Becoming a super IC: Lessons from 12 years as a PM individual contributor | Tal Raviv (Riverside)

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Summary

TLDRIn this podcast episode, Tal Reviv shares his unique journey as an individual contributor (IC) Product Manager for over 12 years in the tech industry. Despite pressure and opportunities to move into management, Tal chose to continue on the IC path, valuing autonomy, mastery, and purpose. This has allowed him to focus on what excites him and be directly involved in product development across various companies, including Patreon and Riverside. Tal discusses leveraging AI, specifically ChatGPT, to enhance productivity in managing large projects, exemplifying how AI can assist PMs in scaling their impact without transitioning to management roles. He delves into the importance of building self-reliant teams and stresses that product development should be a team effort rather than being solely led by the PM. Throughout the episode, Tal provides insights into the dynamics of tech companies, asserting that successful firms often have two critical departments that influence their market leadership. He distinguishes between book-smart decisions—driven by data—and street-smart decisions, which require understanding customer perceptions and contextual nuances. Tal also shares valuable lessons from his failures, highlighting the importance of qualitative research and addressing customers' perceptions to truly understand and cater to their needs. Listeners gain practical advice on thriving as an IC PM, navigating the career path without a traditional progression into management, and learning from setbacks to become stronger professional leaders.

Takeaways

  • 🛡️ Tal stayed an IC PM for career fulfillment and autonomy.
  • 🚀 AI tools like ChatGPT enhance PM productivity.
  • 🏢 Two departments usually drive a tech company’s success.
  • 🧠 Book-smart vs. street-smart decision-making: Understanding context and perceptions is crucial.
  • 📚 Learn from failures by focusing on user research and customer perceptions.
  • 🤝 Build self-reliant teams where product is a collective effort.
  • 🔄 There is no one-size-fits-all strategy in product management.
  • 🎯 Stay open to adapting career paths; rigid strategies may not be beneficial.
  • 🎙️ Sharing vulnerability and failures can build trust and lead to growth.
  • 🌐 Understand your company's real value proposition by analyzing what customers genuinely pay for.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The introduction of the podcast mentions that Tall Reviv, a product manager, was once caught in a Twitter storm where people were tagging his CEO calling for his firing due to a misunderstanding linked to a past interview. The episode highlights Tall's unique career as he has remained an Individual Contributor (IC) Product Manager throughout his career, something rare in the industry. The host admires Tall for his active role in their community and his distinct insights on product leadership, emphasizing failure as a critical part of success.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Tall Reviv talks about his career choice to remain an IC product manager rather than moving into management. He speaks about his lack of a definitive career strategy and emphasizes his desire for work that excites him and is not bound by traditional career paths. Tall shares how he has seen the roles and schedules of managers and does not find them appealing compared to his work as an IC. Family influences also shaped his perspective, and he prefers to focus on work that he enjoys, much like his father, who is an academic.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    The conversation touches on the importance of compensation for IC roles. Tall discusses negotiating tactics where he emphasizes his intent to remain an IC due to the satisfaction derived from the role. He stresses the increasing recognition of IC roles in the tech industry, paralleling engineering career paths, and advises companies to establish clear career paths and titles for IC product managers.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    The host and Tall explore the evolving landscape of IC product management powered by AI. Tall provides an example of using Chat GPT to streamline writing rigorous documentation necessary for scrum processes, stressing the time-saving benefits and efficiency AI introduces. His experience illustrates the emerging potential for maximized output using AI tools, allowing ICs to manage larger scopes more effectively.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Tall dives into productivity and time management strategies, highlighting how he separates deep work from reactive tasks like checking Slack. By controlling his schedule and minimizing interruptions, he enhances his focus and output. Tall shares about intentionally designing his workdays, advocating for practices that eliminate unnecessary meetings and distractions, thus enabling him to maintain high productivity as an IC product manager.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    The discussion shifts to team management philosophies. Tall advises nurturing self-reliant teams to reduce dependency on the product manager. By fostering a culture where everyone feels responsible for the product, not just the PM, he suggests promoting communication in public channels over direct messages to increase transparency and collaboration within the team.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    Tall sees value in empowering team members to take ownership, reducing individual dependencies. He encourages sharing in public, celebrating team members who contribute ideas or solutions traditionally handled by PMs, thus creating a collaborative and proactive working culture. This approach also alleviates the bottleneck effect on the product manager, allowing the team to function more autonomously.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:40:00

    In discussing the rise of super IC roles, Tall talks about the super IC as a concept, particularly in environments leveraging AI for productivity. He emphasizes the importance of designing work systems that support ICs effectively and the role of continuous learning within teams. This involves fostering a culture that values problem-solving, adaptability, and resilience over rigid process adherence.

  • 00:40:00 - 00:45:00

    Tall mentions that focusing on the right company departments can be more crucial than following trendy product management methodologies. Identifying which departments drive the most growth in an organization helps prioritize where to make an impact. He describes different examples from companies he has worked with, emphasizing understanding the most valuable levers in a business.

  • 00:45:00 - 00:50:00

    Tall distinguishes between book smart and street smart decision-making. Book smart involves using data, frameworks, and logic, while street smart considers customer perceptions and narratives. He shares experiences where logical decisions failed due to lack of consideration for customer perceptions, suggesting a balanced approach that respects both analytical and perceptual insights.

  • 00:50:00 - 00:55:00

    Continuing the street smart theme, Tall provides examples where over-focus on logical improvements ignored the impact on sales demonstrations, highlighting the essential role perception plays in successful product changes. This reiterates the need for understanding beyond data, such as recognizing the human aspect of customer interactions and sales processes.

  • 00:55:00 - 01:00:00

    Tall emphasizes adaptability in product management and the importance of context over rigid adherence to prescribed methodologies. He acknowledges the influence of unique company cultures and market situations on deciding the best practices, encouraging PMs to remain flexible and open-minded rather than strictly following established 'best practices'.

  • 01:00:00 - 01:05:00

    Tall recounts times he faced potential firing due to misalignment with management or misjudgments. He shares a story of conflict with a manager and how candid discussions and seeking advice from a mentor helped him navigate the situation, ultimately finding a role that really suited him. The focus is on the importance of vulnerability and communication in professional relationships.

  • 01:05:00 - 01:10:00

    Tall shares various failure stories, such as missteps in understanding customer needs leading to failed projects. He underscores the importance of continuous learning from failures, suggesting that they are integral to personal and professional growth. Tall advocates for the value of user research and understanding customer motivations as foundational to avoiding missteps in product development.

  • 01:10:00 - 01:15:00

    Tall shares humorous and risky work experiences, illustrating a blend of creativity and rule-bending in his career. An example includes an elaborate April Fool's prank on executives regarding competitive threats. Despite initial success, such humor showcases the delicate balance of creativity and professionalism, emphasizing clear communication and aligning with organizational culture.

  • 01:15:00 - 01:20:00

    The episode concludes with a reflection on current pressures and expectations in the tech industry, mentioning the current geopolitical situation in Israel and its impact on work-life dynamics. Tall stresses maintaining routine and focus despite challenging circumstances, highlighting resilience and adaptability as key aspects of professional and personal stability.

  • 01:20:00 - 01:31:22

    Tall recommends a few books that have influenced his approach to product management and leadership. He discusses the power of storytelling and the importance of perception in decision-making. Tall's read on leadership, informed by non-traditional sources like parenting books, underscores the power of empathy and effective communication in successfully managing teams and projects.

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Video Q&A

  • Who is the guest in this podcast episode?

    The guest is Tal Reviv, an IC Product Manager with over 12 years of experience.

  • Why did people tag the CEO to fire Tal Reviv on Twitter?

    Tal Reviv was targeted on Twitter due to a viral misunderstanding, though the episode doesn't specify exact details of the situation.

  • What makes Tal Reviv unique in his career as a PM?

    Tal Reviv has maintained his role as an individual contributor PM for over 12 years, a rarity in the industry.

  • How does Tal Reviv use AI to enhance productivity?

    He uses AI, like ChatGPT, to automate and scale tasks, such as generating detailed user stories from verbal inputs.

  • What departments does Tal believe matter most in tech companies?

    According to Tal, tech companies typically have two departments that are most crucial depending on their business model.

  • What is the difference between book-smart and street-smart decision-making according to Tal?

    Book-smart decision-making is data-driven, while street-smart considers customer perceptions and the social context.

  • What approach does Tal suggest for staying a successful IC PM?

    Tal suggests designing your days for productivity and building self-reliant teams to maximize effectiveness.

  • What important lesson does Tal share from his failures?

    Tal highlights the importance of user research and understanding customer perceptions to avoid costly mistakes.

  • Why does Tal value staying an IC over moving into management?

    Tal values the autonomy, mastery, and purpose that comes with being an IC, and he doesn’t find management roles as fulfilling.

