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there are 10 psychological loopholes bad
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boys exploit to get women obsessed But
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99% of men don't even know they exist
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And in this video I'm going to break
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down why girls hate nice guys and love
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bad boys and show you multiple examples
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of exactly how I use these hidden
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loopholes in real life conversations so
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you can steal them for yourself and
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start getting reactions like this Do you
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have Instagram or something yeah sure
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What are you doing tonight and the first
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loophole is most important Avoid the
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fake nice trap If you're like most guys
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you've probably tried being nice
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considerate and even bending over
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backwards just to get a girl's attention
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only to watch her chase after a guy who
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couldn't care less Here's exactly why
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Nice guys aren't actually nice They're
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fake nice and supplicating to the girl
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because it fits their agenda They think
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if I exchange niceness the girl will
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give me attraction and sex in return
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Hence why women are repulsed by nice
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guys and instead attracted to bad boys
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If you struggle with nice guy tendencies
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here's the easy fix Don't hide your
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intentions A big reason guys get stuck
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in boring small talk is because they're
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too afraid to get to the point Whether
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it's during a cold approach first date
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or over text aimless banter is a huge
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turnoff Instead compliment her
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physically or make a suggestive joke
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Here's an example of how I did this less
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than 30 seconds into an interaction with
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a woman I approached on the street Sorry
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I need to study quite a lot Well you're
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smart and you're well dressed so you
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have a lot going for you Thank you
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Notice I gave her a compliment and I
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looked her up and down to communicate
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intent with both my words and my body
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language Just before this she mentioned
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she's studying for medical school
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something boring and platonic but I used
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it to convey my intent Also notice my
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body language and tonality when I
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delivered the compliment I'm not seeking
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her approval or waiting to see how she
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reacts This is another bad boy trait
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that nice guys completely mess up It's
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called outcome indifference While most
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nice guys are acting nice to try and
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force an outcome the bad boy plays fast
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and loose He's high off his own energy
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and isn't too attached to the outcome
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with any one girl This laid-back take it
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or leave it attitude is magnetic because
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it allows the connection to form
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naturally If you're a successful guy
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this trait is actually easy for you to
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adopt because your life is already great
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Whether you strike out with one
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individual girl isn't going to change
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the number in your bank account or the
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quality of your life This is why
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successful men who know how to integrate
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these bad boy traits absolutely crush it
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with the most attractive women And it
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allows them to easily do the next thing
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which will prevent you from being boring
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the absolute worst thing a girl can say
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about them Use gentle disapprovals Nice
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guys are overly agreeable because they
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don't want to rock the boat They
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actively avoid conflict because they
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believe that agreement builds attraction
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But the opposite is actually true
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Conflict creates tension and tension
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creates attraction The uncertainty of
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what's going to happen next in an
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interaction is what gives a girl
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butterflies and leads her to hanging on
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to your every word Playful conflict and
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gentle teasing create emotional peaks
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and valleys These create an addictive
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emotional experience for her Constantly
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agreeing is antithetical to attraction
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because it flattens these emotional
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peaks turning the interaction boring
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predictable and stale Here's an example
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of how I use a gentle disapproval just
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10 seconds into a cold approach This is
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a latte but uh cold It's a little basic
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I'm I'm kind of judging the drink a
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little bit You got to get something with
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a little bit more spice What about you
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did you get something more respectable
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sophisticated basic What you You're kind
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of fitting like the the basic white girl
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vibe Starbucks blonde
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Got the athletic wear on but we could
