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forever
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what's up y'all we back with another
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video on the channel
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just waking up from a little nap excuse
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my face and stuff but today we're going
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to be doing it as y'all could tell by
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the title my experiences on being a stud
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and basically what this video is kind of
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gonna be about is like basically tips
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and stuff like that and like just like
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advice because when I came out I ain't
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have it so like I just had to go off of
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just me just figuring out [ __ ] myself
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and I get a lot of questions about like
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a lot of the stuff about being a stud
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like clothes haircuts just regular
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advice so I was like let me put it all
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in the video because when I was like
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coming up came out and everything like I
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wish I would have had somebody to like
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you know kind of like just give me a
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little advice guide me a little bit on
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like just certain things so so I put the
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um each topic on like a little bullet
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point thing so like the first thing we
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go get into is coming to the realization
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about your appearance and what I mean by
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that is like basically when did you
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start realizing that you wanted to you
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know start dressing how you want to
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dress you know basically being a stud so
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I always say like my best advice one
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like you finally come to that
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realization that you know I want to be a
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stud I want to be a stem I want to start
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dressing how I really want to dress
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dressing more comfortably don't let
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nobody get in the way of that like if
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that's what you truly want to do then
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please do so that's one thing I wish I
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could have um went back and changed like
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I held out for so long because I was
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trying to make you know other people
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happy going with like what my family
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believed in and stuff like that instead
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of just being my true self so I would
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say once you like realize why whether it
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be oh I like girls or you know or I want
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to be a stud you know that's what I
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truly want to do go for that [ __ ] and do
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that [ __ ] because like you know that's
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what you really want to do like you got
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to follow your heart and don't let
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nobody tell you any different body don't
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let nobody tell you like
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people I don't know why it's a thing
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like with studs and like the whole baby
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study oh you just now stuck like all
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that stuff doesn't matter like when
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somebody came out or when somebody
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started being a stud like it's no time
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limit on it whenever they want to start
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being comfortable dressing how they want
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to dress do it so like my advice for
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like coming to the realization about how
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you want to dress in your appearance you
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just do it it don't matter what nobody
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say like it's all right all right y'all
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so the next topic we're gonna get into
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is figuring out your style and what
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better way to do that than in the mall
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that's why you know my job is convenient
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I'm gonna take you all to a few stores
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because a lot of people in my DMs always
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ask me where do you get your jeans from
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like how do you find your jean size
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because you switching from girls jeans
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to mentioning so you don't really like
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know where to start but I'm gonna show
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y'all all right y'all so the first story
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we're gonna go into is packs they got
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the best this is the first store I
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started shopping in when I first started
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like getting men's jeans I feel like
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they fit the best so we're gonna go in
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here check out their jeans I might put a
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little fit together I'm just talking to
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y'all right now in case like the music
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messed me up when I go in there for like
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copyright issues so it might just be me
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like vlogging with no talking because of
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the music but yeah
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she stuck with me till I get old push
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the engine to the mess I ain't stopping
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won't put me over get my heart to money
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everything else don't turn me cold drop
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that y'all didn't fix I got that Stony
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Thing game so I done looked at the jeans
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show y'all what they got out there I
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didn't pick their regular black pair I
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wear a size 31 that's like my exact size
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that I would prefer either 30 or 31 but
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really the 31 and I'm like about five
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six five seven so I'm gonna try them all
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for y'all show them how they fit and
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basically like jean sizes men jean sizes
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they go from like a 28 like all the way
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up to like a 40 so
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usually like most most most girls move
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into like men's jeans you're gonna be in
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like the 28 through like 32 Rings like
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nothing bigger than that otherwise
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you're gonna have some big ass pants but
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yeah let me try this out for y'all
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all right as y'all can see they fit you
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know perfect they're not too not too
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baggy
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and they're not too tight this is just
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how I like my jeans just like this
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yeah so we definitely we're definitely
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gonna get these they fly
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but yeah the main tip when shopping for
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jeans always try your jeans on before
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you buy them I used to make that same
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mistake thinking it's like girl jeans
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and if they look like they can fit they
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can fit the way I want them to and it's
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not going to go like that so my main tip
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when figuring out like your jean size
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always try it on and make sure they fit
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how you want them to fit I know I said I
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was going to take y'all to a few stores
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but you know who got time for all that I
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feel like the jeans was like the main
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part that was like kind of hard that was
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like one of the hardest things for me to
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figure out you know when I was
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transitioning into men's clothes so I'm