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    I've had thousands of people tag my CEO
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    on Twitter calling on him to fire me I
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    was actually on vacation and I got bored
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    tweet is has at CEO handle fired at
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    toall revie and I saw that that has like
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    a ton of retweets and I keep scrolling
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    down and I start to piece together the
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    story today my guest is tall reviv this
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    is a very special episode for me because
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    tall was one of the first and most
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    active community members when I was just
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    starting my newsletter slack community
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    and as a PM I've admired from afar for a
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    very long time he's got some really
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    unique and insightful takes on how to be
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    a great product leader and interestingly
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    he's decided to stay an IC product
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    manager throughout his entire career up
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    to this point which is over 12 years as
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    an icpm I've never met anyone that's
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    stayed in ic for this long he's been a
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    PM at patreon at Wix at appsflyer and
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    most recently joined Riverside as their
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    first ever product manager Riverside by
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    the way is the platform that I used to
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    record my podcast so this was kind of a
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    meta experience for both of us he's also
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    a former founder and outside of tech he
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    volunteers as a surf instructor for
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    people with disabilities in our
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    conversation we talk in depth about the
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    IC career path a bunch of tactical
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    advice on how to be more productive as a
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    PM including a killer example of how he
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    uses chat GPT to scale himself tall also
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    explains why every tech company has just
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    two departments that matter the
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    difference between books smart decisions
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    and street smart decisions we also spend
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    the most time I've ever spent in Failure
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    corner where tall shares all of the
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    times that he's failed in his career and
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    how those experiences made him stronger
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    and it was really important for him to
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    share these things because he wants
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    people to understand that successful
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    people fail a lot and those failur years
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    make you better if you want to learn
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    more from tall he's actually about to
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    launch a course on Maven that's called
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    build your PM productivity system which
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    based on the conversation that we had I
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    am confident is going to be awesome if
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    you enjoy this podcast don't forget to
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    I bring you tall
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    review tall thank you so much for being
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    here and welome welcome to the podcast
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    uh thank you it's great to be here this
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    is a long time in the making it has been
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    a long time in the making you're
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    interesting in so many ways we're going
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    to talk about a lot of different things
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    one of the things that makes you most
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    unique and interesting as a PM is that
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    you've stayed an IC product manager for
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    your entire career for 12 years I don't
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    think I've ever met a PM that's been in
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    ic for 12 years I imagine you've had
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    many opportunities to be promoted I
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    imagine this has been very intentional
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    and I also know a lot of people actually
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    think about this a lot should I move
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    into management can I stay IC and be
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    successful so I'm going to spend some
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    time here to start and my first question
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    is why why have you decided to stay in
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    ic why have you not moved into
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    management I don't really have a
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    strategy for my career like my strategy
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    is not to have a strategy for the
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    longest time I've gone by am I excited
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    to wake up in the morning and what's
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    going to make me excited to wake up in
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    the morning right not every single day
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    not all the time but for most of my you
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    know days that I work uh what's going to
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    make me you know hop out of bed and just
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    kind of Follow That and over time as I
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    got to you know have different managers
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    um and different uh product leaders that
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    I worked with I've never looked at their
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    schedule or their days or how they spend
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    the highest you know high percentage of
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    their time um and said wow that's what I
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    want to be doing uh if I compare their
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    days with mine and the the stuff they're
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    you know they're busy with um and
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    focused on and at the same time over the
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    years I've also not not that the
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    colleagues that I identify with the most
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    like the ones where I just feel I most
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    relate to them many of them have that
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    same pattern where they've gone to you
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    know team lead or director and so on and
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    their next role they request to be an IC
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    like they insist on being an IC
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    and yeah so that's that's from the you
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    know from the tech world that's uh what
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    informs that and the values I had
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    growing up just watching my dad he's a
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    researcher he's a professor uh and he he
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    just has a blast every day like he
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    refuses to retire he's just so
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    enthusiastic about what he does and he
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    you know he's never like aspired to be
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    career where I was I was not an IC no I
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    was in ic and I was just like I don't
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    want to be promoted any higher everyone
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    I look at above me is just so stressed
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    and I just don't need this and things
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    are great why would I want to change
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    that and I love that you stayed close to
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    that I know a lot of things pull people
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    towards management there's compensation
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    their status more impact trying to you
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    there anything there that's just like
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    pulled you and you've been just like I'm
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    going to give that up and I don't need
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    that or is it or life just as good as n
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    IC for you I won't lie um over the years
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    despite like everything I said if
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    somebody who is my you know same amount
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    of experience or same cohort and gets
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    promoted and becomes a team lead and
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    makes that decision and and Rises up it
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    does you know like twang in my stomach
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    it like gets on my ego I have that
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    moment where I'm like wait a minute like
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    what about me and should I be doing that
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    and it makes me question everything um
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    and then I say to myself okay so you
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    know go for it you know tell you know
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    tell your manager you changed your mind
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    or whatever it is needs to happen and
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    then I'm like well like like do I
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    actually want I kind of get back to that
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    same logic of like what I don't I don't
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    actually want that like so if I could
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    push a button and and switch with them I
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    wouldn't so but definitely definitely
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    you know very human
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    at the same time for someone that's
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    trying to pursue this path trying to
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    avoid these sorts of things and say just
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    trying to be successful as an IC looking
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    back is there anything that you've
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    learned that has helped you be
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    successful and pursue the thing that
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    makes you happy I think the big elephant
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    in the room is compensation I think
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    that's like you know whenever I have
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    this discussion with friends and
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    colleagues like that's always like the
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    well there's two things there's
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    compensation and there's um like can it
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    be interesting like don't you get sick
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    of it right so I think you know that
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    classic book drive you know motivation
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    comes from autonomy Mastery and purpose
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    and I think for me the IC role it's
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    definitely very autonomous it's one of
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    being a product manager is one of the
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    most autonomous roles and most amount of
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    agency you can ask for I think Mastery I
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    once heard Marty Kagan say in a in a
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    workshop you know product manager R is
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    one of those roles where you can just
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    keep doing it you know for a really long
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    time because it just gets it just keeps
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    changing and you can change Industries
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    right without having background in it um
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    the situation changes every time you do
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    it in every different context it's just
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    so so different and interesting and
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    purpose is one that
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    I I took for granted in the past and I
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    learned how important it is I think if
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    you feel that you're building something
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    that you really want to see happen in
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    the world and you really want to make
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    sure it's done well you're like you
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    don't you're like don't trust anybody
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    else to do it like you want to be the
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    one to work on it and make sure that
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    this gets done well in the world because
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    it matters to you then I think you're
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    you know you're in a really strong Place
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    uh from that point of view like that
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    really gets you motivated and you want
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    to be Hands-On and it keeps you really