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work with it What are you doing tonight
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you'll see I make a joke about her drink
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choice being basic She reacts
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immediately so I double down with a bit
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more playful teasing That little back
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and forth instantly gets her smiling
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laughing and fully invested even though
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we literally just met 10 seconds prior
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Back and forths like this create stakes
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in the conversation and can make a girl
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way more engaged than normal boring
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small talk That's the power of gentle
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disapproval done correctly If you never
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use playful disapproval your interaction
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become forgettable and she'll quickly
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lose interest So the next time you're in
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conversation deliberately pick something
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minor she says or does and gently tease
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her about it Watch how the energy
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immediately shifts creating way more
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investment and excitement towards you
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But be careful because gentle
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disapprovals are just one conversational
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tactic There's another essential skill
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bad boys master that multiplies
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attraction even further and that is
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don't take the girl too seriously Nice
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guys treat women like they're an
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authority figure Never pushing back
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questioning or just playfully dismissing
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what a girl says Bad boys are masters at
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creating interactions that feel like
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play They'll poke fun at a girl or
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simply just ignore and reframe what a
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woman says to get what they want Here's
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an example of how I reframed a woman's
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objection about my age In this clip I
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approach a woman who's probably about 8
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to 10 years older than me And when I
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tell her my age she says this I'm not
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sure how old you are 26 You might be a
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bit too young for me A bit too young to
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exchange Instagrams and perhaps No
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that's fine And go out sometime here or
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in New York Uh I'm open to that Yeah
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Notice how I playfully dismissed her
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objection around age and didn't take it
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seriously I reframed the idea of us
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getting to know each other as something
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that's not a big deal Most guys would
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just fold at the first sign of pressure
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or backtrack or simply let a girl
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dictate how an interaction goes If you
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want to command respect and build real
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desire you have to be willing to man up
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and play to win And the easiest way to
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do this is to use assumptive language
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Women's attraction is heavily based on
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pre-selection meaning they're attracted
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to men who other women already desire By
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speaking assumptively when you assume
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she want to see you again or assume
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attraction you instantly imply you've
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experienced this outcome before You're
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signaling I'm used to women being into
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me which immediately positions you as
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high status and attractive This subtle
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communication triggers her attraction
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instinct because it signals other women
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have already chosen you Notice how I use
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assumptive language in this clip from an
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approach where a woman tells me she's
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never dated a Dominican man Oh I've
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never dated Dominican or Puerto Rican
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Well you might have to now I say you
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might have to now Referencing myself and
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assuming that she'd be interested in me
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since we're already on the topic of
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romantic relationships You might have to
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now Come on I just met on the street
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Well you just met me on the street now
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Maybe we go on a date or two We feel it
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out and go from there
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bold You open to that i'm open to
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chatting you guys She gives an objection
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and says "Someone I just met on the
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street." And I double down on my
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assumptive language by saying "Maybe
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we'll go on a date or two and feel each
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other out." She literally says "Bold
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acknowledging my assumptive language."
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And that's when I double down even more
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and ask her if she's open to it Then she
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suggests chatting again and I secure the
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phone number Now speaking assumptively
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like you just saw instantly positions
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you as a guy that women crave But to
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truly seal the deal you need this next
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skill If you skip it you'll risk losing
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attraction right at the finish line And
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that is provide direction and leadership
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Think about planning a date The nice guy
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texts a girl "Where do you want to go?"
