:35
    don't know maybe I do do this with other
  • 00:15:37
    girls maybe you're the only girl I do
  • 00:15:39
    this with hang out with me more to find
  • 00:15:40
    out so when she says I bet you do this
  • 00:15:42
    with all the other girls if you're a
  • 00:15:43
    witty guy and you're just a creative
  • 00:15:45
    person you might say something like yeah
  • 00:15:47
    no I promise I've only done this of the
  • 00:15:49
    last 100 girls or you could flip the
  • 00:15:50
    script and be like no the only other
  • 00:15:52
    girl I did this with is my mom like you
  • 00:15:54
    guys can come up with the creative stuff
  • 00:15:56
    I can't tell you lines to say it's all
  • 00:15:58
    about you being in a flow State and you
  • 00:16:00
    say the right things on your own but you
  • 00:16:02
    don't want to actually get all serious
  • 00:16:03
    and say no I I love you and you're
  • 00:16:05
    actually the only girl I do this with
  • 00:16:07
    because that's going to turn her off and
  • 00:16:08
    it's going to show that you're not
  • 00:16:09
    pre-selected and there's no mystery to
  • 00:16:11
    uncover so I'm actually going to have to
  • 00:16:12
    put this at Advanced test lots of
  • 00:16:14
    guys don't know what to do here the idea
  • 00:16:16
    is that you just want to keep things in
  • 00:16:18
    a state of play right because all a
  • 00:16:20
    test is is it's inviting you to have fun
  • 00:16:22
    and play with things and not take things
  • 00:16:23
    too seriously next we have I only date
  • 00:16:26
    guys who insert something you're not so
  • 00:16:27
    she'll be like I I only date guys who
  • 00:16:29
    are 6 feet tall and you're 5'11 or I
  • 00:16:32
    only date guys who are Latino and I
  • 00:16:33
    don't know you're from
  • 00:16:34
    Kazakhstan like whenever she says I only
  • 00:16:36
    date guys who she's trying to verbally
  • 00:16:39
    disqualify you and see if you care
  • 00:16:41
    enough to try to compensate or change
  • 00:16:44
    who you are to to fit into her type so
  • 00:16:46
    whenever a girl says something like this
  • 00:16:48
    play it cool and relaxed all right I
  • 00:16:50
    guess we're not dating then it like
  • 00:16:51
    that has to be your mindset like you
  • 00:16:52
    don't really care but some guys are
  • 00:16:54
    going to take her word seriously and
  • 00:16:56
    then go home and overthink for the next
  • 00:16:57
    5 hours oh I'm disqualified she said she
  • 00:17:00
    only dates guys who are not like me dude
  • 00:17:02
    it's a test okay nothing she says
  • 00:17:04
    actually matters you guys have to stop
  • 00:17:06
    believing women when they say dude
  • 00:17:08
    you have to take everything they say
  • 00:17:09
    with a grain of salt so the last thing
  • 00:17:10
    you want to do is get insecure and start
  • 00:17:12
    to question oh maybe I'm not the right
  • 00:17:14
    guy maybe I should uh get buffed because
  • 00:17:16
    she said she only dates guys who are 200
  • 00:17:18
    lb and above you are who you are and you
  • 00:17:20
    accept yourself for who you are so if
  • 00:17:22
    she doesn't want to date you good for
  • 00:17:24
    her dude on to the next and if you play
  • 00:17:25
    your cards right watch her say this dumb
  • 00:17:27
    and then still Choose You so don't
  • 00:17:29
    listen to what they say I'm
  • 00:17:30
    probably going to put this at
  • 00:17:31
    intermediate next up we have tries
  • 00:17:33
    taking control of the frame oh I'm going
  • 00:17:35
    to put this at final boss right because
  • 00:17:37
    the masculine chicks you're going to
  • 00:17:39
    notice them do this a lot and also
  • 00:17:40
    something I forgot to mention feminine
  • 00:17:42
    women's tests are a lot more subtle
  • 00:17:44
    and covert than the masculine ones like
  • 00:17:46
    masculine girls are going to test
  • 00:17:48
    you so much overtly that's why I
  • 00:17:50
    personally don't like to take too many
  • 00:17:52
    tests cuz I know all right the girl
