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have you ever noticed that attraction is
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a weird thing sometimes a person can
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check all the boxes but we don't feel
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any attraction there's no chemistry or
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maybe you know someone who attracts
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almost everyone and then you think why
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what's their secret one thing is certain
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there's much more going on than just
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looks and Beauty when it comes to
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attraction so in this video I will give
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you five tiny habits five little
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behaviors that when a woman has these
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men always notice it and find it very
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attractive they pursue women who do
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these things these habits traits and
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behaviors make you magnetic if you do
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these things he will not be able to stop
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thinking about you now enough about him
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and the fact that he will be obsessing
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about you what these habits will most
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importantly do is they will help you
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feel confident and attractive your
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Radiance and your energy will change so
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let's talk about it my name is H I'm an
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author I also use the pen name Brian
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Knox I write about relationships and
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other topics and I want to start with
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tiny micro habit number one you take
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time and you make time for things that
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are important to you and these things
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are always more important than seeing
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him all the time always remember he is
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never supposed to be your only priority
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even when he's a great guy women that
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are obsessed with a guy always push him
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away women that are obsessed with
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themselves and their own well-being in a
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healthy way have an abundance of men to
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pick from now there are plenty of ways
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to show notic to him and a good example
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of this is saying no to last minute
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dates or saying who are you to a man
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that previously ghosted you but now
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texts hey what's up how have you been as
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if nothing happened don't you think
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that's funny how people that ghost do
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then after days or weeks suddenly text
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something like hey how have you been
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want to meet up uh do they think we do
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not have a notion of time and how much
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of it has passed since they started
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ignoring us now when a man asks for a
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last minute date it of course doesn't
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always mean that he has bad intentions
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but the correct answer to the question
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is usually no thank you I already have
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plans how about tomorrow even if your
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plans were just to clean your oven
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positive effect number one of saying no
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to last minute dates you show to him and
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to yourself that you are valuable that
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you have a lot of self-love you are a
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priority not an option positive effect
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number two you weed the bad from The
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Good Men because a good guy will say
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tomorrow's great or ah I'm busy tomorrow
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but what about Thursday he will give
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other options and a bad guy will say h
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sorry I'm only available now too bad and
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5 minutes later someone else's phone
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will get a text from him hey what's up
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how have you been want to meet up habit
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number two you often allow him to be in
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his masculine energy mode and you often
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remain in your feminine energy mode
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unless of course when you love to be in
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your masculine energy mode but a lot of
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of women don't like that in their
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romantic relationship they want their
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guy to step up and take charge and show
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that he's interested in them that he
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wants to be with them they want him to
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be clear decisive and active not
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passively waiting for his girlfriend to
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make all the moves and decisions yet
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some women forget to allow the man to be
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in his masculine energy mode where he
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will be like that that's for example
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also the mode where he wants to provide
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and protect some women do not allow that
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wait what what what what are you doing
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why why are you opening doors for me I
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can do that on my own thank you very
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much these are not the 50s it's not
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because you are a man that you have to
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open the door do you know how much time
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I spend in the gym trust me I can open a
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door what you want to pay for this date
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how dare you I make my own money you
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know how disrespectful you think you can
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buy my love for your information I have
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enough money to buy this restaurant and
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all the cars in the parking lot
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including that Rusty piece of metal you
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drive you call that a car if you had
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picked me up with a camel the ride would
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have been more comfortable I got carried
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away there for a moment and I know I'm
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exaggerating a tiny little bit here but
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I often see in relationships that have
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issues that or the woman is not allowing
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the man to step up because she
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continuously blocks his masculine energy
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or even when she's not blocking it at
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all the guy just doesn't step up he's in
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his feminine energy mode the woman says
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uh what are we going to eat tonight what
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would you like to eat the guy I don't
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know you can decide just tell me and
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I'll make anything you want instead of
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oh uh what about a good homemade pizza
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I'll make one sounds good he's taking
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action here he's decisive the micro
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habits you can use here are meant to
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invite him into that energy and here's
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how make him feel needed like he's
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valuable in your life and not by doing
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things for him but by allowing him to do
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things for you if you want him to feel
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attracted and to step up try to let go
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of control every now and then and that's
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an example of a habit here if he asks
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what restaurant do you want to go to
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tonight don't always make the choice for
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him let him work for it and say I don't
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know surprise me and then make sure to
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also not forget to act surprised if he
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takes you to the same restaurant you
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both always eat at most men love it when
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they can use their masculine energy
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around a woman and a lot of the women
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they give me feedback about my books and
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some of my courses on the website they
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tell me that when they let go of control
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every now and then not only does their