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    focused I want to drill into something
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    you said around compensation uh and just
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    generally what you've done to be to stay
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    down this path because I know the
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    compensation that's the real thing is
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    there anything you've seen or done that
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    has helped you be more comfortable with
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    that in terms of getting the comp you
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    think you deserve being an IC this long
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    being like basically a super I I think
  • 00:10:31
    first of all you have to believe your
  • 00:10:33
    worth like you have to genuinely believe
  • 00:10:35
    and understand that an individual
  • 00:10:38
    contributor in product management you
  • 00:10:40
    know is is worth can have a really big
  • 00:10:43
    scope really big ownership really big
  • 00:10:45
    impact and U matters a lot and I think
  • 00:10:48
    the industry is coming around to that
  • 00:10:51
    right um we'll talk a little bit more
  • 00:10:53
    about this but the you know the great
  • 00:10:54
    flattening of the last few years and you
  • 00:10:57
    know I've seen like talking to friends
  • 00:10:59
    who are founders and the founders here
  • 00:11:00
    at Riverside are really looking for
  • 00:11:02
    people really experienced who are really
  • 00:11:04
    Hands-On like that's like first of all
  • 00:11:06
    we just need people who get stuff done
  • 00:11:08
    and just recognizing that in yourself
  • 00:11:11
    believing that and recognizing that in
  • 00:11:13
    the industry and remembering there's a
  • 00:11:14
    really good analogy here in engineering
  • 00:11:16
    right where uh it really makes sense to
  • 00:11:18
    all of us that like you shouldn't have
  • 00:11:19
    to rise into Management in order to
  • 00:11:21
    increase your compensation you're
  • 00:11:22
    equally or just as valuable right um not
  • 00:11:25
    as a manager as like a domain expert and
  • 00:11:28
    that's step one like really understand
  • 00:11:30
    that you are you know really really
  • 00:11:32
    really valuable as an IC I
  • 00:11:35
    think tactically speaking one thing that
  • 00:11:38
    I've done a few times different
  • 00:11:39
    interview rounds is when it comes to
  • 00:11:42
    compensation uh you've probably heard
  • 00:11:44
    the line well you know that's a really
  • 00:11:47
    high number but you know we can't reach
  • 00:11:49
    it but don't worry we're growing a lot
  • 00:11:51
    the product door is going to grow a lot
  • 00:11:53
    there's going to be a lot of
  • 00:11:53
    opportunities to rise into management so
  • 00:11:56
    you there's going to be a lot of
  • 00:11:56
    opportunities to increase compensation
  • 00:11:58
    over time and that's like a classic line
  • 00:12:00
    you might hear from a you know recruiter
  • 00:12:02
    or hiring manager and in those moments
  • 00:12:05
    it's kind of like puts you in a weird
  • 00:12:06
    position where it's like well you know
  • 00:12:08
    you don't think you're gonna rise up you
  • 00:12:10
    can't like debate that so well and what
  • 00:12:12
    I say in those moments is you know I'm
  • 00:12:14
    glad you mention that I actually have no
  • 00:12:16
    intention of going into management uh or
  • 00:12:19
    rising up you know in those ranks and I
  • 00:12:21
    know that you know you and I know that
  • 00:12:23
    the industry traditionally undervalues
  • 00:12:26
    the IC role so it's really important for
  • 00:12:28
    me to you know
  • 00:12:29
    have that number now and that works wow
  • 00:12:33
    okay very
  • 00:12:35
    straightforward so maybe along those
  • 00:12:37
    lines just a final question on this
  • 00:12:38
    track is just for people that are trying
  • 00:12:42
    to create a space for an IC path at a
  • 00:12:44
    company or as a company trying to do
  • 00:12:47
    this anything you suggest they do to
  • 00:12:51
    make this a thing for people that
  • 00:12:53
    actually want to stay I's to set this up
  • 00:12:55
    as a real career path have the titles I
  • 00:12:59
    think having you know good you know
  • 00:13:01
    titles that are clear that you can move
  • 00:13:03
    up into first of all just like creates
  • 00:13:06
    it as an idea that there is progress
  • 00:13:08
    creating clear levels and rubric just
  • 00:13:11
    like you would for you know within any
  • 00:13:13
    level or within any title I think saying
  • 00:13:16
    it out loud recognizing it I I think
  • 00:13:18
    it's just um like at the end of the day
  • 00:13:21
    you know we all want respect we all want
  • 00:13:24
    to feel that we're growing we want it to
  • 00:13:26
    feel that that's recognized so I think
  • 00:13:29
    putting it in words goes a really long
  • 00:13:31
    way so in terms of titles what are the
  • 00:13:34
    titles you find as a principal product
  • 00:13:35
    manager is there other titles you've
  • 00:13:38
    found helpful and how many levels of IC
  • 00:13:40
    do you find you need the ones I've seen
  • 00:13:43
    on like LinkedIn is there's there's you
  • 00:13:46
    know product manager senior product
  • 00:13:48
    manager principal product manager I've
  • 00:13:50
    seen a distinguished product manager at
  • 00:13:51
    ATL oh yeah I think Amazon I think has
  • 00:13:54
    that too Amazon too um yeah um I think
  • 00:13:58
    those are like the exception not the
  • 00:14:00
    rule yeah uh but uh yeah I think putting
  • 00:14:03
    it in words really helps okay so
  • 00:14:04
    principle and distinguished amazing
  • 00:14:06
    distinguish is the highest level you've
  • 00:14:07
    seen of an
  • 00:14:10
    icpm super IC I guess super IC and we're
  • 00:14:13
    gonna talk about that and then in terms
  • 00:14:16
    of rubric and career ladder basically
  • 00:14:17
    it's just the same way you have a career
  • 00:14:21
    ladder for managers just have it further
  • 00:14:23
    go further for icpms yeah I think
  • 00:14:25
    product is usually like the last
  • 00:14:27
    Department to really uh just because
  • 00:14:29
    it's smaller I think um yeah yeah okay
  • 00:14:32
    amazing really helpful we've talked
  • 00:14:34
    about this idea of super I's and as you
  • 00:14:37
    mentioned there's kind of this been Rise
  • 00:14:38
    of and shift of flattening of ORS as you
  • 00:14:41
    said of people hiring more senior
  • 00:14:43
    product managers is there's a sense of
  • 00:14:45
    that and they companies are expecting
  • 00:14:47
    more of PM's just doing the work not
  • 00:14:49
    managing other PMs and I feel like
  • 00:14:51
    you're such an interesting prototypical
  • 00:14:53
    example of the the PMS people want to
  • 00:14:55
    hire and with AI it's unlocking a whole
  • 00:14:58
    new lever an opportunity for a lot of
  • 00:15:00
    PMS where they in theory can actually
  • 00:15:02
    achieve this thing that compan are
  • 00:15:03
    looking for them to achieve which is
  • 00:15:05
    just get more done so any Just Thoughts
  • 00:15:07
    along that track of just like more is
  • 00:15:09
    expected of icpms there's more need for
  • 00:15:12
    icpms and AI making it easier what have
  • 00:15:15
    you seen there where do you think things
  • 00:15:16
    might be going we've seen the last
  • 00:15:18
    couple years you know I think it was you
  • 00:15:21
    had on here nikil singal talking about
  • 00:15:23
    when Facebook had those uh really big
  • 00:15:25
    layoffs that they were biased towards
  • 00:15:28
    keeping individual contributor product
  • 00:15:30
    managers um Zuckerberg you know talked
  • 00:15:33
    about uh the flattening and I've seen
  • 00:15:36
    you know he at Riverside during that
  • 00:15:37
    same time um Founders talking about how
  • 00:15:40
    they're just really looking for you know
  • 00:15:42
    can we just find some really really
  • 00:15:44
    senior experienc people who want to stay
  • 00:15:46
    Hands-On like that would be the dream
  • 00:15:48
    right you know I also have heard from
  • 00:15:50
    friends in you know in the market that
  • 00:15:52
    um the hiring Market that there's just a
  • 00:15:54
    lot more experienced people uh competing
  • 00:15:56
    for the same IC roles as a result of all
  • 00:15:57
    that so so I do think that the result of
  • 00:16:01
    that is you know a lot
  • 00:16:03
    of I think the result of that is um like
  • 00:16:06
    being at 10x PM for example is becoming
  • 00:16:09
    more and more table Stakes especially
  • 00:16:11
    like you mentioned with AI That's Just
  • 00:16:13
    the Tailwind for all of that and we
  • 00:16:15
    don't have to go too far down this track
  • 00:16:16
    but have you actually experienced this
  • 00:16:17
    yourself have you found really
  • 00:16:18
    interesting ways to leverage Ai and
  • 00:16:20
    become more effective just this week I
  • 00:16:22
    have an example my team I have one team
  • 00:16:24
    that's trying to introduce much more
  • 00:16:26
    rigorous scrum as it hires a lot more
  • 00:16:27
    Developers part of that is a lot more
  • 00:16:29
    paperwork uh as a product manager in
  • 00:16:31
    some companies it's a whole like role
  • 00:16:33
    that they hire uh just to do that and
  • 00:16:36
    what we did is uh basically took CH gbt
  • 00:16:41
    told it the format you know of the
  • 00:16:42
    stories and epics and so on and tried
  • 00:16:46
    something where I just dictated and
  • 00:16:48
    spoke as if I was doing a kickoff and I
  • 00:16:50
    just talked naturally and you know out
  • 00:16:53
    it just put out all this uh really
  • 00:16:56
    really really amazing detailed uh
  • 00:16:58
    stories and so on
  • 00:16:59
    and you know just had to edit it a
  • 00:17:00
    little bit but um so that was that was
  • 00:17:03
    like a you know a h moment for me like
  • 00:17:06
    okay that would have taken either
  • 00:17:08
    dividing the team into smaller pieces or
  • 00:17:10
    multiple product managers to be able to
  • 00:17:11
    keep up and you know obviously the next
  • 00:17:14
    step is like we just take the actual
  • 00:17:16
    kickoff record that transcribe that and
  • 00:17:18
    like feed that in we're playing around
  • 00:17:20
    with that as well you can imagine what
  • 00:17:22
    might have taken you know 10 years ago
  • 00:17:24
    five years ago a director organization
  • 00:17:28
    like a director level organization and
  • 00:17:29
    everybody reporting to that director to
  • 00:17:31
    achieve something could probably be
  • 00:17:32
    achieved with an IC now and I think the
  • 00:17:35
    you know this ties in because like the
  • 00:17:36
    product career path is going to be even
  • 00:17:39
    less about people management and just
  • 00:17:41
    more and more about like leadership
  • 00:17:42
    right and like the the core uh core
  • 00:17:45
    product manager
  • 00:17:46
    skills uh this is an really interesting
  • 00:17:49
    example of how you're using I want to
  • 00:17:50
    definitely spend more time here it
  • 00:17:52
    helped me understand exactly what you
  • 00:17:53
    did so you had a bunch of projects that
  • 00:17:56
    you were kicking off with a bunch of
  • 00:17:57
    different teams with a p um leading each
  • 00:17:59
    one or scrum Master leading this is
  • 00:18:01
    actually we tried this on on one team
  • 00:18:03
    but it was like a really big project
  • 00:18:04
    okay like a ton of yes ton of stories
  • 00:18:06
    yeah can you explain what the project is
  • 00:18:08
    briefly or sure okay um it's a I'll say
  • 00:18:11
    it's like a pretty fundamental change to
  • 00:18:14
    the user experience so it touches on
  • 00:18:16
    like everything of Riverside okay
  • 00:18:19
    oh man here we go I'm excited okay so
  • 00:18:23
    you have this big uh project you're
  • 00:18:25
    kicking off to rethink the experience of
  • 00:18:27
    Riverside and and normally you're saying
  • 00:18:30
    you would have had to write all these
  • 00:18:31
    one pagers and specs of the components
  • 00:18:35
    of this project like the different
  • 00:18:36
    features and product is that right so
  • 00:18:38
    the like high level why we're doing this
  • 00:18:40
    you know usability studies the design
  • 00:18:42
    the vision all that stuff we did without
  • 00:18:43
    AI that was you know me director of
  • 00:18:46
    design and our founder but then it came
  • 00:18:49
    time for you know the rupper meets the
  • 00:18:51
    road uh we did a kickoff on the
  • 00:18:53
    engineers you know everybody's bought in
  • 00:18:54
    everybody's excited and now we need to
  • 00:18:57
    like really make sure that things are
  • 00:18:58
    really really well defined and very very
  • 00:19:01
    clear and easy for you know testing
  • 00:19:03
    afterwards and and just like make all
  • 00:19:05
    that stuff the high level stuff really
  • 00:19:06
    really specific uh and so that means
  • 00:19:09
    user stories in jir in this case right
  • 00:19:11
    for this team that's how they prefer to
  • 00:19:13
    work and a specific format like that you
  • 00:19:16
    know they they've asked for and so it's
  • 00:19:19
    like a story and there's uh it's called
  • 00:19:21
    like girkin I'm learning this too this
  • 00:19:23
    is new to me you know given this when
  • 00:19:25
    that then that it's it's really tedious
  • 00:19:28
    uh when it's small it's actually really
  • 00:19:29
    fun to write because it makes you think
  • 00:19:31
    but when you have you know so many
  • 00:19:34
    things that need to change uh it's
  • 00:19:35
    overwhelming and would either delay the
  • 00:19:38
    team that would be the bottleneck or we
  • 00:19:40
    just have to split it up and what we did
  • 00:19:42
    is we took that template my team lead
  • 00:19:44
    said hey this is the template I would
  • 00:19:46
    love I gave it to Chad gbt I said you
  • 00:19:48
    know you're an expert PM product owner
  • 00:19:50
    scrum Master whatever this is the
  • 00:19:52
    template do you understand it's like
  • 00:19:54
    yeah let's go and then I said well
  • 00:19:56
    actually before we get going um I want
  • 00:19:58
    to tell you I'm like you know holding
  • 00:19:59
    down like the dictation button um use
  • 00:20:01
    whisper whisper I to dictate and I was
  • 00:20:04
    like you know let me just tell you a
  • 00:20:05
    little bit more background I just like
  • 00:20:06
    started talking to it like I would for a
  • 00:20:08
    developer you know joining the team and
  • 00:20:10
    I just started to talk about like why
  • 00:20:11
    we're doing it and so on I was like so
  • 00:20:13
    do you understand that I like yeah cool
  • 00:20:14
    let's go and then I said okay well the
  • 00:20:16
    first thing is we're GNA change this
  • 00:20:17
    area and it's gonna work like this and
  • 00:20:18
    it's really important that this and this
  • 00:20:19
    happens and I just talked supernaturally
  • 00:20:21
    to it like just just like I would to a
  • 00:20:23
    person andh when I was done I hit enter
  • 00:20:26
    and it created that you know that user
  • 00:20:29
    story in that format with all those
  • 00:20:31
    cases that would take me so long to
  • 00:20:32
    write and I would say the thing that we
  • 00:20:37
    still really needed a person for was
  • 00:20:41
    deciding how to break up this really
  • 00:20:43
    really big change into those stories
  • 00:20:45
    like what is The Logical way to split it
  • 00:20:47
    up uh engineering wise which my uh Team
  • 00:20:50
    lead did but once you have that like
  • 00:20:54
    each one individually worked really
  • 00:20:55
    really well so I'm now experimenting
  • 00:20:58
    with taking the transcript I tried this
  • 00:20:59
    actually experimenting with taking the
  • 00:21:01
    transcript of the actual kickoff that we
  • 00:21:02
    did and that we well we recorded on
  • 00:21:05
    Riverside and had a transcribed and I
  • 00:21:07
    copied it and put it into chat it didn't
  • 00:21:08
    work as well um so I'm experiment
  • 00:21:11
    tweaking it to see like how far how far
  • 00:21:13
    can we push this this is awesome I love
  • 00:21:17
    that you're sharing this uh so you had
  • 00:21:19
    basically described the project in all
  • 00:21:22
    the different comp all the different
  • 00:21:23
    features and user stories and words
  • 00:21:25
    using whisper just and to use whisper is
  • 00:21:28
    it an app or is it within chat GPT where
  • 00:21:30
    do you actually access this it's built
  • 00:21:32
    into chat gpt's desktop app and mobile
  • 00:21:35
    app like if you dict if you dictate that
  • 00:21:37
    way um I also have like a desktop app on
  • 00:21:39
    my own that I use because it's just such
  • 00:21:41
    a great U you know transcription model
  • 00:21:44
    awesome it's it's open source free uh
  • 00:21:46
    provided by open AI right it's their
  • 00:21:48
    it's open ai's uh trans speech to text
  • 00:21:51
    system and then they're adding voice
  • 00:21:53
    mode soon like it's coming out to people
  • 00:21:54
    so this is going to be built into chat
  • 00:21:56
    GPT soon amazing okay so you talk about
  • 00:21:58
    's all the things we're going to be
  • 00:21:59
    changing in the product you give it a
  • 00:22:01
    template where do you give the template
  • 00:22:03
    is it you put the transcript into chat
  • 00:22:06
    gbt with a prompt of here's the template
  • 00:22:08
    or are you just even still describing
  • 00:22:10
    that in the recording no the template is
  • 00:22:13
    something that um my team Le like this
  • 00:22:15
    is how I'd love to have these written he
  • 00:22:17
    just says it as part of the he he he
  • 00:22:19
    sent it to me he sent it me on slack
  • 00:22:20
    he's like this is how I want it written