  • 00:17:54
    I'm dealing with is masculine feminine
  • 00:17:55
    girls will lure you into this false
  • 00:17:57
    sense of security that oh she loves me
  • 00:17:58
    for me and she's not testing me let
  • 00:18:01
    me put this out there lack of a
  • 00:18:03
    test is a test in and of itself
  • 00:18:05
    because when you let your guard down and
  • 00:18:07
    you start showing weakness over a long
  • 00:18:08
    period of time that is her that is the
  • 00:18:11
    feminine woman's way of saying ha I got
  • 00:18:13
    you so it's kind of like the biggest
  • 00:18:14
    test ever that you don't even see
  • 00:18:16
    coming that slowly consumes you and eats
  • 00:18:19
    you away so if she's not testing
  • 00:18:20
    that doesn't mean the rules don't
  • 00:18:22
    suddenly apply to you it doesn't mean
  • 00:18:23
    that you can lose your frame or anything
  • 00:18:25
    but taking control of frame what that
  • 00:18:27
    means is the girl is going to try to get
  • 00:18:28
    you to answer questions on her Pace
  • 00:18:30
    she's going to lead the conversation
  • 00:18:32
    it's on her Tempo it's almost like
  • 00:18:34
    you're being interrogated by the woman
  • 00:18:35
    have you ever had a date where it felt
  • 00:18:37
    like she was interrogating you almost
  • 00:18:39
    when a woman does this you have to take
  • 00:18:41
    back control of the frame and show her
  • 00:18:43
    who the is the authority in that
  • 00:18:45
    situation you take back control of the
  • 00:18:46
    frame by answering at your pace by
  • 00:18:49
    taking a deep breath so when she asks
  • 00:18:50
    you a question and you notice this is a
  • 00:18:52
    rapid fire session lean back in
  • 00:18:54
    your chair take a deep breath take a sip
  • 00:18:57
    of your water and then answer answer
  • 00:18:59
    whenever you feel like answering okay
  • 00:19:01
    everything has to be at your pace
  • 00:19:02
    everything has to be at your Tempo
  • 00:19:04
    because this shows assertiveness this
  • 00:19:06
    shows confidence and it shows that
  • 00:19:07
    you're not just going to be led by a
  • 00:19:09
    woman the next thing we have is you seem
  • 00:19:11
    like a player so yeah so this is very
  • 00:19:12
    similar to I bet you do this with all
  • 00:19:14
    the other girls when a girl says that
  • 00:19:16
    you seem like a player what she's trying
  • 00:19:17
    to see is if you'll get defensive and be
  • 00:19:19
    like no no I'm not a player you're the
  • 00:19:20
    only girl I talk to dude when she says
  • 00:19:22
    this keep it a mystery okay again the
  • 00:19:24
    vibe is I might be a player or I might
  • 00:19:26
    not be even if you're not a player don't
  • 00:19:28
    directly confirm it next we have showing
  • 00:19:30
    up late this might be the first thing
  • 00:19:32
    that is not a test pure disrespect
  • 00:19:35
    I know a lot of guys in the red pill
  • 00:19:36
    space think that if she shows up late
  • 00:19:38
    you have to call her out on it and it's
  • 00:19:39
    a test or whatever I think it
  • 00:19:41
    depends on how late she shows up like if
  • 00:19:43
    she shows up 10 to 15 minutes late you
  • 00:19:45
    can probably call her out on it in a
  • 00:19:46
    playful way if that's your style or like
  • 00:19:48
    in a more serious masculine way if
  • 00:19:50
    that's your style but you know if she
  • 00:19:51
    shows up like an hour or too late she
  • 00:19:53
    just doesn't respect your time bro you
  • 00:19:55
    can't justify this as a test so to
  • 00:19:57
    be safe I'm going to put this pure
  • 00:19:59
    disrespect if you notice that she's
  • 00:20:00
    always showing up late and she's not
  • 00:20:02
    respecting your time she doesn't give
  • 00:20:04
    enough of a about your time and
  • 00:20:05
    your value to actually respect it and
  • 00:20:07
    sometimes life happens sometimes she's
  • 00:20:09
    genuinely late like she couldn't have
  • 00:20:10
    controlled it uh so I wouldn't use
