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imagine this you're in a relationship
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and everything seems fine until she says
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something that makes you stop dead in
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your tracks it's not an argument it's
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not a fight it's worse it's one of those
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subtle almost casual comments that makes
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you question everything what if I told
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you there are five specific things a
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woman can say that should make you walk
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away immediately not out of anger not
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out of fear but out of self-respect and
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a deep understanding of your own worth
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stick around because this isn't just
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about relationships it's about mastering
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your emotions staying true to your
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principles and living a life of stoic
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Clarity let's get one thing straight
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this isn't about blaming anyone it's not
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about pointing fingers or saying women
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are the problem relationships are
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complicated and both sides bring their
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own baggage but here's the thing
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stoicism teaches us to focus on what we
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can control and one thing you can
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control is how you respond when someone
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says something that doesn't align with
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your values your peace or your
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self-respect today we're diving deep
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into five specific phrases that should
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make you pause reflect and maybe even
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walk away why because sometimes walking
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away is the most stoic thing you can
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do here's the challenge we often stay in
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situ situations relationships
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friendships even toxic environments
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because we're afraid of being alone
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we're afraid of the unknown we tell
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ourselves maybe it's not that bad or
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maybe I'm
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overreacting but here's the truth
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staying in a situation that drains you
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disrespects you or makes you question
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your worth isn't strength it's self
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betrayal stoicism isn't about enduring
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pain for the sake of endurance it's
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about knowing when to let go when to
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walk away and when to prioritize your
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inner peace over external validation so
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let's break it down what are the five
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things a woman might say that should
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make you walk away and more importantly
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how can you do it with Grace strength
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and stoic wisdom one you're not good
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enough let's start with the most obvious
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one if a woman tells you you're not good
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enough when whether it's about your
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career your looks or your personality
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that's a red flag but here's the stoic
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perspective your worth isn't determined
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by someone else's opinion Marcus
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Aurelius said you have power over your
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mind not outside events realize this and
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you will find strength if someone can't
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see your value that's their limitation
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not yours walking away isn't about
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proving them wrong it's about refusing
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to let their negativity Define you think
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about it if you stay in a relationship
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where you're constantly told you're not
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good enough you're essentially agreeing
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with that narrative you're allowing
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someone else's opinion to shape your
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selfworth but stoicism teaches us to
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detach from external validation it's not
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about what others think of you it's
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about what you think of yourself so if
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someone says you're not good enough the
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most stoic response is to walk away and
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prove them wrong by living a life of
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purpose integrity and
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self-respect two I don't respect you
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respect is the foundation of any
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relationship if she says I don't respect
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you that's not just a problem it's a
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deal breaker stoicism teaches us to
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demand respect for ourselves not by
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forcing others to give it but by living
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in a way that commands it epicus said no
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man is free who is not master of himself
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if someone openly disrespects you
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walking away isn't weakness it's
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self-mastery let's break this down
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further respect isn't something you can
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demand or negotiate it's something you
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earn through your actions and character
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if someone says they don't respect you
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it's a reflection of their inability to
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see your worth but here's the thing you
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you don't need their respect to validate
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Your Existence you only need your own
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self-respect walking away from someone
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who doesn't respect you isn't about
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running away it's about choosing to
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surround yourself with people who value
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and appreciate you for who you are three
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I don't need
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you this one Cuts deep if a woman says I
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don't need you it's not just a statement
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it's a dismissal of your role in her
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life but let's break this down from a
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stoic perspective stoicism teaches us
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that our value doesn't come from being
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needed by others it comes from living
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virtuously and authentically senica once
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said he who is brave is free if someone
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tells you they don't need you it's not a
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reflection of your worth it's a
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reflection of their inability to see it
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walking away in this situation isn't
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about Pride it's about refusing to stay
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where you're not valued it's about
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choosing Freedom over
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attachment imagine this scenario you're
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in a relationship where your partner
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constantly reminds you that they don't
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need you over time you start to feel
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like an accessory rather than a partner
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you stop pursuing your passions stop
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standing up for yourself and become a
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shadow of who you once were stoicism
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would argue that staying in such a
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dynamic is a form of self- betrayal
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walking away on the other hand is an act
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of self-respect and courage it's about
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reclaiming your sense of self and
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choosing to live a life that's true to
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your
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values four you're lucky I'm even with
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you this phrase is a power move it's
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designed to make you feel small to make
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you feel like you owe her something for
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simply being in the relationship but
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here's the stoic truth no one has the
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power to diminish your worth unless you
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let them Marcus aelius wrote you have
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power over your mind not outside events
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realize this and you will find strength
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if someone tells you you're lucky I'm
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even with you they're trying to control
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you through guilt and insecurity walking
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away from this kind of manipulation
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isn't just healthy it's necessary it's a
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declaration that you won't tolerate
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emotional games or power struggles
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picture this you're in a relationship
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where your partner constantly reminds
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you how lucky you are to be with them
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over time you start to believe it you
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stop pursuing your passions stop
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standing up for yourself and become a
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shadow of who you once were stoicism
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would argue that this is a violation of
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one's inner peace walking away isn't
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just about leaving the relationship it's
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about reclaiming your sense of self and
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choosing to live a life that's true to
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your values five I don't care about your
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feelings this is perhaps the most
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blatant red flag if a woman says I don't
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care about your feelings she's telling
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you in no uncertain terms that your
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emotions don't matter to her stoicism
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teaches us to focus on what we can
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control our thoughts our actions and our
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responses but it also teaches us to
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surround ourselves with people who
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respect and value US epicus said wealth
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consists not in having great possessions
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but in having few wants if someone
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dismisses your feelings they're showing
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you that they don't value your inner
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World walking away from this kind of
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relationship isn't just about
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self-preservation it's about choosing
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peace over chaos imagine this you're in
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a relationship where your partner
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constantly dismisses your feelings
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over time you start to suppress your
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emotions believing they're
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unimportant this leads to resentment
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frustration and even depression stoicism
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would argue that staying in such a
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dynamic is a form of self- neglect
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walking away on the other hand is an act
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of self-love and respect it's about
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choosing to surround yourself with
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people who value and appreciate you for
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who you
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are here's the the hard truth walking
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away isn't easy it's painful it's
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uncomfortable and it often feels like
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you're losing something but stoicism
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reminds us that true strength isn't
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about holding on it's about knowing when
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to let go when you walk away from
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someone who doesn't value you you're not
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losing them you're reclaiming yourself
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you're choosing peace over chaos
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self-respect over validation and Clarity
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over confusion and that's the ultimate
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stoic Victory to recap if a woman tells
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you you're not good enough I don't
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respect you I don't need you you're
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lucky I'm even with you or I don't care
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about your feelings it's not just a
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warning sign it's an opportunity an
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opportunity to practice stoicism to
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prioritize your peace and to walk away
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with dignity remember you can't control
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what others say or do but you can
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control how you respond and sometimes
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the most powerful response is to simply
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walk away if this resonated with you hit
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