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you don't have
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peace you haven't had it for a long time
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even though you try to pretend
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otherwise you live trapped in a back and
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forth of thoughts that you can't control
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emotions that hit you without warning
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and a feeling of emptiness that
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sometimes you can't even explain and the
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worst part you believe this is how it
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should be you believe that peace is a
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luxury reserved for a few enlightened
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ones while you are condemned to this
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internal War you've been made to believe
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that living like this is normal but
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that's a lie inner peace is not an
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unattainable goal it's not a state of
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perfection where everything is calm and
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there are never any
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conflicts it's not about ignoring what
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you feel or fighting against negative
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thoughts that just leads you to an
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endless battle with
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yourself true peace is found in the way
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you interpret what you live because
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reality as objective as it may seem is
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nothing but a projection of what's
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inside of
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you think about this two people can live
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the exact same situation but one suffers
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and the other moves moves on as if
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nothing
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happened why because it's not what
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happens that affects you but how you
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interpret it your mind is a filter and
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that filter is conditioned by years of
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beliefs wounds and unconscious
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patterns Carl Young made it clear until
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you make the unconscious conscious it
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will direct your life and you will call
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it fate you are a slave to your mental
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programming
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since you were a child you've absorbed
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ideas fears and ways of reacting that
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you now believe are yours but they are
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not they were imposed they are echoes of
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what you saw in your parents in society
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in the experiences that marked your
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childhood and every time you react
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automatically every time fear anger or
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sadness dominates you without you
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knowing why what's really happening is
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that that wounded child is still taking
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control the question is how long are you
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going to keep allowing it the problem is
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that most people never stop to question
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this they live on autopilot repeating
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the same reactions stumbling over the
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same mistakes feeling the same wounds
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over and over again and as long as you
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keep seeing Life as a series of events
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that are beyond your control you'll
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remain
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trapped because true freedom is not
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controlling what happens but controlling
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how you interpret it and that's where
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the key to unshakable peace lies it's
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not about rejecting your emotions it's
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not about running away from
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uncomfortable thoughts it's about
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observing them without identifying with
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them because you are not your mind you
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are not that internal dire dialogue that
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torments you every day you are the one
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who listens the one who observes the
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awareness behind it all but you've
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forgotten that and as long as you keep
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believing that you are every thought
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that passes through your mind you will
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remain at the mercy of endless
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chaos the trick isn't to eliminate
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negative emotions but to stop fighting
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them because when you resist you
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strengthen what you're trying to avoid
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when an emotion hits you don't reject it
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don't suppress it observe it feel it let
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it be there without trying to change it
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because the moment you accept it it
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loses power over you look at it this way
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your mind is a river if you try to stop
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the current you wear yourself out and
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achieve nothing but if you learn to flow
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with it you discover that you were never
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the water water but the Observer on the
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shore that is true power inner peace
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isn't about the world being perfect it's
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about nothing external having the power
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to knock you off balance and for that
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you need to practice presence be here
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and now not in the past reliving wounds
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not in the future anticipating fears
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here in this moment because this is the
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only moment that really exists the mind
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will always try to drag you somewhere
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else it will throw thoughts at you fill
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you with doubts stories and memories but
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you are not that if you manage to see
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the mind for what it is a tool and not
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your identity then and only then will
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you be
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free and emotional freedom is the only
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kind that truly matters the stoics knew
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this well it's not what happens to you
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but how you respond to
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it there lies the difference between a
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life of suffering and a life of
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Peace the difference between living as a
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victim or as someone who has control
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over
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themselves and if you understand this if
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you truly internalize it you will
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discover that no one or nothing will be
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able to take your calm away because
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peace is not outside of you it has
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always been inside of you you just have
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to to claim it so tell me are you going
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to keep letting the noise of the world
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dictate your internal state or are you
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going to take control once and for
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all but here's what no one tells you
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true inner peace is not just a matter of
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perception but of
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power not power over others or over
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circumstances but power over yourself
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and that's where most people fail
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because everyone wants to feel calm but
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few are willing to do what it takes to
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achieve it do you know what the greatest
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enemy of your peace is
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distraction and I'm not just talking
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about social media empty entertainment
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or the constant noise around you I'm
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talking about internal
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distraction that inability to be alone
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with yourself without feeling
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discomfort that need to fill every
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second with external stimuli because
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silence terrifies you
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have you ever asked yourself
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why the answer is brutally simple