  • 00:20:12
    showing up late as some sort of like
  • 00:20:14
    purposeful test that she does
  • 00:20:16
    subconsciously I think that's reaching a
  • 00:20:18
    little bit next we have talking to you
  • 00:20:20
    about another guy this is also pure
  • 00:20:21
    disrespect if you notice her doing this
  • 00:20:23
    a lot however there's one case where
  • 00:20:25
    it's a test which is basically if
  • 00:20:27
    she brings up another guy to test how
  • 00:20:29
    jealous you are because jealousy tests
  • 00:20:31
    which is the next thing over here is an
  • 00:20:33
    extension of an interest test if you get
  • 00:20:35
    really jealous she knows you want her a
  • 00:20:37
    lot and you probably want her more than
  • 00:20:39
    she wants you and then she's going to
  • 00:20:41
    start to pull away as a result of that
  • 00:20:43
    if she talks to you about another guy
  • 00:20:44
    keep in mind that she's probably trying
  • 00:20:46
    to make you jealous if it happens once
  • 00:20:48
    or twice but if you're being talked to
  • 00:20:50
    about another guy in like this
  • 00:20:51
    friend-zoned way like oh my God I love
  • 00:20:53
    Alex what should I send him yeah bro
  • 00:20:55
    you're just friendzoned I'm sorry you're
  • 00:20:57
    just friendzoned so it could be a
  • 00:20:58
    test but to be safe and because we're
  • 00:21:00
    generalizing here I'm going to say that
  • 00:21:02
    it's pure disrespect next up we have
  • 00:21:04
    jealousy tests so this is specifically
  • 00:21:06
    when you know she's trying to make you
  • 00:21:07
    jealous you kind of have to use
  • 00:21:09
    discernment to be able to tell if this
  • 00:21:10
    is just her genuinely flirting with
  • 00:21:12
    another guy or doing it to make you
  • 00:21:14
    jealous unfortunately it's not above a
  • 00:21:16
    woman's morality to kind of flirt or get
  • 00:21:19
    a little close with another guy to make
  • 00:21:20
    you jealous in the courting stage I've
  • 00:21:22
    seen this happen a lot of times when she
  • 00:21:25
    does this you have two options you can
  • 00:21:26
    either fake jealousy in a play way where
  • 00:21:29
    you're not actually emotionally jealous
  • 00:21:31
    but you're kind of playing with her that
  • 00:21:33
    you are if you guys want to see a real
  • 00:21:34
    life example of this go watch John zurka
  • 00:21:36
    he does this a lot some other people and
  • 00:21:38
    this is personally my style I don't show
  • 00:21:40
    that I'm jealous at all like even if you
  • 00:21:42
    are jealous don't show it I like to just
  • 00:21:44
    stay composed and relaxed and not fall
  • 00:21:45
    into her frame or these stupid little
  • 00:21:47
    games so I'm going to put jealousy tests
  • 00:21:49
    at Advanced you have to know what you're
  • 00:21:51
    doing here next up we have gradually
  • 00:21:53
    walking away mid cold approach so for my
  • 00:21:55
    guys who cold approach you're going to
  • 00:21:57
    want to pay attention to this you you
  • 00:21:58
    approach a girl you start the
  • 00:22:00
    conversation you're interacting with her
  • 00:22:02
    and you notice her talking back to you
  • 00:22:04
    like she's smiling she's laughing but
  • 00:22:05
    she's kind of walking away almost like
  • 00:22:07
    she has somewhere to be so she's talking
  • 00:22:09
    to you but she's moving back this is a
  • 00:22:11
    body language test so what most
  • 00:22:13
    guys will do they're going to start
  • 00:22:14
    thinking oh my God why is she walking
  • 00:22:16
    away why is she moving away from me and
  • 00:22:17
    then they're either going to start
  • 00:22:18
    walking towards her like almost
  • 00:22:20
    following her or they're going to say oh
  • 00:22:22
    she lost interest I'm I'm finished and
  • 00:22:23
    then they're going to start walking away
  • 00:22:25
    and losing frame what you want to do is
  • 00:22:27
    stand your ground stand exactly where
  • 00:22:29
    you are and continue talking to her I
