Jacksepticeye Reveals Autism Diagnoses! (connections between neurodivergency & introspection)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mM4rD41Gwl0

الملخص

TLDRDans cette vidéo, elle aborde la singularité et les défis des personnes neurodivergentes, telles que celles vivant avec l'autisme et le TDAH. Elle met en lumière le parcours de diagnostic tardif de créateurs de contenu comme Jack Sepai et les bénéfices de ces découvertes personnelles pour une meilleure compréhension de soi. Elle discute de nombreux sujets liés à la vie neurodivergente, y compris les stéréotypes, la stigmatisation sociale, et l'importance de reconnaître et d'accepter ces conditions. Elle critique le manque de soutien de la société envers ces personnes et appelle à créer des espaces sécurisés et compréhensifs. Cette vidéo met aussi en avant le rôle influent des créateurs de contenu dans la sensibilisation autour de la diversité neurologique et encourage à aborder ces sujets avec ouverture et compassion. Elle conclut en soulignant l’importance de l'introspection et de se forger une relation positive avec soi-même, en dépit des défis que cela peut engendrer.

الوجبات الجاهزة

  • 🤔 Importance des diagnostics pour la compréhension de soi.
  • 🌟 Jack Sepai illustre l'expérience de l'autisme chez les créateurs.
  • 📚 Besoin de sensibilisation et soutien pour les neurodivergents.
  • 💼 Impact des conditions neurodivergentes sur la carrière.
  • 🧠 La diversité neurologique est variée et complexe.
  • 🤝 Créer des espaces accueillants pour la neurodiversité.
  • 🔍 Introspection et acceptation personnelle comme chemin positif.
  • 📢 Critique des stéréotypes traditionnels sur l'autisme.
  • 💬 Importance des discussions autour de la santé mentale.
  • 🎯 Rechercher des diagnostics pour s'améliorer, pas pour se cacher.

الجدول الزمني

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    La communauté "Nerd Divergent" se réjouit des diagnostics de ses membres car cela permet une meilleure compréhension de soi. Un créateur de contenu a été récemment diagnostiqué, ouvrant la discussion sur l'autisme et l'ADHD, et les implications sociales de ces diagnostics.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Parler de diagnostics tardifs et des stéréotypes liés à l'autisme est crucial. Il y a souvent des mécompréhensions sur les caractéristiques de l'autisme et de l'ADHD, et sur la manière dont elles se manifestent chez les personnes extraverties ou créatives.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Les diagnostics aident à clarifier des expériences de vie passées, mais peuvent aussi entraîner des défis comme le "high masking". Ce dernier est un mécanisme de cope pour beaucoup, leur permettant de fonctionner dans des espaces sociaux malgré leur neurodivergence.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Découvrir que plusieurs problèmes de santé peuvent être liés à la neurodivergence est libérateur. Le partage de ces réflexions sur la santé mentale et l'acceptation de soi est important pour sensibiliser et normaliser ces expériences.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Il est crucial d'avoir une perspective équilibrée sur les diagnostics de neurodivergence, car ils peuvent affecter la vie personnelle et professionnelle. Cependant, ils peuvent aussi guider vers une meilleure compréhension de soi et des adaptations nécessaires.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    L'évaluation de l'autisme implique une introspection sur les expériences de vie, et beaucoup trouvent cette analyse utile. Cependant, obtenir un diagnostic peut avoir des implications légales et sociales à considérer attentivement.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    L'acceptation de la neurodivergence dans la société est encore un défi. Le besoin d'évoluer vers une meilleure compréhension et de briser les stéréotypes négatifs est essentiel, tout comme la nécessité de changer les mentalités sur les ambitions et les succès personnels.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:43:36

    L'introspection et l'authenticité sont valorisées comme des moyens de croissance personnelle. La communauté souhaite voir plus de discussions honnêtes et introspectives sur la santé mentale, loin des normes superficielles de la société.

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فيديو أسئلة وأجوبة

  • Quel est le principal sujet de la vidéo ?

    La vidéo traite principalement de la diversité neurologique, notamment de l'autisme et du TDAH, et de leur impact sur la vie des créateurs de contenu.

  • Qui est Jack Sepai ?

    Jack Sepai est un créateur de contenu qui a récemment partagé son diagnostic d'autisme et de TDAH.

  • Pourquoi les diagnostics de diversité neurologique sont-ils importants selon l'oratrice ?

    Les diagnostics permettent aux individus de mieux comprendre leur identité et de s'adapter pour mieux vivre avec leurs conditions.

  • Quelles critiques l'oratrice émet-elle envers la société ?

    Elle critique la société pour son manque de compréhension et de soutien envers les personnes neurodivergentes, et pour la stigmatisation associée à ces conditions.

  • Comment l'oratrice décrit-elle son expérience personnelle avec la diversité neurologique ?

    Elle partage son parcours de diagnostic tardif, affirme l'importance de l'auto-compréhension et exprime son soutien aux autres dans des situations similaires.

  • Comment réagit-elle aux stéréotypes sur l'autisme ?

    Elle rejette les stéréotypes traditionnels et insiste sur la diversité des expériences des personnes autistes.

  • Que dit-elle sur le rôle des créateurs de contenu neurodivergents ?

    Elle souligne que de nombreux créateurs de contenu sont neurodivergents et contribue à sensibiliser et normaliser ces conditions.

  • Quels conseils l'oratrice donne-t-elle à ceux qui pensent être neurodivergents ?

    Elle encourage les personnes à se faire diagnostiquer pour mieux se comprendre et mieux gérer leur vie.

  • Quel est le message principal de la vidéo ?

    Le message principal est d'encourager l'acceptation de la neurodiversité et de créer des espaces de soutien.