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because in Silence the truth
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appears the truth about what you are
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about what you've avoided about the
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fears you're still dragging and most
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people aren't ready to face that that's
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why they look for escapes they fill
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themselves with noise distractions
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unnecessary busyness because when the
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world goes silent their demons start to
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speak
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and that is
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unbearable but here's the secret the
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only way to find real peace is by going
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through that silence not running from it
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not numbing it with more noise because
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inner peace is not the absence of
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conflict but the ability to be at peace
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even in the middle of chaos and that can
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only be achieved when you dare to look
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inside without fear the problem is that
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we live in a society that has taught us
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to avoid inter
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inpection everything is designed to keep
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you distracted excessive consumption the
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constant need for validation the
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obsession with being busy all the
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time all of that is a trap a trap
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designed to keep you
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asleep because someone who never stops
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to think about themselves will never
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discover their true
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power and here's where something that
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few understand comes into
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play the power of
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Detachment because if you want
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unshakable peace you need to learn to
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let go and I'm not just talking about
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letting go of grudges or past pains I'm
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talking about letting go of the need to
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control everything the need for life to
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fit your
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expectations because that is the main
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source of suffering resistance to
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accepting what is look around you most
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people are trapped in a constant fight
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against reality they want things to be
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different they want people to act the
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way they expect they want the world to
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accommodate their desires and when that
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doesn't happen they suffer they get
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frustrated they fill themselves with
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anger or sadness but reality never stops
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it doesn't care what you want so why
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keep fighting against it the key is to
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accept what you can't control and focus
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only on what does depend on you your
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perception your reaction your internal
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state that is true power everything else
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is just noise because when you learn to
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let go of that need for control you stop
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being a victim of
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circumstances and that's when you're
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truly free but Letting Go isn't easy it
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requires a radical change in the way you
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see life it requires understanding that
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attachment to anything external people
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opinions results is a chain you've put
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on yourself and as long as you stay tied
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to the external you will never have true
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peace because you'll always be at the
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mercy of what happens outside of
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you so the question is are you willing
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to let go are you willing to give up the
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illusion of control and accept life as
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it
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is because that's the only way to free
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yourself once and for all
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and here's where everything connects
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inner peace Detachment
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perception they all point to one single
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truth life is a mirror it doesn't
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reflect what you want it reflects what
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you are if there's chaos inside you
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you'll see chaos everywhere if there's
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calm inside you nothing will be able to
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disturb you but that calm is not found
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outside it's not found in a better situ
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ation in another person in more money or
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in more success it's found in the way
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you choose to interpret what happens
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that's why the real question isn't how
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to find peace the real question is are
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you ready to stop resisting life and
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start living in harmony with it because
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when you do when you truly do you'll
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realize something incredible the peace
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you were looking for outside has always
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been inside of you you just had to
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remove what was blocking it the true
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test of Your Inner Peace isn't calm but
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the
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storm anyone can feel calm when things
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are going well when there are no
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problems when life seems aligned with
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what you want but real peace is not what
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you have when everything is easy it's
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what you manage to maintain when
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everything around you is crumbling and
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that's where most people fail
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they think that to be at peace they need
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the outside world to be in order that if
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they fix their
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relationships if they achieve their
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goals if they have more money if they're
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finally understood and respected by
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others then they'll be able to feel
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calm but that's the Fatal
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mistake because as long as your peace
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depends on something outside of you it
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will never be yours it will be alone
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something the world gives you that the
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world can take away at any time that's
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where resilience comes into play and
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resilience is not what they've sold you
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it's not just being strong or enduring
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the blows of life it's something much
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deeper true resilience is the ability to
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transform suffering into growth to make
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even the darkest moments play in your
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favor look at the people who have
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evolved the most in their lives the ones
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who've achieved unshakable peace what do
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they have in common they haven't had an
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easy life they haven't been protected
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from adversity they've gone through hell
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but instead of letting the pain destroy
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them they used it to become more aware
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wiser
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Freer that's the difference between
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someone who sinks and someone who
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Rises what they do with their
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pain and here's the key peace is not
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found by avoiding suffering but by
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changing your relationship with it life
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will hit you it doesn't matter how much
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you meditate how much you read how much
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you
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grow pain is
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inevitable but suffering is optional and