  • 00:22:31
    guarantee you if you do this and you
  • 00:22:33
    have the right posture in body language
  • 00:22:34
    she's going to tilt her head and walk
  • 00:22:36
    right back to you this has happened to
  • 00:22:37
    me so many times just stand your ground
  • 00:22:40
    continue talking from where you are even
  • 00:22:42
    if she's walking away if she has any
  • 00:22:43
    semblance of Interest she's going to
  • 00:22:45
    walk right back to you so yeah this is
  • 00:22:47
    going in advanced game so many guys
  • 00:22:48
    don't know this little hack breaking up
  • 00:22:50
    with you out of nowhere so some of you
  • 00:22:52
    guys may be thinking there's no way this
  • 00:22:54
    could be a test she literally broke
  • 00:22:56
    up with me if a girl breaks up with you
  • 00:22:58
    out of nowhere and it almost feels like
  • 00:23:00
    you know she didn't lose interest and
  • 00:23:01
    things were fine before this is a
  • 00:23:03
    complete test make no mistake what
  • 00:23:05
    she's trying to figure out is will this
  • 00:23:08
    breakup affect him emotionally will it
  • 00:23:10
    make him chase me will it make him
  • 00:23:11
    reveal his insane interest level for me
  • 00:23:14
    a lot of game with women guys it just
  • 00:23:16
    comes down to concealing your interest
  • 00:23:18
    like you still have to show interest but
  • 00:23:20
    you can't show that your head over heels
  • 00:23:21
    obssessed and that she can rock your
  • 00:23:23
    world and if she breaks up with a guy
  • 00:23:25
    out of the blue 99% chance this guy's
  • 00:23:27
    going to say what went wrong wrong what
  • 00:23:28
    happened I thought we were good he's
  • 00:23:30
    going to start crying he's going to
  • 00:23:31
    start you know chasing her and he's
  • 00:23:33
    going to be in an emotional wreck and I
  • 00:23:34
    don't blame him because he doesn't know
  • 00:23:35
    what she's actually doing if he did he
  • 00:23:37
    would laugh and be happy because he
  • 00:23:39
    knows she's going to come back if he
  • 00:23:40
    does the right things how do you pass
  • 00:23:42
    the stupid little test don't even
  • 00:23:44
    reach out to her if she wants to break
  • 00:23:45
    up with you all right cool I understand
  • 00:23:47
    your decision we're going to part ways
  • 00:23:49
    and then watch it may take one week it
  • 00:23:51
    may take two weeks they usually come
  • 00:23:52
    back after they do this and they start
  • 00:23:54
    crying and apologizing and saying I
  • 00:23:56
    regret breaking up with you I shouldn't
  • 00:23:57
    have done it I was going through some
  • 00:23:59
    trauma and emotional whatever you know
  • 00:24:01
    how these girls are so if she breaks up
  • 00:24:03
    with you out of nowhere this is a final
  • 00:24:05
    boss level difficulty you have to
  • 00:24:06
    realize that this could actually be a
  • 00:24:08
    test what she's doing with this is
  • 00:24:10
    she wants to test your masculine
  • 00:24:11
    strength to feel that you don't need her
  • 00:24:13
    she needs to feel like you don't need
  • 00:24:15
    her when she feels this that's when her
  • 00:24:17
    respect and her attraction for you goes
  • 00:24:19
    through the roof next up we have
  • 00:24:21
    small D energy yeah this is another
  • 00:24:23
    stupid little test like like you'll
  • 00:24:25
    say something and she'll be like Ah
  • 00:24:26
    that's giving me small D energy this is
  • 00:24:28
    very similar to insulting you just agree
  • 00:24:30
    and amplify disagree outrageously or
  • 00:24:32
    dismiss it and don't even acknowledge
  • 00:24:34
    what she said next up you're not my type
  • 00:24:36
    yeah this is pretty much the same as I
  • 00:24:38
    only date guys who insert something
  • 00:24:39
    you're not relax don't try to be her
  • 00:24:42
    type you are who you are your identity
  • 00:24:44
    is stable it's rock solid and remember
  • 00:24:46
    she's just saying a bunch of words next
  • 00:24:48