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    this is a very nerd Divergent friendly Community  nerd Divergent to nerd Divergent we love to see
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    a person get diagnosed because it means they can  know more about themselves and their place in the
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    universe and also every time I see a content  creator get diagnosed I just know there's a
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    correlation causation maybe not literally where  every time I see a content creator get diagnosed I
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    think to myself of course because who else spends  this much time dedicated to making content someone
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    never watches or everybody watches Jack sepai has  come out let's hear him talk about it I'm so happy
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    for him it must feel really good to know a little  bit more about yourself I Like Trains now that we
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    get that out of the way I wanted to do a video  talking about a recent thing that happened to me
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    which was I was diagnosed with autism I'm going  to leave some time there for a lot of you to be
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    like yeah duh we knew and Jack is already uh Jack  seai his real name is not Jack right I don't watch
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    him isn't his is his real name Jack or is that the  name he calls himself on YouTube I don't remember
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    but Jack sepai is also ADHD so he's odd ADHD which  is kind of cool also is his volume okay thank you
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    his name is sha Sean is his real name Sean cuz  I think jpai is like a fake name yeah Sean okay
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    thank you thank you well if you knew why didn't  you tell me no one told me I want to talk about
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    it because I think it's important to open up that  conversation because after having it be diagnosed
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    shout out to his berserk t-shirt officially by a  doctor a lot of people came to me and were like
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    but you're so like social and you're so like your  Comm is he though is he though because content
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    creators are really good at making people think  they're social but are they communication is great
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    and like I couldn't tell and I think that that's  an important distinction to make because even for
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    me growing up also extroverted autistic people  exist in like the '90s or the early 2000s autism
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    had to be that thing that was what is now known as  non-verbal autism it had to be the people who need
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    to stem all the time it had to be people who need  repetitive motions who can't really communicate
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    well it was that like really stereotypical version  of it that a lot of people still think today is
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    what autism is and don't get me wrong that is part  of the spectrum of it and some people are that way
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    but that's not the entire picture anymore and for  me for a long time I was like oh I have ADHD and
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    I thought that that was the reason why a lot of  the things I do are the way I do them I mean there
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    is a lot of overlap let me tell you between ADHD  and autism and it's so interesting to know which
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    one's causing which but it turns out that ADHD and  autism are also like a ven diagram or like they're
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    part of the same Spectrum or however you want to  visualize it it's basically I don't want to say
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    basically but it to put it like in the basic most  banale terms they're basically the same thing and
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    I got tested because of my own curiosity I just  like figuring out how my body is why I am the way
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    I am like fit into different places in the world  and also just to kind of like give myself peace of
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    mind because when I was a kid I was The Outsider  I was weird I played video games too much on my
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    own I I like stayed liking the things that other  people didn't really like anymore like they moved
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    on like oh I don't like video games anymore  and I'm like oh I still like Love video games
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    they're cool I love Sonic the Hedgehog and trains  I actually don't even really like trains or Sonic
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    the Hedgehog I that's how how no one knew I was  autistic as I got older I was like I have ADHD for
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    sure definitely and I went and got tested for that  and got medicated for that and it didn't really
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    work and I I'm trying like different medications  right now for it but at the time I was like it's
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    not really like clicking like I have friends  and other people I know who have ADHD and they
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    take medication like it's night and day that's not  always the case for everybody but just some of the
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    things they were saying about their ADHD I'm like  yeah I'm kind of like that but also like a lot
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    more it just felt when I was younger I basically  felt like I was The Outsider and then when I got
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    ADHD it was like I still kind of feel like The  Outsider so I felt like there was something more
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    so I wanted to go get tested for autism as I  was learning more about it I started reading
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    stuff that people with ADHD can have autism as  well that they overlap with each other quite a
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    lot and then I was like does anyone know how old  sea is is he got to be in his 30s like me right
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    probably a little older than I am cuz that's also  interesting too is what age people are getting
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    diagnosed because they're actually realizing as  they get older um there's like deficiencies or
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    something isn't working and you'll know because  of the data like your life will show you 34 okay
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    cool cool cool so I'm actually older I'm a little  older um but yeah like that's one of the things
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    that's fascinating is like you want to get to know  yourself more you want to figure out things about
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    yourself and so it might feel to Boomers like  oh you all are just getting diagnosed but the
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    process is really getting to know ourselves better  and we're relying on that data to be accurate so
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    it's like a misdiagnosis is really scary as  many of you know who's ever been misdiagnosed
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    it's like a scary process because you change your  life around a diagnosis and then you realize oh
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    my gosh this thing that I've been doing hasn't  been working and like he said with ADHD it's
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    not necessarily like oh great I have ADHD give me  meds it works you have to pick the meds that work
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    for you there's different kinds of ADHD meds not  everybody's ADHD relationship is the same being