  • 00:22:22
    so the first thing I did I opened a new
  • 00:22:23
    thread in chat GPT and I said you know
  • 00:22:25
    you're an expert you know product
  • 00:22:27
    manager product owner
  • 00:22:29
    uh this is the template we want to use
  • 00:22:30
    for user stories do you understand hit
  • 00:22:32
    enter so like it's like cool I get it
  • 00:22:35
    and then I start to talk about the the
  • 00:22:38
    changes we want to make okay this is
  • 00:22:40
    amazing um I could go down this track
  • 00:22:43
    all day but let's let's shift a little
  • 00:22:44
    bit is there anything else you found to
  • 00:22:47
    be really helpful in having leverage as
  • 00:22:49
    an icpm kind of along these lines
  • 00:22:51
    whether it's a or not just being the
  • 00:22:53
    super IC essentially getting more done
  • 00:22:55
    as an IC so the way I think about this
  • 00:22:58
    is
  • 00:23:00
    how you manage your own time how you
  • 00:23:02
    design your days your energy your focus
  • 00:23:06
    and then your team and how you build
  • 00:23:09
    that culture and those habits to just
  • 00:23:11
    give you a lot of Leverage as an IC so
  • 00:23:13
    that you know still as one person you
  • 00:23:15
    can you know own a lot of scope you can
  • 00:23:18
    influence a lot you can um manage a lot
  • 00:23:21
    so personally for my time I really
  • 00:23:24
    believe and I think you've written about
  • 00:23:26
    this as well in actively designing your
  • 00:23:28
    days and for me I really strictly split
  • 00:23:31
    my days between deep work and what I
  • 00:23:33
    call pingpong or you know ping pong you
  • 00:23:36
    can imagine it's like when you're uh
  • 00:23:37
    You' open Slack and it's just constant
  • 00:23:41
    you know hitting the bow back and forth
  • 00:23:42
    it makes your brain feel like scrambled
  • 00:23:44
    eggs you're not going to be doing any
  • 00:23:45
    deep thinking or reading or strategy so
  • 00:23:48
    for me I'm a morning person and I I
  • 00:23:51
    block off my morning for meetings you
  • 00:23:52
    know a lot of people give that tip I go
  • 00:23:54
    even further and I don't open Slack
  • 00:23:56
    before noon I've been doing this for
  • 00:23:58
    eight years
  • 00:23:59
    oh I don't open Slack at all to the it
  • 00:24:00
    gets really extreme to the point where
  • 00:24:02
    like if I need to send a message like
  • 00:24:05
    this usually fails I usually open Slack
  • 00:24:07
    um before noon because I needed to send
  • 00:24:10
    a message and then I realized like all
  • 00:24:12
    these messages don't need to be sent
  • 00:24:14
    before noon right just because I thought
  • 00:24:16
    it at 11: am doesn't mean I need to send
  • 00:24:19
    it at 11: am there's no urgency at that
  • 00:24:22
    level so I actually keep a section of my
  • 00:24:24
    to-do list which is when I open Slack
  • 00:24:26
    here are the messages I'm going to send
  • 00:24:28
    and write them as if I'm about to hit
  • 00:24:29
    enter and slack but they're in my to-do
  • 00:24:30
    list and sometimes if I like really
  • 00:24:34
    really really rare moments I'll need to
  • 00:24:36
    check something I'll ask the person next
  • 00:24:37
    to me like hey can you go into this
  • 00:24:39
    Channel and just show me that thing
  • 00:24:40
    because like I you know all their
  • 00:24:42
    notifications don't like you know
  • 00:24:43
    trigger my brain it to scrambled eggs
  • 00:24:45
    again so that's an awesome tip yeah and
  • 00:24:48
    I know people will hear this and be like
  • 00:24:49
    there's no way I can do this is your
  • 00:24:51
    Insight as you can yes uh usually when I
  • 00:24:55
    share this people are like well what if
  • 00:24:57
    something urgent happens and people are
  • 00:24:58
    looking for you this has
  • 00:25:01
    happened like twice a year like you
  • 00:25:05
    realize how not urgently needed the PM
  • 00:25:08
    role ever is like and first of all over
  • 00:25:12
    time people really respect it they like
  • 00:25:14
    they learn that this is how you work and
  • 00:25:17
    they they come to really respect this um
  • 00:25:20
    and second the key people that I work
  • 00:25:23
    with have my phone number and I tell
  • 00:25:25
    them you know feel free to call me at
  • 00:25:28
    any time if I'm not on slack if you
  • 00:25:31
    really need a response just call me
  • 00:25:32
    WhatsApp me whatever it takes and first
  • 00:25:35
    of all it's like a a barrier right it's
  • 00:25:36
    not like a quick message so it really is
  • 00:25:38
    only for Urgent stuff and you know all I
  • 00:25:41
    have like you know for twice a year I'll
  • 00:25:44
    get like a WhatsApp message from my
  • 00:25:45
    manager from my team lead hey something
  • 00:25:47
    urgent is happening in slack like we
  • 00:25:49
    really need you and then I'll open Slack
  • 00:25:50
    you know I'll violate my rule it's
  • 00:25:52
    totally fine um but that's like it's so
  • 00:25:54
    rare that uh the system works for me and
  • 00:25:58
    okay anything else along those lines
  • 00:25:59
    this is an awesome little tip I
  • 00:26:02
    personally keep a weird habit I realize
  • 00:26:05
    it's a weird habit I call it product
  • 00:26:07
    scrapbooking um where I have this like
  • 00:26:10
    massive notion database of every
  • 00:26:13
    opportunity big or small that's ever
  • 00:26:15
    come up and when a like a piece of
  • 00:26:19
    evidence you know out in the world comes
  • 00:26:21
    in could be like a support ticket or
  • 00:26:24
    like a CSM sends a Gong call or like
  • 00:26:26
    there's a really great slack thread with
  • 00:26:28
    like amazing brainstorm happening and
  • 00:26:29
    ideas piece of data whatever it is right
  • 00:26:32
    I'll file it like I actively take a
  • 00:26:34
    screenshot or whatever it is I file it
  • 00:26:36
    and I start to like cluster these in
  • 00:26:38
    this like really messy notion and the
  • 00:26:40
    reason I do this is that I've learned
  • 00:26:43
    that you know we have these like road
  • 00:26:45
    maps and strategies that like seem
  • 00:26:46
    linear but like life and customers and
  • 00:26:49
    you know insights are not so when the
  • 00:26:51
    time does come around to work on that
  • 00:26:53
    thing and that opportunity comes up I
  • 00:26:56
    can pull up that notion and I already
  • 00:26:58
    have a bunch of like really you know in
  • 00:27:01
    the weeds real world Clues to start with
  • 00:27:04
    and even persuade people that we should
  • 00:27:06
    dig deeper into this or for example
  • 00:27:08
    another Advantage is that uh if I'm on a
  • 00:27:11
    conversation with a person from sales or
  • 00:27:13
    CSM from customer success and they'll
  • 00:27:16
    mention a request you know I can open
  • 00:27:19
    that up and I'm like yeah this is
  • 00:27:20
    actually this client and that client and
  • 00:27:22
    that client also mentioned that and uh
  • 00:27:25
    you know you see like in their face that
  • 00:27:27
    they they feel heard like you've been
  • 00:27:29
    listening all this time like you've been
  • 00:27:30
    writing this down um it's a really I
  • 00:27:33
    think that's really important as well I
  • 00:27:34
    love these tips I love product
  • 00:27:36
    scrapbooking is a term makes so much
  • 00:27:38
    sense and it's just immediately clear
  • 00:27:39
    what you're going to be doing and I love
  • 00:27:40
    how simple the approach there is is
  • 00:27:42
    there anything else along those lines or
  • 00:27:44
    is there something you want to share
  • 00:27:46
    around the kind of this other bucket
  • 00:27:47
    that I think you hinted at of helping
  • 00:27:49
    your team set you up for success and get
  • 00:27:52
    more done I believe
  • 00:27:54
    in
  • 00:27:55
    cultivating very self-reliant team
  • 00:27:59
    and I think that's really key to being
  • 00:28:02
    having a lot more leverage as an IC
  • 00:28:04
    being able to manage multiple teams if
  • 00:28:06
    needed uh on much bigger areas of the
  • 00:28:09
    product I think the key of that is
  • 00:28:11
    having this mindset that product isn't a
  • 00:28:14
    role it's a team and I read a quote once
  • 00:28:19
    um by eie
  • 00:28:21
    ATA and she's worked on Netflix and Uber
  • 00:28:25
    and and she's super experienced and she
  • 00:28:27
    says something like like it's not about
  • 00:28:28
    waiting for product you know product
  • 00:28:30
    said this or that or waiting for product
  • 00:28:32
    like we're all product and I really try
  • 00:28:36
    to like have that that as the
  • 00:28:39
    Cornerstone of a culture of of any team
  • 00:28:41
    that I I'm on that you know I had a a
  • 00:28:44
    new teammate come up to me uh recently
  • 00:28:47
    he just joined and uh he was on
  • 00:28:48
    engineering and he's he came up to me
  • 00:28:51
    excitedly and he's like I found a case
  • 00:28:53
    that you didn't think about and I was
  • 00:28:56
    like okay awesome but hold on about
  • 00:28:58
    language like product is a is not a role
  • 00:29:01
    it's a team and uh whatever it is I
  • 00:29:03
    don't even know what it is but
  • 00:29:05
    everything that we own like it's h both
  • 00:29:08
    design was involved engineering was
  • 00:29:10
    super involved you know yes I was there
  • 00:29:13
    and it's let's call it hey I found a way
  • 00:29:16
    to improve the product or hey I found
  • 00:29:19
    something that we didn't think about
  • 00:29:20
    it's really really important so first of
  • 00:29:22
    all like that language that culture U
  • 00:29:24
    that you know it's not like this Hub and
  • 00:29:26
    spoke model and like the PM is at the
  • 00:29:28
    Center and making all these decisions
  • 00:29:29
    and um you know passing things through
  • 00:29:33
    so first of all that's like that's like
  • 00:29:34
    a fundamental mindset uh it's really
  • 00:29:36
    important for each team to have to to be
  • 00:29:38
    more High lover as an I see the second
  • 00:29:40
    thing is personally to seek to not be
  • 00:29:44
    needed but be
  • 00:29:46
    valuable and the difference
  • 00:29:49
    is like if you think about your day as a
  • 00:29:53
    product
  • 00:29:54
    manager like look for situations where
  • 00:29:57
    is there
  • 00:29:58
    a game of telephone that's constantly
  • 00:30:00
    passing through
  • 00:30:01
    me uh are there a lot of situations
  • 00:30:04
    where clearly you're the bottleneck like
  • 00:30:06
    your attention your ability to get to
  • 00:30:08
    something is the bottleneck and a lot of
  • 00:30:10
    people are waiting on you do you find
  • 00:30:13
    like a lot of communication is happening
  • 00:30:15
    direct messages with you instead of
  • 00:30:16
    public channels for the team are a lot
  • 00:30:19
    of working meetings just like you and
  • 00:30:20
    one other person on the team instead of
  • 00:30:22
    maybe two or three you know not too many
  • 00:30:24
    either so all those are
  • 00:30:29
    like opportunities where you can create
  • 00:30:32
    a different situation where a culture on
  • 00:30:34
    the team where people are figuring
  • 00:30:35
    things out between themselves and maybe
  • 00:30:37
    involving you at the very end so one of
  • 00:30:39
    the things that I really put a lot of
  • 00:30:41
    energy into is really encouraging people
  • 00:30:45
    to get conversations out of direct
  • 00:30:46
    messages and into channels this is like
  • 00:30:49
    a really important um way to cultivate
  • 00:30:52
    people just working together and
  • 00:30:54
    figuring things out in between one
  • 00:30:55
    another and anytime somebody sends me a
  • 00:30:59
    direct message I say this is a great
  • 00:31:00
    question can you please put it in this
  • 00:31:02
    Channel with the team I'll answer there
  • 00:31:04
    but it's really important for me that
  • 00:31:06
    any decisions we make are transparent
  • 00:31:09
    that it's easy to find it later that you
  • 00:31:11
    know there's a few other people who
  • 00:31:12
    should probably chime in if they want to
  • 00:31:15
    uh and this could be at the team level
  • 00:31:19
    um I work at a company that had uh
  • 00:31:22
    really really big customer success
  • 00:31:24
    organization they'd constantly like find
  • 00:31:25
    you as a PM and just DM you these
  • 00:31:27
    questions and I'd say great question put
  • 00:31:29
    it in like this really big channel that
  • 00:31:31
    way and I give a reason so that way
  • 00:31:33
    other people on the customer success
  • 00:31:34
    team can search the channel and find the
  • 00:31:36
    answer later right it can help other
  • 00:31:38
    people and if you do this enough it
  • 00:31:40
    becomes a Snowball Effect because other
  • 00:31:43
    people on the team will see that other
  • 00:31:45
    people are posting in public channels
  • 00:31:47
    and feel more comfortable with it and
  • 00:31:49
    that just becomes a chain reaction such
  • 00:31:52
    awesome advice there's like it's so
  • 00:31:55
    counterintuitive also I think I'm to a
  • 00:31:58
    lot of product managers where you're
  • 00:32:00
    basically saying like remove yourself as
  • 00:32:02
    a dependency uh delegate more Empower
  • 00:32:05
    everyone in your team have Engineers
  • 00:32:07
    come up with ideas have them write
  • 00:32:09
    things like one page respects things
  • 00:32:10
    like that like become less valuable
  • 00:32:13
    almost which I think is not the natural
  • 00:32:16
    tendency become Obsolete and that's the
  • 00:32:19
    dream know that's my dream I love that
  • 00:32:23
    but I think there like if I thought if I
  • 00:32:25
    think about trying to do this I think
  • 00:32:28
    you need like a real confidence as a PM
  • 00:32:30
    and be and comfort with chaos a lot of
  • 00:32:34
    times PMS they want to be the Hub
  • 00:32:36
    because the more they can control the
  • 00:32:37
    narrative the more they can control what
  • 00:32:39
    people see PCX pinging an engineer like
  • 00:32:42
    oh my God they're just going to start
  • 00:32:43
    working on this thing and we have this
  • 00:32:44
    road map we have paries what are they
  • 00:32:46
    how do you manage that challenge yeah
  • 00:32:49
    there's a great phrase I heard a mentor
  • 00:32:50
    once say which is culture over
  • 00:32:53
    process you know process is important
  • 00:32:55
    and and you need process to scaffold
  • 00:32:57
    till you build the culture
  • 00:33:00
    but I think it's it's like you view you
  • 00:33:02
    got to view the team as like this asset
  • 00:33:05
    you're building right this culture is an
  • 00:33:07
    asset that you're building and you're
  • 00:33:08
    you're investing in it and you're you
  • 00:33:10
    know cultivating it and you want to
  • 00:33:12
    build something that's stronger than
  • 00:33:14
    that's a great example a CX person or
  • 00:33:16
    salesperson just directly messaging an
  • 00:33:18
    engineer or just asking for something
  • 00:33:20
    you want to build something that's
  • 00:33:21
    resilient to that like that's the real
  • 00:33:23
    product that you're building as a PM I
  • 00:33:25
    think is the team that builds the
  • 00:33:27
    product and is resilient to all those
  • 00:33:29
    things it doesn't happen overnight it's
  • 00:33:30
    not going to happen in the first quarter
  • 00:33:31
    that the team is formed but it happens
  • 00:33:34
    you know over time gradually with little
  • 00:33:36
    messages and little interactions and
  • 00:33:38
    positive feedback and you know asking
  • 00:33:40
    people to work a little bit differently
  • 00:33:41
    and giving them a reason why and
  • 00:33:43
    building trust and you know I I think
  • 00:33:46
    that success in my job is to build a
  • 00:33:50
    very self-reliant team that's very
  • 00:33:52
    resilient to all those things that I
  • 00:33:54
    would otherwise you know like you said
  • 00:33:55
    keep me up at night like really make me
  • 00:33:57
    worried
  • 00:33:58
    you shared an example of how you do that
  • 00:34:00
    these little mic I call these micro
  • 00:34:01
    interactions like so much of a PM is
  • 00:34:03
    these micro interactions with team
  • 00:34:04
    members which so much harder now in a
  • 00:34:06
    remote world where we can't just walk by
  • 00:34:07
    and just like do a little little chat
  • 00:34:11
    the the chat you shared I think is an
  • 00:34:13
    awesome example where the language was a
  • 00:34:15
    really powerful shift in how this person
  • 00:34:18
    thought is there anything else along
  • 00:34:20
    those lines you could share of how to
  • 00:34:21
    create this sort of
  • 00:34:22
    culture one thing that I try to do is
  • 00:34:27
    when somebody takes something that would
  • 00:34:31
    be my job right and does that like a
  • 00:34:33
    whether it's on the design side they
  • 00:34:35
    like you know lean in more or on the
  • 00:34:37
    engineering side they lean in more
  • 00:34:38
    people bring ideas or they say hey I
  • 00:34:40
    took the liberty of doing this it could
  • 00:34:41
    be as small as you know something
  • 00:34:43
    bureaucratic or like as big as like an
  • 00:34:45
    idea or suggestion I just shower them
  • 00:34:48
    with positivity I just show them just
  • 00:34:50
    you know how excited I am that they did
  • 00:34:53
    that that how you know I just want that
  • 00:34:55
    to happen again and them to feel even
  • 00:34:58
    more bold and just like when somebody
  • 00:35:01
    takes something off your plate when
  • 00:35:02
    somebody you know think does kind of the
  • 00:35:05
    P what you think is like that that's PM
  • 00:35:07
    thinking what are you doing right just
  • 00:35:08
    really want them to feel that that is
  • 00:35:10
    extremely welcome and imagine there's a
  • 00:35:12
    bunch of coaching you do to like help
  • 00:35:13
    Engineers designers researchers data
  • 00:35:15
    people think the way you think almost to
  • 00:35:17
    kind of become more pme is that a part
  • 00:35:20