    going on her phone too long this is not
  • 00:24:50
    a test this is pure disrespect
  • 00:24:52
    sometimes if she goes on her phone she
  • 00:24:54
    wants to see if you have the balls to
  • 00:24:55
    like call her out on the behavior and be
  • 00:24:57
    like yo get off your phone but for the
  • 00:24:58
    most part if she's on her phone too long
  • 00:25:01
    she has no respect for you and she's not
  • 00:25:03
    even really that interested in the date
  • 00:25:05
    so you should just leave her next we
  • 00:25:06
    have pointing out something she doesn't
  • 00:25:08
    like about you yeah exact same as
  • 00:25:09
    insulting you quote unquote a real man
  • 00:25:11
    would yeah this is not a test this
  • 00:25:13
    is a pure manipulation tactic going
  • 00:25:16
    straight over here when a woman says
  • 00:25:17
    this what she really means is a real man
  • 00:25:19
    would do whatever I want him to do
  • 00:25:21
    because it benefits me and it's in my
  • 00:25:23
    best interest okay so they like to flip
  • 00:25:25
    because they know how insecure men
  • 00:25:27
    are when they're told that they're not
  • 00:25:28
    real men so they use it to try to say
  • 00:25:30
    like oh a real man would do this and
  • 00:25:31
    then your dumbass starts to do it
  • 00:25:33
    because you think it's making you
  • 00:25:34
    masculine and a man meanwhile she's just
  • 00:25:36
    manipulating you and she has you on a
  • 00:25:38
    leash so when a girl says this
  • 00:25:40
    don't do the thing that she says a real
  • 00:25:42
    man would if it doesn't align with your
  • 00:25:44
    values and with who you are next up
  • 00:25:45
    spend more time with me oh my God I hate
  • 00:25:48
    this so if your girlfriend tells you
  • 00:25:49
    spend more time with me and you start
  • 00:25:51
    going to the gym less you start working
  • 00:25:53
    less you start taking more days off you
  • 00:25:55
    start Netflix and chilling with her she
  • 00:25:57
    may cont ious L appreciate it like she
  • 00:25:59
    doesn't know what's happening
  • 00:26:00
    subconsciously but deep down she feels
  • 00:26:03
    unsafe because she has beta tized you
  • 00:26:05
    over time you were this bigger than life
  • 00:26:07
    ambitious guy and she managed to like
  • 00:26:09
    shrink you down and reduce you to her
  • 00:26:11
    level and now you're like this soy
  • 00:26:13
    liberal who you know stays home all day
  • 00:26:15
    and watches Netflix with her you
  • 00:26:17
    never want to be this guy deep down
  • 00:26:19
    she's going to feel unsafe and that's
  • 00:26:20
    exactly when she starts thinking about
  • 00:26:22
    cheating on you with the Chad who
  • 00:26:24
    flirted with her in the grocery store so
  • 00:26:26
    you always want to maintain your purpose
  • 00:26:27
    your goal and prioritize that above her
  • 00:26:30
    I'm not saying you shouldn't spend time
  • 00:26:31
    with her quality time spent is better
  • 00:26:33
    than more time spent so if you don't
  • 00:26:35
    spend time with her yes she's going to
  • 00:26:36
    be upset and she's going to and
  • 00:26:38
    whine about it but you don't want to
  • 00:26:39
    fall into that and start changing
  • 00:26:41
    because that's really when she's going
  • 00:26:43
    to start losing some serious interest
  • 00:26:45
    and you may not see this instantly but I
  • 00:26:46
    promise you over the course of weeks or
  • 00:26:48
    months you're going to see it this is
  • 00:26:50
    definitely final boss cuz most guys
  • 00:26:52
    actually listen to her all right next up
  • 00:26:53
    we have posting on her story while
  • 00:26:55
    you're still on delivered yeah this is
  • 00:26:56
    not a test this is pure dis respect
  • 00:26:58
    so if you're talking to a girl and she
  • 00:27:00
    has you ghosted and she posts on her
  • 00:27:02
    story this is absolutely an utterly
  • 00:27:04
    disrespect don't try to think that she's
  • 00:27:06
    playing a game she's literally
  • 00:27:08