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    autistic is in a monolith like all of these things  are so individualized and yet there's so much
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    overlap which is why like sometimes like you know  recognizes like or like you can like oh yeah like
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    I see myself in you even though we're different  people we might have some overlap and I think
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    that's why exciting to see like people have a  realization about themselves later in life because
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    now you can recontextualize your whole life as  oh cuz autism isn't something you get diagnosed
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    with unless it actually is something that you can  reference in your childhood like in order to be
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    autistic you also have to see um deficiencies  that exist in childhood through adulthood
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    and so it's kind of interesting when you're an  adult who wasn't diagnosed as a child you have to
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    go back through your whole childhood and find out  every moment in your life that something stood out
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    to you or something was weird or someone gave you  feedback that oh you're being a little different
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    and then you have to understand like what is that  difference why is it being pointed out why did
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    somebody notice it why did I notice it myself  and then you have to realize like oh okay now
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    my life makes sense to me in a in a different  way your life could make sense to you I'm sure
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    Sean went through his whole life thinking my life  makes sense to me until it didn't and just word
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    to the or word word to the warning to the word  word to the warning word to the wise word to the
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    wise when you are high masking and you start to  unmask disabled will be your new favorite word
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    word because High masking sounds great sounds like  a skill and it is it's also a huge cope and when
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    you stop having to cope because you're in a safe  space you realize how disabled you are and it is
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    a very interesting experience for a lot of people  to go through and so just FYI once you get off the
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    high masking train it's hard to get back on okay  eting down the list was like if you have autism
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    you likely have ADHD you likely have depression  and anxiety you likely have intestinal issues you
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    likely have hypermobility and Joint issues and  you likely have asthma and I was like I have all
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    of these things I just have like a soup of like  mess going on inside of me and then as I started
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    to understand it was like oh all of these things  are kind of like under the umbrella of neura
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    divergency and I just thought it was interesting  to get checked for different things very cool I
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    think this is so cool that he is getting checked  and sharing it with his audience because what a
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    cool thing to make people aware of like you can  be cuz look like Sean is successful 30 million
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    subscribers he's really well-loved in communities  I've never heard anyone say anything bad about him
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    but right like he is still discovering things  about himself in his mid-40s and he's sharing
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    it to such a large audience I've heard through Tik  Tok that this was coming out because somebody said
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    keemstar and other people were like going after  him for being like Oh all these people just want
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    to be autistic just a reminder none of those  people are going to help you in your life this
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    is going to help you so much more in your life  than somebody like keemstar who's a boomer who
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    thinks oh everyone just wants to be autistic okay  and talk about impostor syndrome you can't trick
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    the doctor s into diagnosing you with autism  if they're actually doing their job they're
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    not going to misdiagnose you if they're being  lazy if they're not paying attention if they're
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    not actually interested sure but you have to get  a medical professional to diagnose you okay it
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    has to be a doctor somebody who understands what  they're diagnosing and if they're really good at
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    their job they're not going to want to misdiagnose  you okay I think the problem is like we run into
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    people who we run into people that are human so  they make mistakes or they're lazy or they're not
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    interested in actually knowing you that's why I  say fire your medical professionals that aren't
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    genuinely interested in helping you find the right  answers the true answers so just learn more about
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    myself and as I've gotten diagnosed with ADHD  and autism and even for me getting diagnos with
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    autism was just such a massive positive I like  he was talking me through it and was like some
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    people react poorly to it some people don't like  to be confronted some people don't think they have
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    it and are a bit in denial about it and I was  like I see this as nothing but a win I finally
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    have like more answers about myself why I am the  way I am and not not just for other people and
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    where I fit in with things cuz like it doesn't  change anything about me I'm still the exact
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    same person I was but for me it makes me go easier  on myself having these diagnoses diagnoses about
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    the conditions that I have like knowing that I'm  autistic ADHD or DHD as they call it um makes me
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    go easier on myself being like okay that's why  I couldn't really keep up in college because my
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    brain just kind of like works at a different pace  yes it doesn't really study things the way other
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    people study it in a neurotypical way and it it's  made me like recontextualize my life a lot more
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    and made me just feel better about myself G yes  I think that's the biggest thing that I've taken
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    away from all of this cuz I've lived with it for  so long now 34 years of my life that like it's not
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    it's not going to change anything really okay  can I say something too there you know how um
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    there's pikm there's also nerd Divergent pikm  where there are nerd divergents that are so
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    ashamed of not being able to finish school  that instead of actually admitting like their
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    disabilities like got in the way they actually  will say like I didn't even need school like