    of this too I don't know if I would call
  • 00:35:21
    it coaching it's um it's like a lot like
  • 00:35:25
    you said just a lot of little behaviors
  • 00:35:26
    so one thing I try to do along those
  • 00:35:29
    lines is when there's something that's
  • 00:35:32
    you know on me to do uh for someone or
  • 00:35:35
    like the next logical step um I try to
  • 00:35:39
    do that live with them so if uh somebody
  • 00:35:42
    asked me a question about hey what does
  • 00:35:44
    the data show about this if we went that
  • 00:35:45
    direction I'm like I don't know let's
  • 00:35:47
    find out instead of saying hey I'll get
  • 00:35:48
    back to you let's open you know mix
  • 00:35:51
    panel let's play around with this and I
  • 00:35:53
    don't tell them hey it would be great if
  • 00:35:55
    you I just show them how easy it was
  • 00:35:56
    like Hey if I could figure this out like
  • 00:35:57
    like you know this Fisher Price data for
  • 00:36:00
    PMS like this is you could totally
  • 00:36:01
    figure this out that's the that's what
  • 00:36:03
    I'm trying to imply by showing it um or
  • 00:36:07
    uh you know if it's a write a create a
  • 00:36:08
    jur ticket just to make something happen
  • 00:36:10
    quickly and document it uh I like hey
  • 00:36:12
    let's just do this together on the call
  • 00:36:14
    right now and make sure I get it right
  • 00:36:16
    and what you see is over time you know
  • 00:36:18
    some people more than others but they
  • 00:36:19
    start to just naturally want to do that
  • 00:36:22
    themselves ask you for that access uh
  • 00:36:24
    start start to do those things hey you
  • 00:36:26
    know um you know I did this and I wrote
  • 00:36:29
    the GE ticket for it I did this and I
  • 00:36:30
    did the data analysis and you know that
  • 00:36:33
    grows over time you actually have a
  • 00:36:34
    course that you're uh launching or is
  • 00:36:37
    out now or about to launch that teaches
  • 00:36:39
    a lot of these things talk about that
  • 00:36:40
    yeah um uh this is a passion project I'm
  • 00:36:44
    working on uh with Maven the learning
  • 00:36:46
    platform it's a course called build your
  • 00:36:49
    personal PM productivity system and it
  • 00:36:53
    really goes super deep and super
  • 00:36:54
    practical into these topics exactly like
  • 00:36:57
    how to design your time how to manage
  • 00:36:59
    yourself how to manage your emotions uh
  • 00:37:01
    how to cultivate self-reliant teams how
  • 00:37:03
    to give feedback and create a product
  • 00:37:06
    org you know with less that puts less
  • 00:37:07
    overhead on you as a as a PM and yeah
  • 00:37:12
    it's the the idea is to just take all
  • 00:37:13
    these topics and just make this like
  • 00:37:15
    really really really Hands-On awesome uh
  • 00:37:17
    I feel like I wish I had this and I feel
  • 00:37:19
    like you're such a great person to teach
  • 00:37:21
    this because as an IC this is this is
  • 00:37:25
    how you succeed this is the thing that
  • 00:37:26
    makes it hard just St as an IC and again
  • 00:37:29
    with the rise of AI almost creating a
  • 00:37:32
    space for super ic's as we talked about
  • 00:37:34
    feels like this kind of stuff is going
  • 00:37:35
    to be more and more important so uh so
  • 00:37:37
    I'll definitely link to that in the show
  • 00:37:39
    notes I want to shift to a different
  • 00:37:41
    topic uh I think You' you've kind of
  • 00:37:43
    shown people this already but you have a
  • 00:37:45
    lot of very unpop uh contrarian opinions
  • 00:37:47
    about a lot of things you see things a
  • 00:37:49
    little differently and there's a few
  • 00:37:52
    other things that I've seen you talk
  • 00:37:53
    about that I want to spend a little time
  • 00:37:54
    on so I'm just going to go through a few
  • 00:37:56
    of them and just share whatever you want
  • 00:37:57
    Insurance sound good sure okay okay cool
  • 00:38:01
    uh the first is you have this phrase
  • 00:38:02
    that uh or this concept that every tech
  • 00:38:04
    company basically has just two
  • 00:38:05
    departments that matter so yeah over
  • 00:38:08
    time working at at a bunch of
  • 00:38:10
    hypergrowth companies I've started to
  • 00:38:13
    notice that there's some departments
  • 00:38:17
    that are the reason that company won the
  • 00:38:20
    market and also started to realize that
  • 00:38:25
    and this is sometimes true of the
  • 00:38:26
    department that I'm in product that even
  • 00:38:30
    if you know product did a 10x job you
  • 00:38:35
    know it wouldn't be a 10x outcome for
  • 00:38:38
    the company over the decade but for
  • 00:38:40
    example it could be if marketing did a
  • 00:38:42
    10x job the company would have a 10x
  • 00:38:44
    outcome over the decade and I started to
  • 00:38:48
    observe this over the years and I
  • 00:38:50
    noticed it's roughly usually like two
  • 00:38:52
    things two companies sorry two
  • 00:38:54
    departments it's roughly like two
  • 00:38:56
    departments that
  • 00:38:58
    this boils down to in each company so
  • 00:39:01
    I'll just make this really concrete
  • 00:39:02
    without naming names uh the companies
  • 00:39:04
    that I worked at the two departments at
  • 00:39:07
    one company was product design and
  • 00:39:09
    support like those are the like if those
  • 00:39:11
    two departments were 10x then the
  • 00:39:14
    company would
  • 00:39:15
    win another company was Data accuracy
  • 00:39:18
    and customer
  • 00:39:19
    success another company was the thing
  • 00:39:23
    that made them win in the market was
  • 00:39:25
    trust brand like trusted brand and
  • 00:39:30
    payments
  • 00:39:32
    and another company that I worked at
  • 00:39:35
    looking back what made them win in the
  • 00:39:36
    market was marketing and Engineering
  • 00:39:40
    like
  • 00:39:42
    scalability
  • 00:39:43
    so product sometimes is on this
  • 00:39:46
    list uh so one of the companies I worked
  • 00:39:48
    at like I mentioned you product design
  • 00:39:50
    product um if if that department does
  • 00:39:53
    10x uh impact then the company will
  • 00:39:56
    succeed 10x in the Market uh but it's in
  • 00:39:59
    my career it mostly hasn't been product
  • 00:40:01
    product has to do a good job but it's
  • 00:40:04
    not the you know not the biggest lever
  • 00:40:07
    for that company even though it's a tech
  • 00:40:09
    product
  • 00:40:10
    company and I think this really
  • 00:40:13
    crystallized for me when I finally
  • 00:40:14
    worked in a company where product is
  • 00:40:17
    that department you feel that okay so
  • 00:40:20
    the uh $664,000 question whatever
  • 00:40:22
    billion dollar question is how do you
  • 00:40:24
    know which of these how do you know
  • 00:40:25
    which two departments matter most first
  • 00:40:27
    first of all look at what really drives
  • 00:40:28
    the growth like what's the growth model
  • 00:40:31
    you know what are the levers ask ask
  • 00:40:32
    those questions how does it work ask
  • 00:40:35
    officially and ask as part of your back
  • 00:40:37
    channeling and you know reference
  • 00:40:38
    checking and the second thing is if
  • 00:40:40
    you're really seriously you know
  • 00:40:42
    checking out a company evaluating a
  • 00:40:44
    company truly understand that customer
  • 00:40:47
    and like what are they actually paying
  • 00:40:48
    for in this industry you know what is
  • 00:40:51
    the thing that what is the real product
  • 00:40:53
    what is the real value that they're
  • 00:40:54
    getting clearly they're paying for a
  • 00:40:56
    product or a service but like what is
  • 00:40:58
    beyond that what are they actually
  • 00:40:59
    paying for ask those questions and I
  • 00:41:01
    think that'll uh make it clear I think
  • 00:41:05
    maybe one trick here is just see what
  • 00:41:07
    team drives growth oftentimes it's going
  • 00:41:10
    to be sales often times it's going to be
  • 00:41:12
    product experments they're running could
  • 00:41:14
    be marketing exactly and um the that
  • 00:41:18
    department if you're whatever role you
  • 00:41:20
    have if you're in that department for
  • 00:41:22
    that company that's going to be your
  • 00:41:24
    career defining work like that's why
  • 00:41:26
    it's so worth it that's kind of you're
  • 00:41:28
    going to attract like you know the best
  • 00:41:30
    colleagues your careers are going to you
  • 00:41:31
    know have a step function jump like it's
  • 00:41:34
    it's it's a totally different experience
  • 00:41:36
    and this is when people say a company's
  • 00:41:38
    engineering driven product driven
  • 00:41:39
    marketing driven sales driven this is
  • 00:41:41
    exactly what they mean which team
  • 00:41:43
    matters most to the company because they
  • 00:41:45
    are driving the most growth so if you're
  • 00:41:47
    a salesperson on a sales-driven company
  • 00:41:49
    you will be valued more highly than
  • 00:41:52
    being a product person at a sales-driven
  • 00:41:54
    company yeah when I uh graduated from
  • 00:41:57
    from college I had a friend gave me
  • 00:41:58
    advice he was like don't be a finance
  • 00:42:00
    guy at a tech company and don't be a
  • 00:42:01
    tech guy at a finance
  • 00:42:03
    company this was 2009 so like yeah
  • 00:42:07
    anyways yeah and I think this is where a
  • 00:42:09
    lot of people struggle with their pm at
  • 00:42:11
    a company that's very not product driven
  • 00:42:13
    and they read all these books about
  • 00:42:15
    being empowered and having agency and
  • 00:42:17
    autonomy and and instead they're just
  • 00:42:19
    the team that people they're just
  • 00:42:20
    feature factories because other teams R
  • 00:42:23
    in the show and we don't need your
  • 00:42:25
    opinions we know we know how to grow
  • 00:42:26
    this thing just build this thing for us
  • 00:42:28
    and here's the thing that's okay like
  • 00:42:31
    that's what that company needs you know
  • 00:42:33
    to succeed in the market you know you
  • 00:42:35
    think about the Olympics this is analogy
  • 00:42:38
    that came to mind recently it's like um
  • 00:42:40
    if you let's say uh you can think like
  • 00:42:43
    how a marathon runner looks and how a
  • 00:42:45
    swimmer looks right they have very
  • 00:42:47
    different they look very different you
  • 00:42:48
    can you can spot them you know in the
  • 00:42:51
    row of athletes and if you imagine you
  • 00:42:54
    know product being a LP muscle that's
  • 00:42:57
    product Department you know you can be a
  • 00:42:59
    LP muscle for a marathon runner you can
  • 00:43:01
    be one for a swimmer and a marathon
  • 00:43:03
    runner needs one and it needs to work uh
  • 00:43:06
    but right it's do you want where do you
  • 00:43:09
    want to be that lat muscle on the
  • 00:43:10
    swimmer on the on the marathon runner I
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    Lenny let's move on to another uh let's
  • 00:44:34
    say hot take that you have you have this
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    kind of phrase that there's a big
  • 00:44:37
    difference between book smart decision-
  • 00:44:39
    making and street smart decision making
  • 00:44:42
    what's that about yeahh this one comes
  • 00:44:44
    out of a lot of mistakes I've made
  • 00:44:46
    myself and uh seen around me as well so
  • 00:44:50
    I'm so guilty of this books smart
  • 00:44:53
    decision- making as a PM is all the
  • 00:44:55
    stuff we talk about all the time that's
  • 00:44:57
    data you know uh Design Technology
  • 00:45:00
    strategy Frameworks all that stuff and
  • 00:45:02
    it's really important and you know it's
  • 00:45:04
    why we're strong at it Street Smart
  • 00:45:07
    decision- making is taking all that and
  • 00:45:11
    then seeing something from somebody
  • 00:45:14
    else's point of view this goes beyond
  • 00:45:16
    empathy I'll explain what I mean it's
  • 00:45:17
    like like giving the customers's
  • 00:45:21
    perception just as much weight as you
  • 00:45:24
    would to logic um
  • 00:45:28
    really big example of this and I I won't
  • 00:45:29
    name the company I was at this company
  • 00:45:32
    that changed the structure of the
  • 00:45:34
    pricing and the change was actually not
  • 00:45:38
    meant to make more money it was meant to
  • 00:45:41
    unblock a payments road map and like
  • 00:45:43
    enable all these feature requests that
  • 00:45:44
    were stuck behind this fundamental
  • 00:45:47
    change
  • 00:45:48
    and in preparing for this the company
  • 00:45:51
    did a lot of analyses and just made sure
  • 00:45:54
    that you know this was really really
  • 00:45:57
    good for customers and uh that this
  • 00:46:00
    would this would only um like on the
  • 00:46:03
    numbers and the predictions and the
  • 00:46:04
    models were like this is a positive
  • 00:46:06
    thing and I know all the people that
  • 00:46:10
    were involved were the most empathetic
  • 00:46:12
    really did this because they really
  • 00:46:13
    cared about this customer uh genuinely
  • 00:46:16
    I've never seen people that are you know
  • 00:46:17
    at the executive level um at the product
  • 00:46:19
    level at the data level like these are
  • 00:46:21
    the people who who really genuinely
  • 00:46:22
    wanted the best uh for this customer and
  • 00:46:26
    they rolled out the change and in
  • 00:46:29
    reality what bottom line it was a big
  • 00:46:33
    you know revolt on the internet it was a
  • 00:46:35
    big deal and it was rolled back and the
  • 00:46:39
    bottom line why there's such a gap
  • 00:46:43
    between you know everything actually by
  • 00:46:45
    the way all the analyses proved out to
  • 00:46:47
    be to be correct all the models all the
  • 00:46:49
    predictions like everything played out
  • 00:46:51
    the numbers as as predicted the problem
  • 00:46:53
    was the perception uh the narrative
  • 00:46:55
    behind it what it looked like when you
  • 00:46:57
    logged into the product and you saw only
  • 00:46:59
    the negative but you didn't see all the
  • 00:47:01
    positive because the positive was you
  • 00:47:02
    know what happened 30 days later and you
  • 00:47:04
    saw the negative immediately you know a
  • 00:47:06
    lot of things like that
  • 00:47:09
    and I I would have made exactly the same
  • 00:47:12
    mistake I you know I not a criticism I I
  • 00:47:14
    would have probably made more mistakes
  • 00:47:16
    but that that's like what opened my mind
  • 00:47:17
    to oh my God you have to really think
  • 00:47:20
    more than just logical more than just
  • 00:47:22
    like you know utilitarian another
  • 00:47:24
    example of this is there's a a company
  • 00:47:27
    that where all the features that were on
  • 00:47:30
    a a higher plan were invisible to the
  • 00:47:33
    lower plans just because everything was
  • 00:47:34
    built really fast and it was just uh it
  • 00:47:36
    was time to to make them visible so
  • 00:47:37
    people could upgrade so we got that
  • 00:47:40
    ready and and we did this and we're
  • 00:47:43
    about to release it and we realized you
  • 00:47:46
    know tomorrow morning a bunch of
  • 00:47:49
    customers are going to log into the
  • 00:47:51
    product and there's all these features
  • 00:47:55
    that they've been asking us for because
  • 00:47:56
    they didn't know that we have them
  • 00:47:57
    because they were locked and only on
  • 00:47:58
    higher plan suddenly from their point of
  • 00:48:01
    view the company built everything they'
  • 00:48:04
    asked
  • 00:48:05
    for and all of it requires paying more
  • 00:48:09
    money how are they goingon to
  • 00:48:12
    feel and so we didn't roll it out that
  • 00:48:15
    way we rolled it out in smaller pieces
  • 00:48:18
    and you know different ways um because
  • 00:48:21
    we realized like that's going to feel
  • 00:48:22
    really
  • 00:48:23
    shitty if you think about it you know
  • 00:48:26
    but practically speaking or
  • 00:48:28
    theoretically speaking we didn't we
  • 00:48:30
    didn't uh upsell anything we didn't
  • 00:48:32
    start to you know these are all things
  • 00:48:34
    we already had built everything is above
  • 00:48:35
    board that's the perception that was
  • 00:48:37
    going to happen in that second example
  • 00:48:39
    is there anything that triggered that
  • 00:48:41
    recognition or is it just people sitting
  • 00:48:44
    around being like Oh what about this or
  • 00:48:45
    was it because the first example you had
  • 00:48:47
    a great point where you customers were
  • 00:48:49
    telling you this isn't necessarily what
  • 00:48:52
    they want and you're like no no no
  • 00:48:53
    you're going to do great trust us it's
  • 00:48:54
    going to be really good for you but
  • 00:48:56
    there's feedback at least in the second
  • 00:48:57
    examples are something that's like and
  • 00:48:59
    what I'm asking about is like how how
  • 00:49:01
    can people develop this skill because I
  • 00:49:03
    I love this advice I think that
  • 00:49:05
    intuition came from um spending time in
  • 00:49:09
    the customer community and support
  • 00:49:11
    tickets and just noticing smaller
  • 00:49:14
    versions of that um that people had
  • 00:49:17
    feedback on and you kind of start to
  • 00:49:20
    see you know what our customers you know
  • 00:49:24
    at the time with like what they would
  • 00:49:25
    tend to like what what their suspicions
  • 00:49:27
    always were and like they're very like
  • 00:49:30
    you know trigger happy to blame the
  • 00:49:31
    company for XYZ and uh if you see enough
  • 00:49:35
    you know raw data from customers or if
  • 00:49:38
    you get on a customer call and they
  • 00:49:39
    mention nickel and diing and all these
  • 00:49:41
    things right like you start to
  • 00:49:42
    understand like this is this is the
  • 00:49:43
    target Persona this is this is how they
  • 00:49:46
    think this is what they're sensitive to
  • 00:49:47
    it's interesting because at Airbnb there
  • 00:49:49