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the only difference between pain and
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suffering is the interpretation you give
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it when something hurts you have two
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options use it or be used by it most
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people let pain to find them they get
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stuck in resentment in victimization in
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Nostalgia for what could have been but
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those who truly understand how life
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Works turn pain into fuel into a tool to
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expand to evolve to become someone who
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doesn't falter at anything look at
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nature a forest needs to catch fire to
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regenerate coal needs extreme pressure
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to turn into a diamond and you are no
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different What Makes You Suffer today
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could be what strengthens you tomorrow
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if you choose to see it that way if you
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choose to ask the right
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question how can I use this to
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grow and here's the most powerful part
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when you start to see life This way
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everything changes you stop fearing pain
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you stop resisting what happens because
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you understand that no matter what
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happens you can always turn turn it into
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something valuable and when you no
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longer fear losing anything when you
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know that even in the worst storm you
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can find something that makes you
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stronger that's when you reach true
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peace but there's one obstacle on this
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path and its attachment to Identity
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you've been told you are a certain way
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that you have a story a past a series of
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labels that Define who you are and that
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becomes a prison because when you
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believe you are your story you cling to
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it you cling to your wounds to your
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traumas to your old beliefs because
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without them who are you that's the
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question that terrifies most people
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that's why they keep reliving the same
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stories in their heads that's why they
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keep reacting the same way over and over
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again even when they know it harms them
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because the ego prefers the known to the
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unknown even if the known is suffering
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but here here's the brutal truth to
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achieve unshakable peace you have to be
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willing to
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die not physically but
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psychologically you have to let the
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version of you that's trapped in the
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past
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disappear you have to let go of the
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story you've told yourself about who you
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are and open up to the possibility of
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being someone completely
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new and that's scary because the ego
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hates
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uncertainty but but in that uncertainty
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lies
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freedom because when you stop clinging
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to a fixed identity you stop reacting
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automatically you stop living with the
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same fears the same patterns the same
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self-imposed limits you become flexible
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adaptable
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indestructible that's the true internal
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Revolution it's not about controlling
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life but about learning to flow with it
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without losing yourself in the process
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it's about letting go of the need for
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things to be the way you want them and
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instead learning to play with what is
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because life is not a battle you have to
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win it's a river you have to learn to
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swim in so tell me are you ready to let
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go of the story that keeps you trapped
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are you ready to stop seeing pain as an
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enemy and start using it as a tool
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because that's the difference between a
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life full of suffering and a life full
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of peace and in the end there's only one
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question that matters are you going to
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keep running away from yourself or are
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you finally going to face what's inside
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of you and reclaim the power that's
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always been yours there's a trap that
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almost everyone falls into at some point
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on the path to Inner
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Peace and it's the obsession with
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control they believe that if they manage
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to control their emotions their thoughts
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their reactions then they'll be at peace
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that if they control others
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circumstances the future then nothing
00:18:04
will shake them but the reality is
00:18:07
different the more you try to control
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the more you suffer because control is
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an illusion a mirage that your mind
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creates to feel safe but life cannot be
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controlled the world doesn't follow a
00:18:22
script written by you people aren't
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going to act as you expect things aren't
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always going to turn out the way you
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want and the sooner you accept that The
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Closer you'll be to the peace you're
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looking for look at how most people live
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tense anxious worried about what's going
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to happen tomorrow about what someone
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might think of them about whether
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something they said was
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misunderstood always in a state of
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internal resistance always trying to
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anticipate what's coming as if that gave
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them some sort of Advantage but all they
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managed to do is Dr brain themselves
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wear themselves out mentally and
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emotionally because total control
00:19:05
doesn't exist it never has and the
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sooner you understand that the sooner
00:19:10
you'll Free Yourself true peace is not
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in controlling life but in trusting that
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you can handle whatever comes it's a
00:19:19
subtle shift but it changes everything
00:19:23
you stop needing guarantees you stop
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clinging to the idea that everything has
00:19:27
to go the way you want
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instead you develop an inner
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certainty no matter what happens I will
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find a way to keep
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standing but there's something working
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against you in this
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process the fear of
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uncertainty the fear of not knowing
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what's going to happen and that's what
00:19:49
keeps you trapped in the illusion of
00:19:52
control you think that if you plan
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enough if you analyze all the
00:19:56
possibilities if you prepare for every
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scenario then you'll be safe but you're
00:20:03
never
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safe because life always finds a way to
00:20:07
surprise you and the more you resist
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that the more you
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suffer the key is not to avoid
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uncertainty but to learn to be
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comfortable in
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it the stoics understood this better
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than
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anyone what disturbs men are not things
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but the interpretations they give to
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them said
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epicus and here's the key point the fear
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of the unknown doesn't come from