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    school I don't even need it and uh it's not my  autism or it wasn't my disability like it's kind
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    of interesting I'll me people who won't realize  how much their nerd divergency is impacting them
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    because they think it's like shameful which is  ironic because after they get diagnosed they make
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    an attempt to better their life but also making  an attempt to better your life is also a reminder
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    that they have a thing and they don't want to  have a thing so then they pretend like their
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    thing doesn't impact their life but the thing is  is that sometimes it's hard to admit this thing
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    is impacting you sometimes it's hard to admit like  oh yeah like I'm this smart and capable person but
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    God forbid I have to like sit in a classroom like  what is that because the insinuation is that dumb
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    people are unable to sit in a classroom but that's  not true right like that's not how that works and
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    so it is kind of cool to hear him say like okay  this makes a lot of sense for my schooling like
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    I think about my schooling growing up and how  everyone in my school even in homeschooling was
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    telling my parents get her diagnosed for ADHD and  my parents were like no my kids don't have these
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    things these things are made up and it's like yeah  all that time I was struggling in school could you
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    imagine if I had a different relationship with my  education maybe it would have been different or
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    maybe it would have been the same but it's kind of  interesting it'll just make me dealing with myself
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    a bit easier it'll make me go easier on myself  and treat myself a bit more kindly and I think
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    that's really important because how many of us  don't treat ourselves kindly and a lot of people
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    are probably like Sean why you telling everybody  well it's not like you got diagnosed with cancer
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    or something I get it um like I said it doesn't  really change much about myself and it's not it's
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    not like a see you know how people okay I've met  people who are like oh yeah my diagnosis isn't
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    going to change anything guys if I got diagnosed  it changes everything for me a new diagnosis
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    means my life is about to change cuz I'm about to  do everything different because like it means the
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    thing that I was struggling with before that led  me to getting a diagnosis means the thing that's
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    going to help me not struggle as much means a  change in my life you all getting diagnosed and
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    not changing your life when I got diagnosed with  fibromyalgia it changed my life I started working
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    out I started paying attention to my body I'm  gluten-free like I literally changed my life my
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    life is not the same you know what I mean because  I don't want to be in the same struggle I was in
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    of course changes everything because I'm going  to get better now not cure I'm going to have a
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    better life because that was the point of seeking  the diagnosis to get better not to cure it but to
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    learn to live in symbiosis positive symbiosis  with it so yeah I get confused I think when I
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    hear people say like this diagnosis isn't going to  change anything addition that's like really like
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    life-threatening for me or anything like that but  I think it's a good conversation to have because
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    when I talked about being diagnosed with ADHD the  amount of people that came out in support of that
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    but also said that they got got tested because  of me like even my agent said he got tested much
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    later in life older than I am because of the stuff  I was saying great and I know that some people are
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    going to say the same thing about this like oh I  didn't know autism can like present itself that
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    way like looking at me you wouldn't think that  I was autistic for a lot of people so I think
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    it's important to have that conversation and also  just normalize it yeah I'm trying to you know what
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    I'm trying to change this industry I'm trying to  I'm going into next year see how the nois changed
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    things it did change things it changed the content  in a better way more representation we love to see
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    it with a a an evolutionary mindset that I want to  change this industry from people who are obsessed
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    with ambition and Legacy Legacy is just another  word for ego and narcissism like you're trying
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    to build up a life for yourself that you want  people to remember you after you're dead you
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    know I remember having a criticism of Jack sepai  once I think when he was taking a lie detector to
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    was that ja sepy right where he was like saying  that Logan Paul just cares about clicks and
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    Views but I was like yeah but like you have 30  million subscribers I will say this is different
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    categorization the Logan Pauls are different  than the Jack sepis even if both of them have a
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    ton of subscribers Logan Paul will sell his like  firstborn son for a dollar bill but Jack sepai
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    is willing to take a pay cut if it's the right  thing to do and that's the difference and then
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    the result might look the same outwardly like  Jack sepy does thumbnails and he has 30 million
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    subscribers and he didn't get there on accident  but he didn't have to sell his firstborn son to do
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    it but Logan would absolutely sell his firstborn  son to sell Prime and that's the difference so
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    I'm I'm much more a fan of Jack septi bubble than  like the Logan Paul bubble right cuz like I don't
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    like it either I don't like the selling out morals  I don't like the selling out your firstborn child
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    I don't like the people you're willing to throw  under the bus for success and for what for the
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    70 years you're going to live here you're just  going to R a bunch of people's lives like what's
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    the point of that right so yeah shout outs to Sean  for wanting to go into 2025 making a difference
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    how self- involved is that do good things and  hope people do good things back and just spread
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    positivity and joy you know but I want to change  this sort of mentality around mental health and