    was a lot of that a lot of hosts being
  • 00:49:51
    really upset about changes like
  • 00:49:53
    constantly everything that changed
  • 00:49:55
    they're and usually the changes are to
  • 00:49:58
    help the business in some way help the
  • 00:49:59
    guest in many ways and it's always this
  • 00:50:02
    balance of we're just going to we got to
  • 00:50:03
    do this this just the future is there
  • 00:50:06
    anything there just real quick of just
  • 00:50:07
    like learning when we got to do this
  • 00:50:09
    anyway even though they're going to be
  • 00:50:10
    pissed versus like oh let's roll
  • 00:50:12
    back okay yes for sure um this is just
  • 00:50:16
    this is just like what I'm talking about
  • 00:50:17
    is to recognize it what you do with it
  • 00:50:19
    right is a different thing but you know
  • 00:50:22
    I joke when we when we do uh changes to
  • 00:50:25
    um like redesign or changes to the ux
  • 00:50:27
    and we're going to get inevitable you
  • 00:50:29
    know complaints I just tell my team
  • 00:50:30
    we're going to deploy this and we're all
  • 00:50:31
    going to log out of social media for two
  • 00:50:33
    weeks that's the strategy right that's
  • 00:50:36
    extreme we don't actually do that and of
  • 00:50:39
    course but that's what we uh wish we
  • 00:50:41
    could do sometimes and the insight there
  • 00:50:43
    is just social media will amplify one
  • 00:50:45
    person's loud voice versus like how many
  • 00:50:48
    people actually are upset about this how
  • 00:50:51
    important are they to the business right
  • 00:50:52
    it's like don't pay attention to the
  • 00:50:54
    loudest person or also um the I think
  • 00:50:58
    the key there is the two weeks because
  • 00:51:00
    if people are still complaining after
  • 00:51:01
    two weeks okay then there's something
  • 00:51:03
    here but in those two weeks there's
  • 00:51:05
    going to be a lot of feedback that comes
  • 00:51:07
    from a resistance to change that they're
  • 00:51:09
    going to you know adapt to and be can't
  • 00:51:12
    won won't be able to remember what was
  • 00:51:13
    before uh but you know sometimes you you
  • 00:51:16
    make mistakes and you know people will
  • 00:51:18
    you know if there's a real mistake
  • 00:51:19
    you'll know about it for a long time
  • 00:51:22
    yeah and obviously he'll pay attention
  • 00:51:23
    to like support tickets and all that
  • 00:51:24
    stuff it's just yeah obviously
  • 00:51:26
    disclaimer like during this those two
  • 00:51:28
    weeks we look at every support ticket
  • 00:51:31
    and we look at everything on social
  • 00:51:32
    media we yeah for sure okay I have two
  • 00:51:35
    more examples about the the street smart
  • 00:51:37
    books Mar that are that are really
  • 00:51:38
    important oh please let's do it let's do
  • 00:51:40
    it this has happened twice to me um
  • 00:51:44
    where I I worked on a team that made a
  • 00:51:48
    very logical ux
  • 00:51:50
    change and quickly found out that we
  • 00:51:54
    ruined the sales demo so so for the
  • 00:51:58
    users of the
  • 00:51:59
    product the you know the experience
  • 00:52:03
    became a little bit smoother it was an
  • 00:52:05
    optimization wasn't something critical
  • 00:52:06
    but then for uh the sales demo it
  • 00:52:11
    communicated the value less it was
  • 00:52:13
    harder to for people to really
  • 00:52:14
    understand you know in in one glance so
  • 00:52:18
    a lot of times uh this comes from taking
  • 00:52:20
    something that's very like Visual and
  • 00:52:22
    making it very efficient and small so
  • 00:52:24
    you might gain you know fewer clicks but
  • 00:52:26
    but it'll make it harder for our the
  • 00:52:30
    sales team to you know to communicate uh
  • 00:52:32
    and for that H moment to happen on a
  • 00:52:34
    call to the point where uh we made this
  • 00:52:36
    change and then salespeople would send
  • 00:52:38
    me gong link recordings you know in the
  • 00:52:42
    past and in the current demos and just
  • 00:52:43
    show me the difference and it would it
  • 00:52:44
    would pain me to watch these and I was
  • 00:52:46
    like oh we got to fix this like people
  • 00:52:47
    aren't getting the value how they even
  • 00:52:49
    going to experience it okay I know that
  • 00:52:51
    you have a couple more hot takes that I
  • 00:52:53
    wanted to make sure we had time for one
  • 00:52:55
    that I love that I agree with and it's
  • 00:52:57
    kind of the thesis of this podcast
  • 00:52:58
    almost which is that there's no right
  • 00:53:00
    way to get things done in a product team
  • 00:53:02
    in a business uh in spite of what you
  • 00:53:04
    may read online I'd love to hear your
  • 00:53:06
    take here yeah I didn't always
  • 00:53:09
    understand this in fact I moved
  • 00:53:13
    continents uh because I had professional
  • 00:53:15
    fomo so I moved um from Israel to San
  • 00:53:21
    Francisco because I
  • 00:53:24
    believed and and actually a lot of
  • 00:53:26
    people you know had that feeling that
  • 00:53:29
    you know whatever we're doing here in
  • 00:53:31
    Silicon Valley they know how to work
  • 00:53:33
    like that's the big leagues and I got to
  • 00:53:35
    work shoulder-to-shoulder with people
  • 00:53:38
    who came from Apple um YouTube
  • 00:53:41
    Salesforce Facebook you know slack
  • 00:53:44
    Amazon strip like I got to work with the
  • 00:53:46
    people who came from these companies I
  • 00:53:48
    admired so much and I came away with the
  • 00:53:51
    conclusion that we're all just making it
  • 00:53:54
    up as we go along in Tech uh we're all
  • 00:53:57
    just improvising as we should that's the
  • 00:53:59
    beauty of
  • 00:54:00
    it every situation is different every
  • 00:54:02
    Market is different right every compan
  • 00:54:04
    is different what it takes to win is
  • 00:54:06
    different and
  • 00:54:08
    so myself I've had phases where I've
  • 00:54:12
    been this like Zealot of you know
  • 00:54:13
    everything has to be outcomes driven and
  • 00:54:16
    uh then I've gone to like let's just
  • 00:54:18
    ship as much as possible and figure it
  • 00:54:20
    out and everything needs to be a tested
  • 00:54:22
    and uh you know quarterly planning has
  • 00:54:23
    to work this way and should do scrum
  • 00:54:26
    don't do right and I just realized like
  • 00:54:28
    there is no it's not that simple it's
  • 00:54:32
    about figuring out the problem at hand
  • 00:54:34
    and optimizing for that and having an
  • 00:54:35
    open mind and just understanding that
  • 00:54:37
    we're all improvising that's really
  • 00:54:39
    powerful and I I think people may hear
  • 00:54:41
    this and be like yeah I think I get it I
  • 00:54:44
    guess for people that are just you know
  • 00:54:46
    everyone's reading reading my newsletter
  • 00:54:48
    reading all the newsletters listening to
  • 00:54:49
    podcasts listening to how people work
  • 00:54:52
    what's your advice is it just like what
  • 00:54:54
    should people think in your mind when
  • 00:54:56
    they read about how another company runs
  • 00:54:59
    my personal story like one of the things
  • 00:55:01
    that happened when
  • 00:55:02
    I landed in San Francisco I really felt
  • 00:55:06
    like an impostor I was like okay wow
  • 00:55:08
    everybody else here really knows you
  • 00:55:09
    know how to work and I need to like
  • 00:55:11
    learn from them
  • 00:55:13
    and six months later I found myself
  • 00:55:16
    giving talks and writing blog posts
  • 00:55:18
    about how to work and you you know like
  • 00:55:20
    blog posts that you know were being used
  • 00:55:22
    in like reforge courses and and all that
  • 00:55:25
    and uh advising people and and sharing
  • 00:55:28
    and that's one to hit me like that's the
  • 00:55:30
    beauty of this industry is that that can
  • 00:55:33
    happen because everything is changing so
  • 00:55:35
    fast like because like how like how did
  • 00:55:37
    I get there I was just on a team doing
  • 00:55:40
    something really difficult and
  • 00:55:42
    interesting in a very unique way
  • 00:55:47
    and you that's how you learn that's like
  • 00:55:49
    the real way to learn um my manager Adam
  • 00:55:51
    fisherman at the time told me you know
  • 00:55:55
    something related to this which is like
  • 00:55:56
    the best networking is just to do really
  • 00:55:59
    good work at a successful company and
  • 00:56:01
    like everything else will work out so I
  • 00:56:03
    think the same goes for like learning
  • 00:56:05
    right the best learning is to just do do
  • 00:56:07
    really good work at a really good
  • 00:56:08
    company with really good people that and
  • 00:56:10
    solve problems that have never been
  • 00:56:12
    solved before in this way which will
  • 00:56:14
    inevitably happen right that's what
  • 00:56:15
    we're all doing um and everything else
  • 00:56:18
    will work out like you'll be the one
  • 00:56:19
    writing the blog posts not just reading
  • 00:56:22
    them such important advice so kind of
  • 00:56:25
    the takeaway here is just if you want to
  • 00:56:28
    become much better if you want to be the
  • 00:56:30
    one sharing advice versus the one
  • 00:56:31
    reading advice easier said than done but
  • 00:56:34
    the advice is work at a company doing
  • 00:56:36
    interesting hard things driving impact
  • 00:56:40
    being growing being successful and
  • 00:56:42
    that's that's how you level
  • 00:56:44
    up yeah I love that that's the best way
  • 00:56:47
    yeah yeah and again easier said than
  • 00:56:49
    done not everyone can join an awesome
  • 00:56:50
    you know highflying Tech startup um
  • 00:56:53
    interestingly you did this like in
  • 00:56:55
    Israel right away from the core of
  • 00:56:57
    Silicon Valley so you can find great
  • 00:56:58
    places outside of outside of Silicon
  • 00:57:00
    Valley abely great okay so I know that
  • 00:57:05
    uh you wanted to spend a bunch of time
  • 00:57:07
    in Failure Corner which I love it's this
  • 00:57:09
    recurring segment on this podcast where
  • 00:57:11
    folks share times they failed in their
  • 00:57:12
    career and things they've learned from
  • 00:57:14
    those experiences and you may you wanted
  • 00:57:16
    me to carve out meaningful time here
  • 00:57:17
    which tells me that you've had a lot of
  • 00:57:18
    these experiences for better or worse so
  • 00:57:22
    what I'm thinking is let's just go
  • 00:57:23
    through a few of these stories that you
  • 00:57:24
    think might be helpful to people to hear
  • 00:57:25
    about times you things didn't go great
  • 00:57:29
    and what you learned from those
  • 00:57:30
    experiences how does that sound yeah um
  • 00:57:33
    yes really important for me to share
  • 00:57:35
    this I think during you know low points
  • 00:57:38
    in my
  • 00:57:40
    career having someone uh share with me a
  • 00:57:44
    failure story um just really helped me
  • 00:57:47
    understand that that's part of it and
  • 00:57:49
    I'm not alone and you know you browse
  • 00:57:52
    LinkedIn you see these incredible
  • 00:57:54
    profiles with these incredible pedigrees
  • 00:57:56
    and well you don't see it gives you this
  • 00:57:59
    like sense that everybody's just had a
  • 00:58:01
    smooth sailing and everything's going
  • 00:58:02
    great um and everybody has had you know
  • 00:58:07
    some everybody who's been here long
  • 00:58:09
    enough has had ton of failure stories
  • 00:58:10
    and ton of low points and self-doubt so
  • 00:58:14
    it's really meaningful for me to just
  • 00:58:15
    talk about this let's do it let's get
  • 00:58:17
    into it let's get real so um I'll say
  • 00:58:21
    this I've wasted twice twice I've wasted
  • 00:58:24
    an entire quarter of a growth team's
  • 00:58:28
    time because of my poor use of user
  • 00:58:34
    research uh first
  • 00:58:36
    time I I can look back you know after 12
  • 00:58:39
    failed AB tests and then you know 12
  • 00:58:42
    failed AB tests set us on the right path
  • 00:58:44
    and got us to re you know revisit our
  • 00:58:45
    hypothesis but if I had only spent more
  • 00:58:48
    time with the customer and this was you
  • 00:58:51
    know the kind of uh AB testing that
  • 00:58:53
    people say no you can't do user research
  • 00:58:55
    you can't ask somebody what you know how
  • 00:58:57
    a button's going to affect their
  • 00:58:58
    purchasing but uh if I had spent time
  • 00:59:03
    with the customer to just understand who
  • 00:59:06
    they are what motivates them how they
  • 00:59:08
    got there why they're paying all that
  • 00:59:10
    stuff I would understand that um not
  • 00:59:13
    every checkout process you know is the
  • 00:59:16
    same psychology as Groupon or you know
  • 00:59:20
    Amazon or booking.com so the things that
  • 00:59:23
    work on those sites work not just
  • 00:59:26
    because you know people are the same uh
  • 00:59:29
    everywhere but they work because people
  • 00:59:31
    are in the same mindset you know on for
  • 00:59:34
    for Groupon for example Amazon is
  • 00:59:36
    different booking.com is different and
  • 00:59:38
    what you're working on why people are
  • 00:59:40
    buying you know in this situation that I
  • 00:59:43
    was I was in was so different they had
  • 00:59:46
    so much motivation over such a long
  • 00:59:48
    period of time you know they they had um
  • 00:59:54
    constant reminders
  • 00:59:56
    naturally in their lives that they were
  • 00:59:58
    happy to get and the things that didn't
  • 01:00:01
    work were all the things that worked you
  • 01:00:03
    know that the Groupon and booking and
  • 01:00:04
    Amazon all these e-commerce sites did
  • 01:00:06
    those were not relevant and we tried all
  • 01:00:08
    those things and they fell flat the
  • 01:00:10
    moment we realized that and it clicked
  • 01:00:13
    for us and all these you know all these
  • 01:00:15
    AB tests that should have printed money
  • 01:00:16
    did nothing once we realized that then
  • 01:00:19
    it really started to you know increase
  • 01:00:21
    conversion and was a super successful
  • 01:00:22
    team but man I look back if I had just
  • 01:00:26
    you
  • 01:00:26
    know I just used more qualitative
  • 01:00:29
    research even though it was an area that
  • 01:00:30
    traditionally you don't use qualitative
  • 01:00:32
    research I got to saved so much time
  • 01:00:34
    it's also a great reminder of just not
  • 01:00:36
    assuming wins that work at another
  • 01:00:38
    company will win for you which I think
  • 01:00:40
    everyone's like yeah I know that but I
  • 01:00:42
    think people don't know that I think
  • 01:00:43
    they often oh look look at this Amazon's
  • 01:00:45
    killing with this feature we're gonna if
  • 01:00:47
    we add it we're gonna yeah we're gonna
  • 01:00:49
    win so hard and so this a great reminder
  • 01:00:51
    don't just take stories from other
  • 01:00:53
    something shos actually talks about a
  • 01:00:54
    lot is don't take stories from other
  • 01:00:56
    companies as gospel your company there's
  • 01:00:59
    so many things that are not the
  • 01:01:02
    same awesome yeah what else what else
  • 01:01:05
    you got second example of that is um I
  • 01:01:08
    was building a referral program and uh
  • 01:01:11
    we made a user research plan and we
  • 01:01:14
    ended up only executing half of it which
  • 01:01:15
    means we talked to the people who were
  • 01:01:19
    already using it successfully and we
  • 01:01:22
    decided to
  • 01:01:24
    skip uh talking to the people people who
  • 01:01:26
    should use it but didn't and we're like
  • 01:01:29
    yeah we get it it's probably the same
  • 01:01:30
    feedback we were in a rush for a lot of
  • 01:01:32
    other reasons there's a lot of pressure
  • 01:01:33
    um just unrelated reasons and just
  • 01:01:36
    decided that okay we have enough
  • 01:01:37
    information we don't need to spend more
  • 01:01:39
    time let's start shipping and that was a
  • 01:01:42
    huge mistake as well just spent so much
  • 01:01:43
    time building something that didn't work
  • 01:01:45
    um and
  • 01:01:48
    uh yeah I think my my lesson there is
  • 01:01:51
    the reasons that got me to hurry and and
  • 01:01:54
    you know make make that decision with
  • 01:01:56
    with not as much data uh were reasons
  • 01:01:58
    that I just kind of took people's word
  • 01:02:00
    for stuff I um I didn't think as first
  • 01:02:04
    principles as I should and I I really
  • 01:02:07
    caved into the time pressure so yeah
  • 01:02:10
    it's like to listen to that just just
  • 01:02:13
    letting it all out this is great um and
  • 01:02:16
    so so far recurring theme is spend a
  • 01:02:18
    more time in use research talk to more
  • 01:02:19
    customers again some we always hear but
  • 01:02:22
    a lot of people are like ah use a
  • 01:02:23
    research I don't need that and what
  • 01:02:25
    we're hearing here is
  • 01:02:26
    would have saved your team months and
  • 01:02:28
    quarters potentially yeah each of those
  • 01:02:31
    each of those wasted entire quarter oh
  • 01:02:33
    jeez all right cool all right what else
  • 01:02:35
    what else we got I have uh three times
  • 01:02:40
    been a hair away from getting fired and
  • 01:02:42
    and what I mean by that is a senior
  • 01:02:44
    executive has come to me and said you
  • 01:02:45
    are a hair away from getting fired
  • 01:02:49
    uh um and uh one of them um you know one
  • 01:02:55
    of them is there were uh changes that
  • 01:02:57
    the head of product really wanted to
  • 01:02:58
    make and I I felt strongly they
  • 01:03:01
    shouldn't be made and I voed that
  • 01:03:04
    directly U candidly personally and
  • 01:03:08
    repeatedly and then I we had that
  • 01:03:12
    conversation and a colleague told me
  • 01:03:14
    listen um look at it this way like if
  • 01:03:17
    you trust the leadership team to adapt
  • 01:03:19
    if something's not working I said yeah I
  • 01:03:21
    trust them well like what they need from