    with you and laughing behind the scenes
  • 00:27:09
    she's literally trolling you because
  • 00:27:11
    she's ghosting you and still showing you
  • 00:27:13
    she's active on social media at the same
  • 00:27:15
    time don't take this as a test guys
  • 00:27:17
    this is pure disrespect I want you to
  • 00:27:18
    forget about girls who do this to you
  • 00:27:20
    unless they compensate you with some
  • 00:27:21
    very very high interest afterwards next
  • 00:27:24
    up I'm busy yeah this is not a test
  • 00:27:26
    she just doesn't want you unless she
  • 00:27:27
    says she's busy and she tries
  • 00:27:29
    rescheduling the date then she's
  • 00:27:30
    interested but when a woman says this
  • 00:27:32
    she just wants nothing to do with you
  • 00:27:34
    next up we have straight disrespect yeah
  • 00:27:36
    this is obviously not a test so
  • 00:27:38
    like if she's yelling and just being
  • 00:27:39
    over the top and that's not
  • 00:27:41
    a test bro next up I have a
  • 00:27:43
    boyfriend so most people think that this
  • 00:27:45
    is rejection but for my guys who cold
  • 00:27:48
    approach and my guys who talk to a lot
  • 00:27:49
    of girls you guys know that I have a
  • 00:27:51
    boyfriend doesn't always mean no some
  • 00:27:53
    cases it means no this is where you have
  • 00:27:55
    to use discernment but if she was
  • 00:27:57
    flirting with you smiling and just being
  • 00:27:59
    open with you before but then when you
  • 00:28:01
    try to close she says she has a
  • 00:28:02
    boyfriend you can actually push it a
  • 00:28:04
    little bit further you know don't be a
  • 00:28:06
    creep or anything but you can
  • 00:28:07
    you can kind of push this essentially in
  • 00:28:09
    her mind she's trying to see if adding
  • 00:28:11
    an obstacle there or a little bit of
  • 00:28:13
    resistance is going to make you a little
  • 00:28:14
    or a little and not and not
  • 00:28:16
    pursue her further but obviously if she
  • 00:28:18
    actually does have a boyfriend you know
  • 00:28:20
    you shouldn't be going for girls who are
  • 00:28:21
    taken but sometimes they're lying and
  • 00:28:23
    they're just trying to see if this
  • 00:28:24
    little obstacle is going to make you
  • 00:28:25
    stop so I'm probably going to have to
  • 00:28:27
    put this at final boss cuz so many guys
  • 00:28:29
    think when she says I have a boyfriend
  • 00:28:30
    it automatically means no in most cases
  • 00:28:33
    it probably does but in very few cases
  • 00:28:35
    it actually doesn't next we have posting
  • 00:28:37
    another guy on social media this could
  • 00:28:39
    be a jealousy test but I don't with
  • 00:28:41
    this at all like even if it is a
  • 00:28:42
    test when they do this you should not
  • 00:28:45
    accept it or play along with this I take
  • 00:28:47
    it as pure disrespect next up we have
  • 00:28:49
    crossing boundaries so this one's a
  • 00:28:51
    pretty nuanced one because if you're not
  • 00:28:53
    dating the girl and you guys are still
  • 00:28:54
    in the talking phase or you're still
  • 00:28:56
    courting her you should never have
  • 00:28:58
    boundaries with a girl like a lot of you
  • 00:29:00
    guys want to be this like masculine
  • 00:29:01
    traditional guy like oh I have strict
  • 00:29:03
    boundaries with women dude the real
  • 00:29:05
    players don't give a about her guy
  • 00:29:07
    friends they don't care about her
  • 00:29:08
    orbiters they have the mindset where
  • 00:29:10
    it's like you can do whatever you want
  • 00:29:11
    you can say whatever you want and I
  • 00:29:13
    don't care how often I see you that's
  • 00:29:15
    the player mindset when it comes to
  • 00:29:17
    women and those guys always do the best
  • 00:29:19
    cuz think about it really think about it
  • 00:29:20
    does Chad really care about her guy
  • 00:29:23
    friends like Chad doesn't give a
  • 00:29:24
    dude Chad has this like nonchalant
  • 00:29:26
    careless Aura around women and that's