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    the way people operate and this whole idea of like  chasing ambition and Views and goals and projects
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    and being better than yourself every single day  it's try to want to be better but at the beest of
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    absolutely everything else in your life where your  mental health struggles and all you're doing is
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    being productive and making things and just not  living your life or being a person or exploring
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    your own mental health and your own mentalities  or dealing with the stuff in your past that you
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    up as a kid that's driving you to be ambitious  because your dad probably instilled something
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    in you or your mom wasn't proud enough of you so  you're trying to like you know what I mean trying
  • 00:16:24
    to break down these walls and not like hide away  from all of this [ __ ] yes yes ma'am have people
  • 00:16:30
    like sit in this sort of like pseudo masculinity  nonsense that we're all kind of hiding in um at
  • 00:16:35
    least from my perspective being like I don't know  I'm just kind of tired of the lack of conversation
  • 00:16:44
    around a lot of this stuff and a lot of people  when I announced on Twitter that I had autism
  • 00:16:48
    people were like dude why would you admit to that  like it's some sort of bad oh because they're
  • 00:16:52
    going to hold it against you they're going to hold  it against you they're going to make videos and
  • 00:16:59
    every time someone says something they're like  that's your autism now don't get me wrong in a
  • 00:17:02
    safe space where people are all autistic it could  be your autism but you're not punished for it
  • 00:17:07
    which is why in my community you're not punished  for like having a disability but we also we want
  • 00:17:14
    to give each other tools that it doesn't run our  life Run the World autism who run the world autism
  • 00:17:20
    you know but also they will use it against you  they will they'll make videos and they'll say
  • 00:17:29
    oh this is the autism that's why I like to  remind people of all these people we talk
  • 00:17:34
    about throughout his history autistic like okay  also I saw a Tik Tok where it's like why do people
  • 00:17:39
    make fun of Elon Musk for being a robot he's  autistic and that's true too just a reminder
  • 00:17:43
    Elon is autistic so if you ever see Elon Musk and  think he socializes weird he talks weird he talks
  • 00:17:48
    like a robot yeah don't be an ableist he might  be a person but his autism isn't why he should
  • 00:17:55
    and a lot of people think autistic people are  quote creepy because because um they're able it
  • 00:18:00
    like they don't even know they don't anything  about autism right so just like keep that in
  • 00:18:04
    mind right bad thing it's some sort of thing  that suddenly like makes me worse or makes me
  • 00:18:09
    a different person it doesn't most of I would  guarantee you that 99% of the people who do
  • 00:18:16
    YouTube or do content creation or any sort  of creative artistic thing all have ADHD if
  • 00:18:23
    didn't I say that at the beginning of this video  [ __ ] I'm telling you the Arts the obsession the
  • 00:18:28
    interest the fact that like if you're willing  to do it for not the money there's something
  • 00:18:33
    about that where like I will do this job for the  rest of my life even if I don't make money cuz I
  • 00:18:38
    just I seem to love this thing this is the thing  my brain seems to love right same with like even
  • 00:18:43
    asmin who I've un subscribe to and move away from  that boy bubble cuz it's too toxic but even asmin
  • 00:18:48
    I'm like get diagnosed you're autistic like do  it because he's the kind of guy same thing like
  • 00:18:53
    he will do it whether he makes the money or not  like when you do things when it's not motivated
  • 00:18:57
    by money but it's actual interest and you have  like an actual focus on something that's most
  • 00:19:02
    likely neur divergency and that's why it's  interesting that's why it's interesting but
  • 00:19:08
    yeah believe me when I say Jack is Sean is right  and people will absolutely discount what he says
  • 00:19:16
    in the future because of his autism and that is  why ableism is bad that's why discrimination is
  • 00:19:21
    bad because you're unable to view a person through  their like lived lens and understand that some of
  • 00:19:26
    the greatest Minds throughout history that you  like worship the ground they walk on probably
  • 00:19:31
    autistic especially in the philosophy bubbles  okay all these debate Bros that are referencing
  • 00:19:39
    all these philosophers without ever thinking about  their nerd divergency and that's it the debate bro
  • 00:19:43
    bubble is so nerd Divergent but they think they're  better than the other nerd divergents they're like
  • 00:19:49
    I'm better than you because like I'm not disabled  it's like I don't even care that I have ADHD I'm
  • 00:19:54
    going to debate you and it's like okay but also  do you see in the ways your ner icy is because
  • 00:19:59
    you're not taking care of it is playing out in  your life negatively cuz like you have to take
  • 00:20:03
    care of yourself and sometimes our nerd divergency  is because it's a disability can be very harmful
  • 00:20:08
    to ourselves whether it's like grooming or  eating or sleeping properly or anything else
  • 00:20:13
    or maybe even in some correlation between ADHD and  promiscuity maybe impulsivity that compulsive like
  • 00:20:20
    um negative part of our life like these are all  opportunities to be healthier not richer healthier
  • 00:20:30
    there's a reason that a lot of us are attracted  to a job where we make our own hours and we get
  • 00:20:33
    to communicate with people through a camera  rather than having to be in front of them 24/7
  • 00:20:38
    exactly you know there's didn't I tell you every  time YouTubers are so good at looking like social
  • 00:20:44
    bees when really we're hiding behind this camera  there's a definite pattern to this non-conformity
  • 00:20:50
    aspect of like not wanting to do a regular 95  job so you sit in front of a camera playing
  • 00:20:54
    video games or you know and I bet you like half  of those people probably have autism and they
  • 00:21:00
    just don't realize that that's what autism  is like the way it presents itself and it's
  • 00:21:04
    the sort of terminologies and the paperwork and  everything about it the the conversation around
  • 00:21:09
    autism and what it is is completely changing  and 10 years ago I wouldn't have even said I
  • 00:21:15
    mean even five years ago I wouldn't have said  that I had autism and now here I am where I'm
  • 00:21:18
    like yeah the signs were all there all along and  the way it presents itself in me is not so much
  • 00:21:25
    um apparently my communication is good but people  don't realize like when I'm conversing with people
  • 00:21:32
    I'm going through like a million different things  in my brain I'm overanalyzing the way I am I'm
  • 00:21:38
    over analyzing everything that I say I'm pushing  everything through a filter in my brain so from
  • 00:21:43
    my understanding if you're high masking you are  overcompensating harder than a person who isn't
  • 00:21:50
    masking like if you are uh unable to high mask  like really high mask then you are expending
  • 00:21:58
    so many more energy and spoons to that high  masking which is why your body is like coping
  • 00:22:04
    very hard with it but also when you stop doing  that it's also why you kind of lose control of
  • 00:22:10
    everything it's like balancing a bunch of plates  and you almost like lose the skill and then it's
  • 00:22:15
    like much harder for you but if you're this  this this used to be much more of my life
  • 00:22:21
    and when I stopped High masking as hard I kind of  crumbled under the pressure because I was so good
  • 00:22:27
    at filtering I was so so good at thinking about  everything and I don't do it as much and it is
  • 00:22:31
    getting me in trouble which is why moving into  2025 we're going to work on a healthy balance
  • 00:22:36
    between proper masking appropriate behavior  and filtering my thoughts before I say them out
  • 00:22:41
    loud okay so we want to in instead of just saying  well it's my nerd divergency it's how my brain
  • 00:22:50
    works I know but let's like up our skill level  and remember that we have the skills through
  • 00:22:56
    therapy and other means to wait filter speak  and I'm going to practice it's going to take