  • 01:03:25
    you is just to rely on you that you're
  • 01:03:27
    going to be with them even if you the
  • 01:03:29
    disagree and commit like that's what
  • 01:03:30
    they need from you if you're right
  • 01:03:33
    they'll adapt if you're wrong then great
  • 01:03:36
    you learned something you know product
  • 01:03:37
    word got better so the most important
  • 01:03:40
    thing was you know there's like a song
  • 01:03:42
    that a lyrics that goes You Got to Give
  • 01:03:43
    In to Win um like it wasn't about being
  • 01:03:46
    right it was about just like being
  • 01:03:48
    supportive and uh letting things fix
  • 01:03:51
    themselves instead of uh so that was
  • 01:03:55
    that was that moment it was really like
  • 01:03:57
    literally that was that was the
  • 01:03:59
    conversation the second moment a bigger
  • 01:04:01
    story but I was on a group that the uh
  • 01:04:06
    my manager and I um we just weren't a
  • 01:04:10
    fit and that happens it's really
  • 01:04:12
    important to share that happens it's
  • 01:04:13
    it's it's common and it's somebody I
  • 01:04:17
    respect deeply and has done amazing
  • 01:04:19
    things and I still respect them and um
  • 01:04:22
    we just we didn't work well together and
  • 01:04:25
    the next step was okay well I guess you
  • 01:04:27
    know it's time to let me go and uh his
  • 01:04:30
    manager is like hey you know before we
  • 01:04:33
    let you go I want you to stay at this
  • 01:04:35
    company and let's find you another group
  • 01:04:38
    to work in so I was like okay he's like
  • 01:04:42
    just finish you know the initiatives
  • 01:04:44
    you're on don't start new ones and
  • 01:04:46
    quarterly planning is coming up sit in
  • 01:04:47
    all the meetings look for opportunities
  • 01:04:50
    and and things will work out and I did
  • 01:04:54
    that and I didn't find
  • 01:04:56
    an opportunity that I was excited about
  • 01:04:58
    and my initiatives wound down and I
  • 01:05:02
    didn't know okay well what's going to
  • 01:05:04
    happen um and then uh there was a group
  • 01:05:09
    were actually three PMS left at the same
  • 01:05:11
    time one went on maternity leave one got
  • 01:05:14
    an offer from Fang and one had to start
  • 01:05:16
    like an emergency tiger team for their
  • 01:05:18
    area of expertise and uh this director
  • 01:05:21
    he filled two of the roles One internal
  • 01:05:23
    Higher One external higher and there was
  • 01:05:24
    one more role and uh I reached out to
  • 01:05:27
    him and he's like yeah great you know
  • 01:05:29
    come put your desk next to mine we'll
  • 01:05:31
    just uh just work on a few projects
  • 01:05:33
    together get to know each other and I
  • 01:05:35
    could tell after a few weeks that even
  • 01:05:37
    though we'd been getting to know each
  • 01:05:38
    other he was still interviewing for that
  • 01:05:40
    third role and I realized that like
  • 01:05:43
    something was stuck and at the same time
  • 01:05:47
    the director who had reached out and
  • 01:05:49
    said hey please St at this company you
  • 01:05:51
    know you'll find something called me
  • 01:05:52
    with a very different tone he's like
  • 01:05:54
    listen you can't just float around
  • 01:05:56
    without a role um if you don't find
  • 01:05:58
    something you know soon we're going to
  • 01:05:59
    have to let you go and he was right
  • 01:06:03
    and so I found myself in this situation
  • 01:06:07
    and I actually reached out to a friend
  • 01:06:10
    guy ped he's a friend in a mentor I
  • 01:06:12
    actually met him through the uh Lenny
  • 01:06:14
    Community amazing and yeah he's here in
  • 01:06:16
    Israel we got coffee and so awesome and
  • 01:06:20
    he told me listen like clearly you have
  • 01:06:22
    nothing to lose like there's probably an
  • 01:06:24
    elephant in the room you know this new
  • 01:06:26
    director uh is wondering why did you
  • 01:06:28
    leave this old group he's not opening
  • 01:06:30
    he's not broaching the topic uh so it's
  • 01:06:32
    up to you to do it and I was like okay
  • 01:06:34
    what do I say he's like well what what
  • 01:06:36
    would you say to him if you didn't have
  • 01:06:37
    to edit yourself you didn't have to
  • 01:06:38
    censor yourself and I just I told Guy
  • 01:06:40
    well this is this is what actually
  • 01:06:41
    happened this is what I believe this is
  • 01:06:42
    what I did could have done better this
  • 01:06:44
    is you know and he's like he's like dude
  • 01:06:46
    that's totally fine to share you should
  • 01:06:48
    share that like word forward just say
  • 01:06:50
    that so the next day um I took uh the
  • 01:06:55
    director you know aside and I we had
  • 01:06:56
    this conversation I shared vulnerably
  • 01:06:59
    just like here's what I think I messed
  • 01:07:00
    up here's what I think I I wasn't under
  • 01:07:02
    my control and that conversation just uh
  • 01:07:08
    like the vibe changed I could feel like
  • 01:07:10
    a weight off our shoulders it was like
  • 01:07:12
    we really felt like we got closer and
  • 01:07:15
    um two days later I was you know part of
  • 01:07:18
    the group I joined the group I did some
  • 01:07:19
    really awesome work there that's such a
  • 01:07:22
    powerful lesson right there of just uh
  • 01:07:25
    opening up and being vulnerable and just
  • 01:07:27
    sharing what you're actually feeling and
  • 01:07:30
    this has come up a couple times in the
  • 01:07:31
    podcast is what brings people closer you
  • 01:07:34
    think being vulnerable and showing
  • 01:07:36
    weakness makes people think less of you
  • 01:07:38
    but almost always they think more of you
  • 01:07:41
    because they didn't realize what they're
  • 01:07:43
    doing they didn't realize what you're
  • 01:07:44
    going through you kind of think they're
  • 01:07:46
    reading your mind yeah we've all been
  • 01:07:48
    through that like you know it doesn't
  • 01:07:50
    look like it doesn't when you see
  • 01:07:51
    someone s you think it's successful that
  • 01:07:53
    you admire um you you look at somebody's
  • 01:07:56
    LinkedIn profile you look at their
  • 01:07:57
    resume you look at their bio right it
  • 01:07:59
    doesn't look like that but we've all
  • 01:08:01
    been through all of it you know right
  • 01:08:04
    and most times folks don't know that's
  • 01:08:06
    what you're feeling or going through
  • 01:08:07
    instead of just sharing here's what I
  • 01:08:09
    here's what I'm seeing here's what I'm
  • 01:08:10
    feeling here's why things may be aren't
  • 01:08:12
    working for me yeah goes a long way
  • 01:08:14
    amazing these are awesome
  • 01:08:16
    stories what else where else have you
  • 01:08:19
    fail I've single-handedly tanked new
  • 01:08:21
    payments uh for a whole week for a
  • 01:08:24
    company I worked for um it was a
  • 01:08:26
    well-meaning change it was super logical
  • 01:08:28
    it was kind of streamlined and I
  • 01:08:29
    violated my own framework for when do
  • 01:08:31
    you run AB test I even wrote like a blog
  • 01:08:33
    post about this and I violated that yeah
  • 01:08:35
    and uh I was like oh there's no downside
  • 01:08:37
    here and you know we we don't need to
  • 01:08:39
    measure this this is just kind of makes
  • 01:08:40
    things way smoother and then I get a
  • 01:08:42
    call for marketing they're like why are
  • 01:08:44
    none of our campaigns converting
  • 01:08:47
    like um listen to your own
  • 01:08:50
    advice run a test sometimes run a test
  • 01:08:53
    sometimes if you're dealing with really
  • 01:08:54
    sensitive uh flows that have big
  • 01:08:56
    downsides even if you think you know
  • 01:08:58
    logically in your mind there's no reason
  • 01:08:59
    there should be a downside here great
  • 01:09:02
    yeah if the stakes are really high yeah
  • 01:09:04
    all right what else I have some stories
  • 01:09:06
    I don't know if they're failure stories
  • 01:09:07
    but they're kind of like wild west you
  • 01:09:09
    know let's do it let's do what feels
  • 01:09:11
    like it's like
  • 01:09:14
    um one time I um completely disobeyed
  • 01:09:17
    quarterly planning I was you know my
  • 01:09:19
    team was told to be to do one thing and
  • 01:09:21
    we just said no we're going to do
  • 01:09:22
    something else it's not as dramatic as
  • 01:09:24
    it sounds it was like like you know hey
  • 01:09:26
    we really really believe that this is an
  • 01:09:27
    opportunity and if we delay this there's
  • 01:09:29
    going to be like a really nonlinear cost
  • 01:09:31
    opportunity cost of this and we really
  • 01:09:32
    should do this I'm like no you should
  • 01:09:34
    still work on this like okay what if we
  • 01:09:36
    you know made it a really small team and
  • 01:09:38
    it was just for one quarter and then you
  • 01:09:41
    know like fine okay we we had built that
  • 01:09:44
    that Capital to be able to do that but
  • 01:09:46
    you know uh remember your W framework
  • 01:09:48
    post I love that and I don't know what
  • 01:09:50
    what letter that would be but that's how
  • 01:09:52
    that you go off to the side split it off
  • 01:09:54
    into make it why uh but most importantly
  • 01:09:57
    did it work was that a good idea did was
  • 01:09:59
    that a a right call uh it was a right
  • 01:10:02
    call that it's it's become a way bigger
  • 01:10:05
    team today and yeah I still I still read
  • 01:10:08
    you know press releases and blog posts
  • 01:10:10
    from the company where it's clearly that
  • 01:10:12
    team's work so excellent I got lucky
  • 01:10:15
    though um yeah all right it sounds
  • 01:10:20
    like uh again this is this is just like
  • 01:10:23
    wild west you know Wild West Le like PM
  • 01:10:27
    is no less wild than than life itself I
  • 01:10:30
    uh I've pulled an April Fool's prank on
  • 01:10:33
    an executive team that resulted in my
  • 01:10:37
    CEO seeing me like next time you saw me
  • 01:10:41
    just looked me in the eye said you
  • 01:10:42
    tall and walked away can you describe
  • 01:10:45
    the prank so the prank was well I'll say
  • 01:10:49
    first of all the best April Fool's
  • 01:10:50
    pranks are the ones that touch just ever
  • 01:10:54
    so gently on people's uh biggest fears
  • 01:10:57
    uh at that time so in a work context
  • 01:10:59
    like whatever somebody's biggest
  • 01:11:00
    strategic fear is that quarter or like
  • 01:11:02
    that March of that year right whatever
  • 01:11:04
    people are talking about like just you
  • 01:11:05
    just have to touch it a little bit
  • 01:11:06
    they'll do the rest of the work so uh
  • 01:11:09
    this company uh they there's this really
  • 01:11:11
    big debate about internationalization
  • 01:11:13
    and uh should we do that and it was
  • 01:11:15
    there's a big trade-off to doing it and
  • 01:11:16
    other things we could be doing with the
  • 01:11:18
    same resources and
  • 01:11:21
    the the this is just on everybody's
  • 01:11:23
    Minds especially the leadership team and
  • 01:11:25
    it was March so um my uh my buddy and I
  • 01:11:30
    also at the company we decided what
  • 01:11:33
    would be people's biggest fears would be
  • 01:11:35
    that uh a really big company would
  • 01:11:37
    launch the same thing in Europe and we
  • 01:11:42
    created not just a fake screenshot like
  • 01:11:44
    not just fake news we created a fake
  • 01:11:47
    domain name website
  • 01:11:48
    publication um it was like really uh
  • 01:11:51
    detailed we really invested a lot in it
  • 01:11:53
    and of this like German website and it
  • 01:11:57
    was we made up a a tech arm of their
  • 01:12:00
    Spiegel we call the Spiegel Tech we
  • 01:12:02
    bought the domain I'm probably
  • 01:12:04
    incriminating Myself by saying this and
  • 01:12:07
    then what we did is we knew that if we
  • 01:12:09
    had sent that link on the 1 of April to
  • 01:12:13
    the executive team nobody would believe
  • 01:12:15
    it so what we did is every executive on
  • 01:12:18
    the leadership team has that like senior
  • 01:12:21
    report that they really trust so we got
  • 01:12:24
    all of them in on it
  • 01:12:26
    and the link would come from
  • 01:12:28
    them and each of them um took it further
  • 01:12:34
    like the senior engineer who was like
  • 01:12:36
    this really critical to the company he
  • 01:12:38
    created a fake uh recruiting poaching
  • 01:12:43
    email if I recall I think the legal
  • 01:12:45
    council uh created a fake cease and
  • 01:12:49
    desist like we just went all
  • 01:12:52
    out and then um and this was on Saturday
  • 01:12:55
    so we ruined the executive team Saturday
  • 01:12:57
    they had like an emergency call it was a
  • 01:12:59
    Saturday we we ruined the executive team
  • 01:13:01
    Saturday and every time that uh we
  • 01:13:05
    decided that you know a particular
  • 01:13:07
    executive had suffered enough like
  • 01:13:08
    depending when they woke up and how long
  • 01:13:10
    they had been you know dealing with us
  • 01:13:12
    uh we would let them in on it let them
  • 01:13:14
    into the private Channel and you know
  • 01:13:16
    haha so Monday rolls around CEO sees me
  • 01:13:21
    you tall great uh I'm still still
  • 01:13:25
    employed and I hear later that day that
  • 01:13:30
    uh the leadership team had their Monday
  • 01:13:31
    meeting and somebody mentioned that uh
  • 01:13:35
    you know even though that was a prank it
  • 01:13:37
    really got me thinking and then the CTO
  • 01:13:39
    of the
  • 01:13:40
    company goes wait what do you mean prank
  • 01:13:43
    and he dons on it Dons on
  • 01:13:46
    him and he just gets up throws down his
  • 01:13:48
    jacket and like walks out of the room so
  • 01:13:51
    we forgot to tell him he had to you know
  • 01:13:54
    stew with the whole weekend so yeah
  • 01:13:56
    sometimes you gotta something goes too
  • 01:13:58
    far that is well executed oh my God it
  • 01:14:02
    actually reminds me at Airbnb when I was
  • 01:14:04
    I was leading a lot of the April fools
  • 01:14:06
    jokes year after year and one of the
  • 01:14:07
    best ones we did was we launched it's
  • 01:14:09
    basically we did the opposite of what
  • 01:14:10
    you did we launched air BRB which was a
  • 01:14:14
    desk sharing service and we made like a
  • 01:14:16
    whole launch video we like announced it
  • 01:14:18
    as like a new product air BRB and the
  • 01:14:19
    idea is like you go get lunch and you
  • 01:14:21
    can I'll be right back and then your
  • 01:14:22
    desk can be rented out for like 20
  • 01:14:24
    minutes for 20
  • 01:14:26
    minutes and we had a whole website and
  • 01:14:29
    we had like yeah amazing video launching
  • 01:14:31
    it and uh basically was the opposite all
  • 01:14:34
    the desk sharing companies got freaked
  • 01:14:36
    out oh
  • 01:14:39
    no because legit it's their it's their
  • 01:14:42
    greatest sphere yeah yeah exactly you
  • 01:14:44
    don't to do too much yeah yeah and uh
  • 01:14:47
    the good news is we quickly they quickly
  • 01:14:49
    realized it was no not not real but we
  • 01:14:51
    probably let to some calls some board
  • 01:14:53
    calls okay
  • 01:14:55
    this was awesome any other stories I've
  • 01:14:58
    had thousands of
  • 01:15:00
    people tag my CEO on Twitter calling on
  • 01:15:03
    him to fire me this was by accident but
  • 01:15:07
    yeah um I I was actually on vacation and
  • 01:15:12
    um I got bored and I was like I haven't
  • 01:15:15
    logged into Twitter I haven't posted
  • 01:15:16
    anything in Twitter for a while what's
  • 01:15:17
    up what's going on on Twitter and I see
  • 01:15:20
    that the uh notifications number uh is
  • 01:15:24
    like maxed out it's like 999 plus or
  • 01:15:26
    whatever and I was like wait what and I
  • 01:15:28
    click the notifications Tab and I see
  • 01:15:31
    the first tweet is has at CEO handle
  • 01:15:34
    fired at toall revie
  • 01:15:37
    yet um and I saw that that has like a
  • 01:15:39
    ton of retweets and I keep scrolling
  • 01:15:41
    down I start to piece together the story
  • 01:15:43
    and um there was a a change the the
  • 01:15:47
    pricing change that earlier I said had
  • 01:15:49
    an uproar and the internet was up in
  • 01:15:52
    arms about this and somebody found a
  • 01:15:55
    blog post from a year earlier it Brian
  • 01:15:59
    balfor interviewed me about an
  • 01:16:00
    onboarding experiment that we did and
  • 01:16:03
    part of that
  • 01:16:04
    interview I shared
  • 01:16:08
    that you know at this company we'd
  • 01:16:11
    rather have fewer customers the way we
  • 01:16:12
    make a bigger impact on their lives than
  • 01:16:14
    a lot of company a lot of customers that
  • 01:16:17
    we make smaller impact and kind of
  • 01:16:19
    explaining the logic and the product
  • 01:16:21
    principles um that was like core really
  • 01:16:23
    core to the mission of the company and
  • 01:16:26
    somebody took a very limited screenshot
  • 01:16:28
    of that to prove that you know uh T
  • 01:16:30
    reviv hates poor people or something and
  • 01:16:34
    um that screenshot went viral and that
  • 01:16:38
    those tweets got embedded on like NPR
  • 01:16:40
    and Washington Post and that was that
  • 01:16:43
    was a little nerve-wracking
  • 01:16:45
    um I wasn't fired because I actually
  • 01:16:48
    wasn't connected to that I wasn't on
  • 01:16:50
    that I really felt bad uh that the uh
  • 01:16:54
    the pr team marketing team and all that
  • 01:16:55
    I I I reached out to them I was like I'm
  • 01:16:57
    so sorry like you know you guys are
  • 01:16:58
    working overtime because of my big mouth
  • 01:17:00
    and they're like don't worry like this
  • 01:17:01
    is happening to everybody at the company
  • 01:17:03
    right now everybody's having you know
  • 01:17:04
    people are digging stuff up unrelated
  • 01:17:06
    stuff um but uh yeah that's stuff that
  • 01:17:11
    happens what a life you've led to um
  • 01:17:14
    maybe just to close out this portion of
  • 01:17:17