  • 00:29:28
    why they love him so much cuz women
  • 00:29:30
    don't like to be told what to do they
  • 00:29:32
    see it as like oh he's so controlling
  • 00:29:34
    why is he trying to make me like him and
  • 00:29:36
    by you setting strict boundaries and
  • 00:29:37
    trying to make her follow rules what
  • 00:29:39
    you're doing is you're revealing that
  • 00:29:40
    you care about her way too much and the
  • 00:29:43
    player or the chat doesn't care about
  • 00:29:45
    her so you never want to give off the
  • 00:29:46
    vibe that you care about her too much
  • 00:29:48
    before you confirm that she actually
  • 00:29:49
    cares about you when you make her your
  • 00:29:51
    girlfriend that's when you want to
  • 00:29:53
    transition to like the father or
  • 00:29:54
    authority energy where you are setting
  • 00:29:56
    boundaries and you're calling her out
  • 00:29:57
    when she just disrespects them most of
  • 00:29:59
    the time you don't want to be this
  • 00:30:00
    masculine guy who's all strict and
  • 00:30:01
    setting boundaries I know that's what
  • 00:30:03
    the red pill guys like to tell you and
  • 00:30:05
    that's what these masculinity gurus like
  • 00:30:06
    to tell you when you look at the real
  • 00:30:08
    world the Chads who are getting the
  • 00:30:09
    hottest girls aren't out here telling
  • 00:30:11
    them don't do this and don't do that
  • 00:30:12
    they just don't give a cuz when you
  • 00:30:14
    tell them not to do something it shows
  • 00:30:16
    that you give way too many about
  • 00:30:17
    them and the funny thing is that the
  • 00:30:19
    guys who don't really set boundaries and
  • 00:30:21
    the guys who don't care about her she
  • 00:30:22
    will naturally follow the boundaries
  • 00:30:24
    that they would have set does that make
  • 00:30:26
    sense like she will naturally close
  • 00:30:28
    herself off from guy friends she will
  • 00:30:29
    naturally post Less on social media
  • 00:30:31
    that's what a girl does when she's in
  • 00:30:32
    love with you you shouldn't really have
  • 00:30:34
    to tell her to do those things but again
  • 00:30:36
    if she purposely crosses boundaries this
  • 00:30:38
    is a test to see if you're going to
  • 00:30:40
    call her out or if you're going to be a
  • 00:30:41
    little and let her get away with
  • 00:30:42
    the behavior so I'm probably going to
  • 00:30:44
    have to put this at you know final boss
  • 00:30:46
    this is a pretty complicated one to
  • 00:30:47
    understand and lastly we have not
  • 00:30:49
    texting you before the date so what a
  • 00:30:50
    woman will do is she'll schedule a date
  • 00:30:52
    with you you guys agreed on meeting up
  • 00:30:54
    at 8:00 p.m. but she's not going to text
  • 00:30:56
    you before or in between the date to see
  • 00:30:58
    if you're going to get insecure in your
  • 00:31:00
    head and be like wait she didn't confirm
  • 00:31:02
    uh let me let me reach out to her and
  • 00:31:04
    confirm you know what the real players
  • 00:31:05
    do they show up regardless they don't
  • 00:31:07
    need confirmation from her because they
  • 00:31:10
    in their heads have an abundance mindset
  • 00:31:12
    and they know she's going to show up if
  • 00:31:14
    you're sat there worried about her
  • 00:31:15
    flaking and you're like no I need her to
  • 00:31:17
    confirm where are you are you coming
  • 00:31:18
    dude if you show up at the place you
  • 00:31:20
    guys talked about without reaching out
  • 00:31:21
    for confirmation it's actually going to
  • 00:31:24
    turn her on because she's like holy
  • 00:31:25
    this guy is so confident that I'm not
  • 00:31:27
    going to flake flake and he doesn't even
  • 00:31:29
    care if I flake and he's still going to
  • 00:31:30
    do the thing without me and it's going
  • 00:31:32
    to raise her interest through
  • 00:31:33
    the roof so this is pretty advanced
  • 00:31:35
    stuff
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