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uncertainty itself but from the story
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you tell yourself about what could
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happen it's your mind projecting
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negative scenarios imagining problems
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creating monsters that only exist in
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your head but if instead of resisting
00:20:50
uncertainty you accept it everything
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changes because uncertainty is not the
00:20:57
enemy it's the the playing field where
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everything is possible where
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opportunities are born where creativity
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flourishes where the best things in life
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happen think about the most incredible
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moments of your life how many of them
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were planned down to the smallest detail
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how many turned out exactly the way you
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imagined almost none the best
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experiences the greatest lessons the
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deepest changes happen amidst chaos in
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the unexpected in what you couldn't
00:21:33
foresee so here's the real question are
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you going to keep clinging to the
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illusion of control or are you going to
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learn to flow with life without fear
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because that's where real peace lies not
00:21:47
in controlling every detail but in
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trusting your ability to
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adapt but there's a problem
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self-confidence isn't built overnight
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and here's where another crucial Point
00:22:00
comes into play in this journey your
00:22:02
internal
00:22:04
dialogue because what good is accepting
00:22:07
uncertainty if your own mind is an enemy
00:22:11
how can you find peace if every thought
00:22:14
that passes through your head is an
00:22:16
attack against
00:22:18
yourself people underestimate the impact
00:22:21
of their internal dialogue they don't
00:22:23
realize that what they tell themselves
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over and over becomes their reality
00:22:29
if your inner voice is a constant source
00:22:31
of criticism doubt and negativity then
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no matter how much you try to change
00:22:37
your external life you'll always carry
00:22:40
that internal battle with you and here's
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the key the way you talk to yourself is
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what defines how you feel about
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yourself if every mistake you make
00:22:51
becomes an attack on your worth you'll
00:22:53
never have peace if every time you fail
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you punish yourself instead of learning
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you'll never have emotional Freedom if
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every negative thought you have is taken
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as an absolute truth instead of
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questioned you'll be trapped in an
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endless internal War The Voice in your
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head is not the truth it's just an echo
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of your beliefs your past experiences
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and the fears you've accumulated but you
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can change it you can reprogram it you
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can train your mind to work for you
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instead of against you and when you do
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everything changes because true peace is
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not just the absence of external
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conflict but also the ability to live in
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harmony with your own thoughts so tell
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me are you going to keep allowing your
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mind to be your prison or are you going
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to transform it into your ally because
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the peace you're looking for isn't in
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controlling life it's in learning to
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live in peace with
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yourself and that that's the greatest
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power you can
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achieve so what does all of this mean
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what's the end point of this
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journey the point is simple peace is not
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something you find it's something you
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build Day by Day thought by thought
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decision by decision it's the result of
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what you choose to allow in your mind of
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what you decide to let go of and how you
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choose to interpret everything that
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happens to you
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people keep looking for answers outside
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when the answers have always been
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inside they keep waiting for life to
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change when the only transformation that
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really matters is the one that happens
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inside and here's the truth that few
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dare to
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accept no one is going to come to save
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you no one is going to show up one day
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and give you the peace you're looking
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for there's no guru no book no video no
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philosophy that will do the work for you
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it's all in your hands it always has
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been the difference between someone who
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keeps suffering and someone who finds
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peace isn't luck intelligence or
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circumstances it's in what they do with
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what they have and how they interpret
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what happens to them and what they
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choose to believe about themselves so
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the real question isn't whether you can
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achieve peace because of course you can
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the question is are you willing to do
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what it takes to achieve it because
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inner peace is not free it requires
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effort it requires facing yourself it
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requires questioning everything you
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believed to be true about who you are
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and how life works it requires letting
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go of the past accepting the present and
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stopping fearing the future most people
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aren't willing to pay that price they
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prefer to stay in their comfort zone
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even if it means staying at war with
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themselves
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but if you've come this far if you're
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still listening it's because deep down
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you know there's another way to live you
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know that true Freedom isn't outside of
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you but in what's happening
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inside so here's the
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challenge
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choose you can keep going the way you
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have been letting the world dictate your
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emotional state reacting to everything
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that happens outside of you being a
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victim of your own thoughts or you can
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start changing everything not all at
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once not in one day but step by step
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because every time you choose to let go
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instead of cling every time you choose
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to question instead of react every time
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you choose to observe instead of
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identify you are building the peace
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you've been searching for and the good
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news is you don't have to wait you don't
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have to reach a certain point in your
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life to start you can do it now here in
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this very moment because peace is not in
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the future it's in how you decide to
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live this moment so tell me what do you
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choose if this video made you think if
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something you heard resonated with you I
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want you to leave a comment with this
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phrase I choose
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peace because writing it is not just a
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comment it's a commitment to yourself
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and if you want more content like this
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subscribe
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not because I say so but because what
00:27:31
we're building here goes Way Beyond a
00:27:34
video it's a mindset shift and if you're
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ready to take the next step I'll see you
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in the next one until then Choose Wisely