    our discussion is there something that
  • 01:17:19
    you think people should most take away
  • 01:17:21
    from this really important stuff you're
  • 01:17:23
    sharing of just like things that usually
  • 01:17:26
    don't go well for people that do well in
  • 01:17:29
    like there are many things that go wrong
  • 01:17:31
    so the feedback I get from Executives
  • 01:17:32
    about these moments that really I think
  • 01:17:34
    is transferable and helpful is that they
  • 01:17:37
    know that no matter how silly I'm being
  • 01:17:40
    or you know what kind of stuff I get
  • 01:17:42
    myself into that they know for a fact
  • 01:17:45
    that I how much I how seriously I take
  • 01:17:48
    everything like they know how much I I'm
  • 01:17:51
    take if I make a funny presentation
  • 01:17:52
    about something right I put a lot of
  • 01:17:54
    jokes into it but they're like you it's
  • 01:17:57
    still extremely clear how seriously
  • 01:17:58
    you're taking this so I have peace of
  • 01:18:01
    mind yeah I I think it you you have to
  • 01:18:03
    have both you can't just you know have
  • 01:18:06
    these Adventures or do these silly
  • 01:18:07
    things or make these like these mistakes
  • 01:18:10
    like it's important to give the
  • 01:18:12
    confidence that you know you're making a
  • 01:18:13
    mistake you're on top of it before
  • 01:18:14
    anybody else that you know it's
  • 01:18:17
    bothering you more than anybody else uh
  • 01:18:19
    that you've if you're if you're
  • 01:18:21
    communicating and you're trying to make
  • 01:18:22
    you creative and like that first first
  • 01:18:25
    of all you've done all your homework and
  • 01:18:26
    you you know you've put a ton into it
  • 01:18:28
    and that gives you the basis like the
  • 01:18:30
    funny side of this is I have friends who
  • 01:18:32
    make fun of me that I work really hard
  • 01:18:34
    to justify like I have friends that make
  • 01:18:36
    fun of me I have friends that make fun
  • 01:18:37
    of me to that I work really hard so that
  • 01:18:41
    I can increase the amount of
  • 01:18:42
    that I can get away without being fired
  • 01:18:45
    depends how you look at it but it's
  • 01:18:46
    really important to to give that to give
  • 01:18:48
    that peace of mind yeah build that trust
  • 01:18:51
    bucket and then just deplete it
  • 01:18:52
    completely and throw it out the window
  • 01:18:56
    amazing T is there anything else that
  • 01:18:59
    you want to share before we get to our
  • 01:19:02
    very exciting lighting round we've
  • 01:19:03
    covered a ton of stuff all kind it feels
  • 01:19:05
    like there's been three podcasts within
  • 01:19:06
    one podcast um but just before we move
  • 01:19:09
    on is there anything else you want to
  • 01:19:10
    share or touch on leave listeners with
  • 01:19:12
    oh let's do it let's a lightning round
  • 01:19:14
    yeah well with that we reached our very
  • 01:19:16
    exciting lightning round I've got five
  • 01:19:18
    questions are you ready I'm ready first
  • 01:19:21
    question what are two or three books
  • 01:19:23
    that you've recommended most to other
  • 01:19:25
    people the best book on product
  • 01:19:26
    management that I've read um is called
  • 01:19:29
    how to talk so kids will listen and
  • 01:19:31
    listen so kids will
  • 01:19:33
    talk I encountered this book uh my
  • 01:19:37
    sister is a speech therapist and she had
  • 01:19:39
    on her bookshelf at home in her
  • 01:19:41
    apartment and I was jet lag one night I
  • 01:19:43
    was visiting her and uh I read it
  • 01:19:46
    and if anybody has read uh never split
  • 01:19:49
    the difference by Chris Voss where he
  • 01:19:50
    talks about how he like senior FBI
  • 01:19:53
    agents in 70s were realizing that all
  • 01:19:55
    they were doing in their like
  • 01:19:56
    negotiating tactics were just not
  • 01:19:58
    working and decided to try something
  • 01:20:00
    different um and that something is
  • 01:20:02
    basically non-violent communication and
  • 01:20:05
    he gives these amazing examples of
  • 01:20:06
    Decades of using this with kidnappers
  • 01:20:09
    and you know terrorists and organized
  • 01:20:11
    crime uh to diffuse situations and uh
  • 01:20:15
    create productive outcomes
  • 01:20:17
    so uh this book you know with all due
  • 01:20:21
    respect to uh FBI agents and and
  • 01:20:24
    terrorists and hijackers and kidnappers
  • 01:20:26
    right like this is about
  • 01:20:28
    kids uh so um this book is for me this
  • 01:20:32
    is what really the examples how it's
  • 01:20:34
    communicated it's like uh Illustrated
  • 01:20:37
    almost like a comic book uh tons of
  • 01:20:38
    super concrete examples and for me I
  • 01:20:41
    think that's when these principles
  • 01:20:43
    really sunk in is is from that that book
  • 01:20:45
    really uh resonated with me the most
  • 01:20:48
    more than the book itself for nonviolent
  • 01:20:50
    communication or the never split the
  • 01:20:52
    difference both of which are awesome so
  • 01:20:54
    I really recommend that book man I I
  • 01:20:57
    want to do a whole podcast on what you
  • 01:20:58
    learn there but I'm going to force
  • 01:20:59
    myself to move on yeah that's awesome
  • 01:21:01
    this is going to be really helpful to me
  • 01:21:02
    as a new parent there's um there's a
  • 01:21:05
    book that another I'm just going to
  • 01:21:06
    throw out a book recommendation reverse
  • 01:21:08
    lighting around on this topic that Joe
  • 01:21:10
    Hudson recent podcast guest recommended
  • 01:21:13
    Offline that I found to be incredibly
  • 01:21:15
    helpful it's called listen it's an
  • 01:21:17
    orange book so there's a few on Amazon
  • 01:21:19
    and we'll link to it in the show notes
  • 01:21:20
    but it's just called listen and it's
  • 01:21:23
    about why listening is the most powerful
  • 01:21:25
    way to help your kids get through stuff
  • 01:21:28
    that is challenging to them that's I'm
  • 01:21:30
    not powerful title just listen that's it
  • 01:21:33
    and there's all these different ways of
  • 01:21:34
    listening so anyway okay we'll keep
  • 01:21:36
    going um do you have a favorite recent
  • 01:21:38
    movie or TV show you've really enjoyed I
  • 01:21:41
    recently rediscovered Ted
  • 01:21:43
    lasso the first time I watched it I I
  • 01:21:46
    got tons of recommendations it's
  • 01:21:47
    hilarious I didn't connect to it I just
  • 01:21:48
    didn't connect to the umor I was like ah
  • 01:21:50
    okay fine you know I stopped watching it
  • 01:21:53
    um and
  • 01:21:55
    then I I heard a podcast where somebody
  • 01:21:56
    recommended watching it from a point of
  • 01:21:58
    view of like Leadership Lessons and they
  • 01:22:00
    just couldn't stop recommending they
  • 01:22:01
    just so passionately recommended it and
  • 01:22:03
    I was like okay let me revisit this um
  • 01:22:06
    and when you watch it from that point of
  • 01:22:09
    view it's mind-blowing if you think
  • 01:22:12
    about I'm sure you know a ton of people
  • 01:22:14
    listening to this have have watched this
  • 01:22:15
    show you think about the premise of the
  • 01:22:17
    show it's this guy who's been given an
  • 01:22:20
    impossible task and he's surrounded by
  • 01:22:23
    like the worst human beings in the world
  • 01:22:26
    in terms of you know they're yeah just
  • 01:22:28
    the worst human beings in behaviors and
  • 01:22:31
    uh the way he gets through that right is
  • 01:22:34
    it's hard to describe you have to watch
  • 01:22:35
    it um I think any any attempt to to
  • 01:22:38
    summarize it the show like just watching
  • 01:22:40
    it how how this character behaves and
  • 01:22:41
    gets through this stuff is is incredible
  • 01:22:43
    when you watch it from that point of
  • 01:22:44
    view and for me when I um like it it
  • 01:22:50
    definitely affected how I work
  • 01:22:53
    definitely influenced me but not just
  • 01:22:54
    work like just also how I deal with you
  • 01:22:58
    know aggressive Middle Eastern urban
  • 01:23:01
    life situations how I uh deal with I've
  • 01:23:05
    I've applied this dealing with really
  • 01:23:08
    tough locals at Surf breaks you know in
  • 01:23:10
    South America like it's incredible uh I
  • 01:23:15
    I I'll give a story the surf break I was
  • 01:23:17
    in in Chile and um I was surfing and it
  • 01:23:22
    was an hour of the day where a lot of
  • 01:23:23
    people who were local would be surfing
  • 01:23:26
    and a bunch came out and uh they started
  • 01:23:29
    to giving me these like looks you know
  • 01:23:31
    this happens in everywhere in the world
  • 01:23:32
    every surf break um and just like really
  • 01:23:36
    uncomfortable
  • 01:23:38
    and um one of the guys especially and
  • 01:23:43
    after a while I was realizing like I'm
  • 01:23:44
    not gonna get the surf if I if this if
  • 01:23:47
    this keeps up and you know I'm not
  • 01:23:49
    there's no conflict way to get out of
  • 01:23:51
    this and I went I swam up to him uh and
  • 01:23:55
    I I asked him I was like hey are you
  • 01:23:59
    from like pichy LMO are you from here
  • 01:24:02
    and he's like yeah why I was like you
  • 01:24:04
    are one of the luckiest people in the
  • 01:24:06
    world
  • 01:24:07
    and he didn't you know he was totally
  • 01:24:10
    caught off guard he started smiling um
  • 01:24:13
    and like you know that just changed the
  • 01:24:16
    whole vibe it got to a point where you
  • 01:24:18
    know he was telling other people like
  • 01:24:20
    you know let me have this wave and um
  • 01:24:23
    that's not my experience
  • 01:24:24
    you know and a lot of surf breaks and um
  • 01:24:28
    I you know my friend calls it Ted lasso
  • 01:24:30
    the Ted lasso somebody which is also
  • 01:24:32
    very genuine like you really have to
  • 01:24:33
    believe it and okay next question do you
  • 01:24:36
    have a favorite product you've recently
  • 01:24:37
    discovered that you really love so this
  • 01:24:39
    morning I spent uh half the day surfing
  • 01:24:42
    and I think the the products I've really
  • 01:24:45
    come to appreciate there's not a lot of
  • 01:24:46
    products used in surfing it's like a wet
  • 01:24:48
    suit like V shorts you know maybe a hat
  • 01:24:51
    but you can really feel
  • 01:24:55
    uh like I I surf with O'Neal web suit
  • 01:24:59
    hyper freak web web suit but that
  • 01:25:00
    doesn't matter it's it's like when a a
  • 01:25:03
    piece of gear is like really well
  • 01:25:06
    constructed you can feel that the person
  • 01:25:08
    behind this also surfs or spends a lot
  • 01:25:11
    of time with Surfers and really gets you
  • 01:25:14
    probably gets you more than you
  • 01:25:16
    understand on face value and you start
  • 01:25:18
    to notice all these details um over time
  • 01:25:21
    it takes a long time to notice all these
  • 01:25:22
    details and you can really feel that
  • 01:25:24
    there's a person behind this product
  • 01:25:26
    that gets you and that's like it's kind
  • 01:25:28
    of like art almost you know when you
  • 01:25:30
    feel you know a piece of art or music
  • 01:25:33
    really resonates with you you feel that
  • 01:25:34
    the artist is like communicating with
  • 01:25:36
    you directly and letting you feel
  • 01:25:38
    something that they were feeling uh it's
  • 01:25:40
    almost like that so um I think like like
  • 01:25:43
    for me it's outdoor equipment that uh
  • 01:25:46
    you can feel that the person behind us
  • 01:25:48
    is like using it along there with you
  • 01:25:50
    first time a wet suit's been recommended
  • 01:25:52
    on the podcast a great milestone
  • 01:25:55
    two more questions do you have favorite
  • 01:25:57
    life motto that you often come back to
  • 01:25:59
    find useful and work your own life share
  • 01:26:00
    with friends or family I think I can't
  • 01:26:03
    believe I'm doing three surf stories in
  • 01:26:05
    a row but
  • 01:26:06
    um my my this is a life motel that's
  • 01:26:09
    just like stuck in my head um for almost
  • 01:26:12
    a yeah for more than a decade now which
  • 01:26:15
    it comes from a piece of plywood outside
  • 01:26:18
    a surf shop in Mexico um that was
  • 01:26:21
    painted on it you can't stop the waves
  • 01:26:23
    but you can learn how to surf
  • 01:26:28
    and uh yeah like there's a lot to that
  • 01:26:31
    that you know over time that
  • 01:26:33
    I've really tried to apply that in a lot
  • 01:26:35
    of ways uh
  • 01:26:37
    emotionally um organizationally like at
  • 01:26:40
    every level you think about that along
  • 01:26:43
    those lines final question so at the
  • 01:26:46
    beginning of this podcast you mentioned
  • 01:26:47
    that this podcast has been a long time
  • 01:26:49
    coming and the reason that's the case is
  • 01:26:51
    we had this scheduled for some time in
  • 01:26:53
    early October
  • 01:26:55
    uh you live in Israel uh war broke out
  • 01:26:58
    you've been living through that being in
  • 01:27:00
    Israel this entire time I saw this V
  • 01:27:02
    diagram that you put out that I think
  • 01:27:03
    summarizes your life right now which is
  • 01:27:06
    a I forget one side of it but just like
  • 01:27:09
    apocalypse apocalypse one Circle the
  • 01:27:11
    other is gotta go get to
  • 01:27:13
    work gotta wake up and make Israel's in
  • 01:27:16
    the middle that's what yeah and you've
  • 01:27:18
    been in the middle of that for the past
  • 01:27:19
    year so I'd love to just briefly just
  • 01:27:22
    hear how that's been for you in the
  • 01:27:24
    pasture how are you doing how's how's
  • 01:27:26
    life for you here at
  • 01:27:29
    Riverside we've had a bunch of people
  • 01:27:31
    out for reserve duty um I think all all
  • 01:27:35
    of them are back now I have a team lead
  • 01:27:39
    uh well people are still going in and
  • 01:27:41
    out of reserve duty while working here
  • 01:27:44
    uh I have a team lead who leaves around
  • 01:27:46
    some days around you know
  • 01:27:49
    400m uh goes to the base uh won't say
  • 01:27:53
    what he what he has to do but it's super
  • 01:27:55
    intense and shows up the next morning a
  • 01:27:57
    little tired but back at work and
  • 01:28:01
    um and general uh we have it's not just
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    in Israel we have teammates in Ukraine
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    um all along at the same time yeah like
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    uh one of my teams is almost entirely in
  • 01:28:11
    Ukraine so you'll have we we've had
  • 01:28:14
    moments where you know we we'll all be
  • 01:28:16
    on a call and then there'll be you know
  • 01:28:19
    missile siren here in Israel here in Tel
  • 01:28:22
    Aviv um and we'll say hey sorry we got
  • 01:28:24
    to go go down to the shelter hear the
  • 01:28:27
    explosions overhead come back s sit back
  • 01:28:30
    down later that day we'll have another
  • 01:28:32
    meeting and on the Ukraine side you know
  • 01:28:35
    you'll hear like hey that that
  • 01:28:37
    beeping isn't that the the missile alert
  • 01:28:41
    you know on your end and Andre like
  • 01:28:43
    isn't that the that the critical Alert
  • 01:28:45
    on your iPhone he looks at his phone
  • 01:28:47
    he'll be like yeah but I got 10 minutes
  • 01:28:49
    like let's just finish the meeting right
  • 01:28:51
    like all these like surreal moments
  • 01:28:53
    where you just at the same time where
  • 01:28:56
    everything's not normal people have this
  • 01:28:59
    really strong desire for normaly it's
  • 01:29:02
    you know work and everything around us
  • 01:29:04
    and our routine is like become more
  • 01:29:06
    important than ever and it's just these
  • 01:29:10
    you know you have oh you know where's
  • 01:29:11
    vlood oh you know the power grid was
  • 01:29:13
    attacked in this town so he's working on
  • 01:29:15
    getting the generator back up like
  • 01:29:18
    okay um but you know I don't know if
  • 01:29:22
    it's like a no excuses mindset or badass
  • 01:29:24
    three so much is I know in my end it's
  • 01:29:26
    just a like I think for Ukraine team
  • 01:29:28
    definitely on my end it's just like
  • 01:29:30
    really really crave the routine and and
  • 01:29:33
    the sense of normaly when you can get
  • 01:29:34
    those moments and um like I said you
  • 01:29:38
    know I think doing this podcast working
  • 01:29:40
    on this course all these things I'm not
  • 01:29:42
    doing them because things are normal I'm
  • 01:29:44
    doing them because they're not so yeah
  • 01:29:47
    and I'll use this opportunity to say
  • 01:29:50
    that you know biggest thing in all of
  • 01:29:52
    our minds is um there's
  • 01:29:55
    107 hostages uh that have been held for
  • 01:29:57
    328 days by
  • 01:29:59
    Hamas um yeah we need to bring them home
  • 01:30:02
    now yeah let's hope a just come home
  • 01:30:06
    let's hope things end soon uh I'm really
  • 01:30:10
    impressed with how much you've been able
  • 01:30:12
    to get done in the middle of all of that
  • 01:30:14
    and thanks for making time for this I
  • 01:30:16
    know that this isn't the the most
  • 01:30:18
    important thing in the world right now
  • 01:30:20
    but I think this conversation is going
  • 01:30:21
    to help a lot of people and you have so
  • 01:30:23
    much wisdom to share
  • 01:30:25
    thanks for being here tall um thank you
  • 01:30:28
    on the course real quick just to make
  • 01:30:30
    sure people check it out how do people
  • 01:30:31
    find it just throw that out there as a
  • 01:30:33
    final step it's on maven.com um in the
  • 01:30:38
    product catalog and um I'll have it I'll
  • 01:30:41
    probably post links to my LinkedIn as
  • 01:30:42
    well you can find it there and uh yeah
  • 01:30:46
    it'll launch in mid October that'll be
  • 01:30:49
    the first cohort amazing and willink to
  • 01:30:51
    in the show notes Pa thank you so much
  • 01:30:54
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