  • 00:23:02
    me a bit but I want to get back on track of being  actually not just like high masking as a cope but
  • 00:23:08
    like proper interaction as a person because I  can't expend the spoons I've been using to high
  • 00:23:13
    mask but I can spend those spoons getting better  at pausing it just just pause like it sounds so
  • 00:23:20
    crazy but like people who are silent they just  do better in life you know people who are quiet
  • 00:23:24
    people perceive them as smarter because they're  not talking so then they project their thoughts on
  • 00:23:28
    to that person I just can't just don't talk but  then I have to work out my facial expressions
  • 00:23:33
    cuz I'm also like I'm also like you know my  facial expressions be giv it away I'm reading
  • 00:23:40
    everyone's body language all the time to like  see where things fit in so I always say that
  • 00:23:44
    I'm a really good judge of character because  I'm like hyper analyzing people all the time
  • 00:23:49
    and not in any sort of judgmental way where I  like throw it back nope but just like in the
  • 00:23:52
    autistic way where you're observing every detail  of a person and considering what category they
  • 00:23:56
    belong to I get it at them but for me it's like  a a thing that I can use to kind of like help me
  • 00:24:01
    get through conversations and social structures  a bit easier and I'm able to weave in and out
  • 00:24:06
    through that and I use comedy as my tool to do  that I can like sit down in a group of people
  • 00:24:11
    use comedy and within five minutes I can get  a beat on everybody and I can figure them out
  • 00:24:15
    and and I thought this was my superpower my whole  life and I thought I am so good at socializing I
  • 00:24:22
    am people love me I'm so good because I can read  the script and I know what people want me to say
  • 00:24:30
    oh wait I told my partner the other day I was like  I don't how a small talk when a person says wow
  • 00:24:36
    the weather am I right you look up if it's sunny  you say I know girl it's so hot outside if it's
  • 00:24:41
    cold you say oh my God girl it's so cold outside  and he was like Britney and I was like what
  • 00:24:46
    he goes no if you're making small talk it's an  opportunity to have like a conversation I was like
  • 00:24:51
    yes but if they but if they say oh my gosh this  weather I go yes and then I appropriately respond
  • 00:24:58
    what are you doing to me right now and he's  just like no listen I was like no you listen
  • 00:25:02
    some opportunities are time to like bond with  strangers and have an interesting conversation
  • 00:25:07
    that's off the cuff most of the time small  talk is an appropriate back and forth script
  • 00:25:12
    Hi how are you today I'm good how are  you today I am good this weather am I
  • 00:25:16
    right I know it's so cold outside haha and  then you walk away I know the script I've
  • 00:25:22
    been studying it my whole life Don't lecture  me but also I know there are times in which
  • 00:25:28
    you're meeting up with a person you're like  oh my God I love your dog how cute thanks
  • 00:25:31
    he's my best friend oh my God amazing coat oh  my gosh thanks I got it from this store oh my
  • 00:25:36
    gosh that store I know that store I also buy  clothes from this store okay Bond Bond Bond oh
  • 00:25:41
    my gosh blah blah blah blah and then you can  maybe like figure out you both love the same
  • 00:25:44
    band I know the scripts Don't lecture me but  also you know it takes spoons it takes spoons
  • 00:25:56
    that that's my super power guys I have autism I  have superpowers I but and that's why it's hard
  • 00:26:05
    when you're like it is my superpower cuz your  superpower is a cope girl you just wait till
  • 00:26:09
    you're too tired to use that superpower so with  me it's sensory things like I've talked a lot
  • 00:26:14
    about like let's say BB goes for a poop in the  kitchen I can smell when he goes to the bathroom
  • 00:26:20
    immediately I can pick up on the smell of [ __ ]  a mile away I'm like a shark with blood in the
  • 00:26:25
    water and then if he like shits on himself or  something I'm like Evelyn you got to clean it
  • 00:26:30
    up because if I look at it and smell it and  touch it I will I gag okay when Indiana cuz
  • 00:26:36
    she we took Indiana to the vet the other day and  she's been um spitting up a lot more often and my
  • 00:26:43
    partner will scream don't come into the family  room don't come and like cuz I'll be he'll hear
  • 00:26:48
    me while I have the heaviest Footsteps in the  world and I'll start walking towards the family
  • 00:26:51
    room and he'll be like don't don't look down  don't look at it and I'm like what and like
  • 00:26:55
    he tries to protect me from it because I'm very  sensitive I will clean it I mean I've taken care
  • 00:26:59
    of Indiana most of my life alone and I've cleaned  up her spit before but it is one of those things
  • 00:27:04
    where like I have to like suppress every part of  myself not to join her and I'm very sensitive to
  • 00:27:08
    like everything and so he'll try to like block me  from it oh is my stream still here it should be
  • 00:27:14
    he's still here but let me know if I cut off let  me know wait I'm going to pause wait I'm going
  • 00:27:19
    to pause it looks like my OBS is reconnecting  am I here okay I thought it was me okay no we
  • 00:27:23
    cut out for a second we cut out for a second  all of this to say shout out to our partner
  • 00:27:29
    who are able to understand we're having sensory  issues we're not just trying to avoid the
  • 00:27:32
    responsibility of like cleaning um cleaning up  after our animals right like Jack ja Sean Sean
  • 00:27:39
    isn't not trying to clean up after the animal he's  trying to express that the sensory stuff gets it's
  • 00:27:45
    intense that's why brushing my teeth is so intense  brushing my teeth is like very similar it's like
  • 00:27:51
    a gag reflex like it's really horrible that's  why I'm like happy with the toothpaste that I
  • 00:27:55
    found recently but also it took me a second to get  used to it took me like a week or two to get used
  • 00:28:00
    to it it's like really surprising at first it's  really salty but at least it's not sweet non-stop
  • 00:28:05
    like I want to be able to help but I can't do it I  will gag crazy with certain foods I'm a bit weird
  • 00:28:12
    with like the textures and the consistencies of  them so for me it's like a lot of sensory things
  • 00:28:17
    um but apparently I'm doing masking like all the  time um so it's really interesting I I think it's
  • 00:28:25
    interesting to see like a lot of the stuff that  people talk about like in social situations and
  • 00:28:29
    like no I'm just introverted and all you probably  are autistic and you just don't realize it and
  • 00:28:34
    unfortunately getting tested for autism is a  really tricky thing to do cuz I went privately
  • 00:28:39
    because the waiting list publicly on the NHS is  like two years [ __ ] that I can't imagine having
  • 00:28:45
    to wait that long to kind of like get an answer  for things for yourself so I feel for everybody
  • 00:28:50
    out there um who has to wait that long I'm lucky  that I was able to go oh my God literally chess
  • 00:28:57
    says when I'm brushing my teeth and family members  are as well I have to go find a different washroom
  • 00:29:00
    cuz if they spit near me I'll want to throw up  instantly same as if I'm watching TV shows like
  • 00:29:05
    if I'm watching a TV show and they're brushing  their teeth I have to look away I don't watch
  • 00:29:09
    it I can't if I watch someone brush their teeth I  get nauseous that's why when when primary bedrooms
  • 00:29:14
    have sinks next to each other I'm like no I  need separate bathrooms I don't I can't watch
  • 00:29:19
    people brush their teeth it grosses me out like  it literally makes me so nauseous private and
  • 00:29:24
    it still took like two and a half months to get  that uh assessment ready and the assessment was
  • 00:29:30
    fine for anyone who's thinking about doing it the  assessment for me was go in and sort of like break
  • 00:29:38
    down your life in a way that is like were you  always like this as a kid how did you play with
  • 00:29:44
    other kids how did you interact with other people  were you shy were you communicative did you how
  • 00:29:49
    did you imagine your play when you a kid and I as  an adult how do you interact with other people is
  • 00:29:55
    it difficult to like keep eye contact all of those  types of questions that you kind of expect will be
  • 00:30:01
    asked but there's an assessment form that they go  down through that actually is like graded and for
  • 00:30:07
    me one of the scores there was like a couple of  things that I was being scored on but one of the
  • 00:30:12