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love life get better because the man
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starts to step up most importantly they
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feel much better and relaxed and safe in
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their relationship and actually Life as
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a whole it's pretty stressful to try to
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have everything under control all the
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time habit number three being
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lighthearted this is a very attractive
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habit with a big impact on how you feel
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about yourself and as always this is for
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many reasons for example it's a stress
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reliever not just for yourself but for
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everyone around you people love being
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around light-hearted people because it
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gives them a great energy as well and
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that light-heartedness will also help
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you to create a better bond between you
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and the guy you are interested in he
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will in turn feel more at ease around
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you and it will be easier for him to
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open up and be honest about his feelings
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now just in case you think well it takes
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a huge effort to be light-hearted I
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don't feel happy all the time why would
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I have to put in that effort well habit
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number one you make time for things that
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are important to you self-care is
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important when we are light-hearted we
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are not doing it so other people would
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feel happy that's just a side effect we
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are doing it for ourselves first
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light-heartedness has a direct effect on
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how we feel about ourselves and life in
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general that more playful and positive
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outlook is a major stress reliever even
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the great Roman Emperor Marcus aelius
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wrote about this in his journal about
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1500 years ago and yes for your
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information for some reason a lot of men
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do think about the Roman Empire every
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single day now this light-heartedness
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changes many things about us when we are
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in that mode and we don't have to be in
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there all the time but when we are
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people can see that energy in our eyes
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it's a sparkle they can see it in the
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way we walk and talk and move if there's
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only one thing you remember from this
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video then I hope this one will be it
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because I know this can have a profound
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impact on your life and how you feel if
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you are not already doing this every now
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and then just take a micro moment and
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ask yourself what's my attitude now is
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it positive or negative and then change
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course when needed habit number four
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make the other person feel seen and make
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them feel important this one is becoming
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more crucial than ever before if you are
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out on a date with someone or even if
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you are just out with friends how many
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times are you checking your phone which
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is totally fine if it's a bad date if
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it's a bad date feel free to play a game
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of Tetris while the man you are on a
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date with drinks his seventh whiskey
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continues to explain how important he is
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and cannot stop talking about his
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ex-girlfriends but if you decide you
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would like to see that person again to
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develop a good friendship or who knows
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the relationship of a lifetime it's of
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course best to give them your undivided
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attention every time we look at our
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phone we signal you are not important or
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at the very least I don't care about
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what you are talking about I just want
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to see if there's something better to do
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on my phone and if we are honest we all
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do this at times but when you start
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paying attention to it you can build a
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new habit and these are tiny micro
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habits we don't look at our phone during
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a conversation we use and maintain eye
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contact we let them finish their
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sentences and another great Habit in
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this same category is remembering
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details if during a conversation you
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still remember a detail that was said a
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month ago you show that you care that
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person will feel important and we should
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of course never fake this it's great to
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have a genuine interest in other people
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but try to make other people feel seen
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and important it's a very charismatic
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thing to do and then finally the fifth
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habit that in this case will help you to
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have a wider range of men to pick from
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but they can also help you to just have
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more friends because this works on
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people in general when you like a man
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don't hide it show it openly without
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going overboard so when you had a great
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first conversation you can say I like
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you and not oh I never thought I would
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meet a guy like you I've been on so many
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dates and finally here you are so here
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are my plans for our future together not
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that now why is this an important habit
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well showing a man that you like him and
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again liking someone is a pretty basic
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level it's not adoring him but showing
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that you like him opens a door for him
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to pursue you aside from the players and
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the men that date 10 women a week most
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men need a sign that they need a green
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light they need to know you like them it
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energizes them it energizes the men that
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are not right for you to make that clear
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and walk away and the right men will
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feel called to pursue you and to step up
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seriously the amount of couples that are
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never formed that never date or never
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get in a relationship because the man
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didn't know the woman liked him it's a
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huge amount and if you are already in a
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relationship he still needs to know that
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whatever he's doing is making you happy
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and this sounds very big basic doesn't
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it but I've seen many couples where both
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people talk a lot about the neutral
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things they also talk about the bad
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things the behaviors they do not like
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but they forget to mention everything
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they like and love about their partner
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positive reinforcement is important so
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thank you for reinforcing me to continue
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to make videos by sticking around until
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the very end of this video and also by
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appreciated this video as always there's
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more on brian.com or in my books that
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you can find on Amazon you can simply
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search for my pen name Brian Knox over
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there and again thank you for watching
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