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Instantly forcing her into the
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leadership position and putting the
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burden of logistics on the woman
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Meanwhile the bad boy will just suggest
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a place he likes and assume she'll agree
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unless she says otherwise Let's check
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out this bar downtown They have the best
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cocktails As the man it is your job to
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assume the burden of logistics and lead
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her If the girl is to pick the time pick
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the place figure out how she's getting
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there and spend 2 hours getting ready
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for the date she's just going to say no
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That's why the text conversation and how
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you ask her out on the date is make or
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break If you say the wrong thing she'll
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ghost you and never agree to the date in
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the first place This is why texting is
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one of the most important dating skills
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says yes and real life examples of the
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blueprint in action This is the same
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texting blueprint my client Ted used to
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secure three dates in a single week So
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if you want to copy paste the same
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message he used to pack his calendar
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charge isn't just about logistics like
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planning dates Because even if you're
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leading a conversation constantly asking
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for approval or permission undermines
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everything you've just built So the next
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tip is just as important for maintaining
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that attraction you've worked so hard to
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create And that is stop seeking
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validation Start granting it Most men
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enter conversations desperately hoping
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for validation trying hard to be funny
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agreeable or impressive But this
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constant seeking instantly signals
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weakness and insecurity and it's overall
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just low status energy Bad boys
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naturally flip this dynamic on its head
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They never seek validation Instead they
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confidently grant it When you grant
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validation rather than seek it you
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immediately position yourself as the
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prize to be won taking complete control
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and shifting the power dynamics in your
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favor This can be done in a positive way
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that makes the girl feel good while also
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setting the frame that she's trying to
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impress you An easy way to do this is to
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simply compliment and highlight
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something you like about her in
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conversation Here's an example of this
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in action Well I have a cat I'm a cat
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mom Really yeah I'm kind of responsible
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for my cat Well I'm glad to hear you're
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responsible That's a good green flag
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Notice the frame of me complimenting her
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and saying her responsibility is a green
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flag The subcommunication is that I'm
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evaluating her to see if she's the right
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kind of girl This puts us on an equal
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playing field and prevents the nice guy
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tendency of putting the girl above you
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You're suddenly the chooser not the one
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hoping to be chosen Now once you flip
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the validation dynamic it naturally sets
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you up to lead And this is where 99% of
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guys absolutely fumble all attraction
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That's why you want to use statements
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not questions Nice guys habitually ask
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for approval or validation through
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constant questioning Is this okay are
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you sure well what do you want to do
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these types of questions naturally place
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you in a subordinate role You're handing
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the power of decision-making to the girl
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But bold statements clearly signal you
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know who you are you know what you want
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and you're not afraid to own it This
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ties back into the previous point on
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taking the lead If you're on a date and
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things are going well and you'd like to
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invite her back to your place don't ask
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"Want to go back to my place?" State it
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instead Let's head back to my place I'll
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make you a drink on my balcony and
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introduce you to my dog This makes it
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easier to follow your lead because
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you're stating something rather than
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asking a question and forcing her to
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make a decision You want someone to
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follow your lead You have to remove the
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burden of making a decision This is why
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statements are so powerful for
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establishing a frame and allowing a
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woman to relax into her feminine because
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she trusts you can lead her Now using
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bold statements puts you firmly in the
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driver's seat But what about the actual
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content of your conversations because
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even if you're confidently stating your
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thoughts constantly agreeing with
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everything she says will still kill
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attraction That's why this next
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technique is crucial for getting the
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girl addicted to you That is don't
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filter yourself Think about it Nice guys
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constantly second guessess every word
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every move and constantly analyze
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endlessly over how she'll react But the
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bad boy doesn't waste mental energy on
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imagined judgment He trusts his gut He's
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operating from a higher level of
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authentic consciousness He speaks and
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acts directly from his instincts If he
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wants to do something he's just going to
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do it He doesn't stop to think is this
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logical is this analytically the right
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thing to do no of course not He's acting
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from the heart from the spirit Just
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feeling it in his gut is reason enough
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for him to take action He doesn't need a
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three paragraph essay or a pros and cons
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list to justify his actions and mentally
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masturbate over This is exactly why the
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overly analytical nice guy who
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constantly worries always loses Now if
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you're a successful guy who constantly
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comes off as too nice or too boring and
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you're frustrated because you're not
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seeing the dating results you deserve
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listen closely The difference between
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you and the men who effortlessly attract
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high-quality women isn't luck It's
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simply knowing exactly how to activate
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the right psychological traits at the
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right moments Whether it's online or in
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person I've personally helped hundreds
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of men turn their dating lives around by
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teaching them exactly how to embody
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these powerful traits naturally and I
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can personally build your dating
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profiles for you and coach you through
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your in-person interactions so that you
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can leverage these traits and finally
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become the guy that women actively chase
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But there's a catch Because I work with
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every client personally and individually
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spots inside my private consulting are
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limited since I can only take a few guys
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per month So if you want to work with me
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personally and have me hold your hand
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throughout the entire dating process
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click below to apply and secure a spot
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And if you want to know how to apply
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these bad boy traits on a first date
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then you're going to want to watch this
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video which shows you the sevenstep
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blueprint for crushing your first dates