    scores was like the threshold was like anything  over a 100 is probably autism spectrum and I
  • 00:30:18
    scored like 121 so it wasn't like a crazy high  number um but there's definitely like the traits
  • 00:30:25
    are there um and you're not really supposed to  say like moderate severe or like high functioning
  • 00:30:31
    and all of that kind of stuff anymore because  it's it's kind of degrading but you can kind of
  • 00:30:35
    like figure out where I am on the Spectrum with a  bunch of other like terminologies um but the the
  • 00:30:43
    assessment I found actually quite interesting  because it is some people don't like breaking
  • 00:30:47
    down their life and like confronting themselves in  that way but I I quite enjoy doing that cuz you're
  • 00:30:53
    autistic don't you love that like it's cuz you're  a I istic like it's cuz like that's why there is a
  • 00:31:01
    correlation in the thought spot made a video about  this um um thought saot is an autistic content
  • 00:31:05
    creator wonderful person and she made a video  about introspection and autism and how certain
  • 00:31:12
    relationships with autism are actually the tool  to be more introspective because you're self-aware
  • 00:31:17
    enough and you have the ability to dissect  information enough to realize like oh there's like
  • 00:31:23
    something here and so yeah like a lot of people  don't like to dissect themselves and learn learn
  • 00:31:28
    more about themselves but there is a correlation  between philosophy and autism I just like learned
  • 00:31:33
    this that there really is a correlation between  people interested in autism and I I'm sorry
  • 00:31:38
    people interested in philosophy and psychology and  autism like it's it like that stereotype of like
  • 00:31:45
    oh if she's she's autistic if she like is majored  in Psychology it's not even like it's really is
  • 00:31:51
    a there is not literally true all the time but  there is a high probability if you're like very
  • 00:31:56
    interested in philosophy and psychology you could  be autistic which is kind of cool that I'm a very
  • 00:32:03
    introspective person and I like kind of figuring  out how I tick so I thought it was an interesting
  • 00:32:09
    assessment to go through but it's it wasn't scary  or anything at least not for me so I would say if
  • 00:32:14
    you're thinking about doing it but you're kind  of like apprehensive about it or scared of it go
  • 00:32:18
    for it um if anything the worst thing that can  happen is that you end up exactly in the place
  • 00:32:23
    that you're in right now well the worst thing  that could happen is that you try to immigrate
  • 00:32:26
    to a country where it's illegal to immigrate if  you're Autistic or the worst thing that could
  • 00:32:30
    happen is that you get denied for a job because  your medical paper says Autistic or the worst
  • 00:32:34
    thing that could happen is that you don't get the  benefits you need because you're Autistic or the
  • 00:32:37
    worst thing that could happen is that you don't  get to adopt children because you're Autistic
  • 00:32:40
    or the worst thing that could happen is that  you get your rights taken away because you are
  • 00:32:44
    autistic sorry to be a Debbie Downer there  are actually serious consequences to getting
  • 00:32:52
    diagnosed so Choose Wisely if you're  ready to get diagnosed and tell people
  • 00:33:00
    and that's probably not that bad but all the  people out there whenever I'm playing video
  • 00:33:04
    games and they're like man Sean's so distracted  what is he stupid I was pulling my hair out every
  • 00:33:10
    time he did this you guys are making fun of an  autistic person yeah you bullies I get that a
  • 00:33:16
    lot too why can't Britney like I got a comment  the other day that was like why Brit um Britney
  • 00:33:20
    it's kind of sad that you can't multitask as well  and like you can't watch chat and do other things
  • 00:33:24
    like even a dumb person could do that you're  basically bullying autistic girl wow good for
  • 00:33:30
    you buddy wow scream do you guys know that Tik  Tok she's like stay away from my girlfriend
  • 00:33:39
    scream but you don't feel so good now huh you guys  were attacking me over stuff that I can't control
  • 00:33:47
    how does that feel huh not so good some of the  reactions to it though were really funny people
  • 00:33:54
    were like Jack we know you did a 100 episodes of  Happy Wheels and that that was funny or I posted
  • 00:33:59
    like the mustard meme from the Kendrick album  of me screaming and then right after that was
  • 00:34:03
    like I got diagnosed with autism and people are  like duh I think that's funny I think it's fine
  • 00:34:11
    I'm okay with people joking about it I I don't  really have a problem with that I think it's
  • 00:34:15
    kind of funny but I also wanted to talk about it  because this is sort of the Year where not only in
  • 00:34:20
    my personal life I'm trying to live my authentic  self as it's called and I'm trying to figure out
  • 00:34:24
    more about myself and gain the confidence to  kind of just be me as who I am but it's also
  • 00:34:29
    the year of mental health for me and for thankas  and I think it's that's another reason why I like
  • 00:34:35
    pushed myself to get these assessments and to kind  of like open up that conversation and be sort of
  • 00:34:40
    that person that kind of takes that initiative so  I have an audience of people that I can use that
  • 00:34:46
    influence to spread a better message and be more  positive about it and break down this whole like
  • 00:34:51
    dude don't admit it autistic people are bad or  like people are going to treat you differently or
  • 00:34:56
    like it's not cool to do that or you know I'm just  so tired of that amen I'm tired of this version of
  • 00:35:03
    the internet that we live in where everyone has  to be like crazy productive crazy ambitious build
  • 00:35:08
    a legacy be as cool as you possibly can be show no  signs of weakness whatsoever that's all [ __ ] not
  • 00:35:16
    showing weakness and puffing your chest up and  trying to be the coolest person you can be and
  • 00:35:21
    be as productive as you can and do the coolest  things you can be that's weakness to me because
  • 00:35:26
    that means you're hiding from you're just working  to hide from what you're actually scared of which
  • 00:35:31
    is being alone with yourself and loving yourself  o obviously I'm true I want to see Andrew tapate
  • 00:35:38
    be alone in a room with himself without crying  throwing ACH just kidding you should cry I love to
  • 00:35:42
    cry being alone with yourself and loving yourself  obviously I'm throwing out a bunch of accusations
  • 00:35:50
    but and it's not true for everybody and but it's  true for some of them okay not everybody but it's
  • 00:35:55
    true for some of them it's all unique and it's  all different but you know what I mean you know
  • 00:35:59
    what I'm getting at you know where the vibe I'm  sitting in is and I want to tackle that head on
  • 00:36:05
    next year and I want to evolve I want to be an  evolved version of myself let's fing go I love
  • 00:36:10
    this introspection talk bro it really gets me  going same 2025 is going to be transformative
  • 00:36:16
    I feel it in my gut do you guys not feel it 2025  is going to be transformative for so many people
  • 00:36:22
    probably depending on the stage you are in  life of course like everyone's going to have
  • 00:36:25
    a different version of it but I think like um  I'm so excited I'm just so optimistic about it
  • 00:36:31
    because I obviously I'm in my mid-30s everything's  getting really exciting I'm learning so much about
  • 00:36:36
    myself but more than that like I'm kind of sick  of it too I'm sick of the negativity I'm sick
  • 00:36:42
    of also like these boy bubbles that are so toxic  and so sure that they are correct when they're so
  • 00:36:48
    obviously wrong about life so I'm like I'm done  I'm going to this is what I mean we're going to
  • 00:36:53
    we're going to start focusing on content creators  that are genuinely interested in introspection
  • 00:36:58
    and genuinely interested in getting better and  Sean is exhibiting exactly the attitude I want
  • 00:37:02
    to see in people that is I kind of contradicts  itself saying like going against the whole like
  • 00:37:11
    be better every day but you know what I mean I  want to be more no what what Sean is saying is
  • 00:37:16
    don't be toxic positive or you're like hustle  culture toxic positivity like you don't want
  • 00:37:21
    to be hustle culture you want to be be more at  peace every day be more line with your joy every
  • 00:37:28
    day be more self-aware every day have a better  relationship with your family and friends and
  • 00:37:32
    yourself every day which is not the same thing as  be better every day hustle culture more push-ups
  • 00:37:37
    every day like figure out your joy being in sync  with your joy and be good to the people around you
  • 00:37:42
    that is a very different Journey than this this  stag that's why I said yesterday on stream art
  • 00:37:46
    two days ago whenever we um that what do we owe  each other clip on my Channel right now there's
  • 00:37:51
    a difference between climbing the mountain to the  peak of the mountain to make a million dollars
  • 00:37:55
    that's not in the mountain right and getting  there to like self-actualized know more about
  • 00:37:59
    yourself Maslow's hierarchy of needs the top  of the pyramid is where no one gets to because
  • 00:38:05
    we're all so stuck in the middle which is usually  centered around like fulfillment and selfishness
  • 00:38:09
    and money and Status which is fine but eventually  if you're lucky you grow out of that and that's
  • 00:38:14
    why I say being rich isn't the goal and never  has been and never will be and if being rich is
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    your goal what do you do after okay so now you  did it you're rich now what cuz I tell you this
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    right now it won't be enough it never has been it  never will be it never will be open to who I am as
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    a person and not dance around [ __ ] because of  what everybody else tells me I should be acting
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    like that's what it is um but thank Miss is  going ahead soon tickets are on sale if you
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    are close to the LA area you want to come see it  we have so many guests I put them up already um
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    you can go to the community I actually love that  Chad says being rich is a side Quest love that
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    love it great side quest but it can't be the main  quest love the side quest though commity Tab and
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    see it it's all over Twitter as well I've been  posting he's talking about his charity that he
  • 00:39:08
    runs and he makes like a he raises a lot of money  every year it's pretty exciting so if you guys are
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    interested in that a lot about it uh we have  some incredible guests coming up we have some
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    musical acts we have two shows that are going on  it's going to be a great day I'm so excited for
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    I can't wait to get together as a community and  raise money for mental health and kind of like
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    push this Narrative of positivity and change and  upheaval that I think the industry so desperately
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    needs um because it's not been a great year for  YouTubers and people who everyone thought was
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    amazing and great and like oh your numbers are  really high so that means you're a great person
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    you do a lot of Charity so that means you're  a great person not always the case true um and
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    I've always tried to be a bit more transparent and  honest and break down that wall and that barrier
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    and not build myself up into something that I'm  not and I think that that's important that's why
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    I'm having this conversation with you right now  that's why I ramble that's why we're here that's
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    why we do it that's the end of it all thanks for  watching um who I don't know I have autism that's
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    it yay okay we did it oh congratulations that's  amazing I actually chat says which charities
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    does he do it for I don't know um I'm assuming  all the good ones but I don't know um you'll
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    have to figure that out I'm going to link the  video in chat so you guys can go check it out
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    in case that's interesting to you I know a lot of  Charities end of the year stuff is like charity
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    end of the year stuff and even my partner and  I have been discussing like which Charities do
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    we want to give to and stuff usually it's centered  around mental health autism whatever is associated
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    with the thing that we're interested in donating  to and you don't have to donate a lot obviously
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    you know I get it but it is kind of a nice thing  we always talk about like when we're you know if
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    we ever make like an excess amount of money like  who do we want to give it to like what charities
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    do we want to like fund and I told him like I  definitely want to fund the Arts like I have
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    friends in the Arts and they're always looking for  funding I would love to be a donor for one of them
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    like I would love because their Productions are  great but there's never enough money of course
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    and so like I would love to be that person who  can donate especially since we're not having kids
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    it's like let's put that money towards Charities  that we really love and Charities that use the
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    majority of that money for actually what they're  doing like the art communities I'm thinking of
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    they really use that money to pay dancers to pay  communities to like or pay their employees and
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    to really put on the production so I'm like you  know I'm stoked for that one day of being able
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    to uh to be that person you know so okay shout  out to Sean congratulations on the diagnosis
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    we' love to see it there is so much Liberty in a  diagnosis and there is so much freedom in knowing
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    more about yourself and every time you're worried  about unlocking something inside of yourself even
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    though it is scary temporarily it is always worth  it in the end especially since it always um it
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    will always bring you closer to your joy and your  sense of peace there's nothing better than getting
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    to know yourself because if there's something  truly scary about who you are as a person you can
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    change it you can have a different relationship  with yourself and that's what introspection
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    extrospection allows you to do it allows you to  take that thing you're so afraid of recognizing
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    and admitting to and make it something that  used to be a part of your story but no longer is
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    but for so as long as you ignore it as long as  you drag it into your future with you it will
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    be in your present don't bring your baggage  into the future let it be a story of your
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    past my belly's being I'm okay I'm just fine
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    yet all I do is not do you in my  mind cuz I know I don't make sense
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    I've been nothing but bless so why is my life  a mess please tell me cuz I'm sick of thinking
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    yeah now for the truth and Liv in life
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    a da
الوسوم
  • autisme
  • TDAH
  • neurodiversité
  • diagnostic
  • créateurs de contenu
  • société
  • soutien
  • sensibilisation
  • stigmate
  • introspection