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glad I got that out of the way for y'all
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and I feel like shirts and stuff is like
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self-explanatory you know just make sure
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the main thing is try your stuff on like
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that's how you don't figure out what
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size you want stuff so make sure you
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always try stuff on and for like just
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figuring out your style like I would say
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definitely don't go off of like don't go
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off for nobody else don't go off at a
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hype like wear what makes you happy wear
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what you want to wear like I hate when
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people be like oh this person can't
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dress like don't say a person can't
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dress just because it's not your style
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so that's my advice you know on the
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little bullet um on the little list is
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you know how you carry yourself and I
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feel like this is an important one
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because like with me I used I ain't had
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nobody to like like I said I'm making
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this video because I have nobody to like
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guide me you know just like advice you
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know you coming out is new being like
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you got this new title on you you now
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like you're a gay female in society and
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you're carrying yourself like as a stud
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so that's like a big thing you know it
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comes with a lot it comes with a lot of
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um discrimination you know a lot of
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judgment it come with a lot so like how
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you can say the first thing is like the
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misconception people have like about
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studies is like yeah we're trying to be
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men and I feel like no that's not it at
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all like we're just gonna fly we just
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some fresh ass females like and a lot of
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people a lot of men be mad at that
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because we dress better no offense to no
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man at all but for the ones that be mad
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like we dress better smell better look
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better pull more girls you know and they
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just be jealous of that but like nobody
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is trying to be a man bro I promise you
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so like
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don't think that when you come out as a
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stud and you start dressing like a boy
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dressing like a boy I don't really it's
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just clothes but dressing like a boy I
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guess that you have to start like
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carrying yourself as like this
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masculine ass person if that's not you
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like me I thought like that's how you
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supposed to act you close to you know
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act a certain way but I realize like no
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I don't have to act like this I could
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just be my regular ass self how I've
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been doing I'm just the only thing
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that's changing is the clothes really so
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yeah
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when you like how you carry yourself
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keep being the same girl that you was
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before like don't try to act like
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something that you not basically because
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like a lot of like you know how that
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should be but yeah don't try to act like
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something that you're not just
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completely be yourself next thing we
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gonna get into is you know interacting
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with um it's for like if you if you just
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feel like basically if you were younger
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stud like this this video really for
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people that's like first first coming
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out first coming out with it so if you
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already know what it is you can skip
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past this but like interacting with
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females like you know sex and all that
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stuff you know how you supposed to move
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with girls and like I would say
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definitely don't you know don't try to
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act like you know what you're doing if
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you really don't you know because like
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then you go when it's time to do what
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you need to do you ain't gonna be at the
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park so I would say mostly just take
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your time with everything and like
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really try to if you get into that point
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get into that level with a female don't
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try to like you know you just because
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another thing yeah just because you're a
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stud it don't mean you need to have a
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strap it don't mean you need to have one
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if that's what you want to do if that's
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what your girl want to do okay but just
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because on the stud I Gotta Give me like
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the biggest strap I see in a sex store
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you don't have to do that it's all about
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you know pleasuring the female so you
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don't want to go get some big ass thing
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that's going to hurt her so basically my
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advice like when you interact with
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females and sex with females take your
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time learn a female body don't rush into
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it just basically figure out you know
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figure out what Pleasures the person
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that you're dealing with don't go into
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it like you know what you're doing if
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you don't just take your time with it
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and like for yourself
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I would say for me it's a lot of um
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touch me not studs out there if that's
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how you want to roll then you know keep
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being a touch me not stud I hate people
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that you know females be trying to
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um knock some girls because they'll
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touch me not stuff they just not for
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that point yet and you don't have to
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rush yourself to be to that point it
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took me like the longest to let any girl
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touch me at all so like and I'm still
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like I still am very reserved I'm more
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of like a giver I don't really like to
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receive like that unless I'm really
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really comfortable with you so basically
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just don't rush anything just take your
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time with everything learn what you need
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to learn and you're gonna be all right
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so what are the last topics we're gonna
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get into real short videos just
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something quick to throw out there last
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topic is going to be hair I get this is
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one of the most questions I get on tick
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tocks Instagram what kind of haircut do
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you get and right now this is called a
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taper you just um get the sides like
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faded and then like the back of it
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expanded too that is called a taper for
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all you guys that been asking me and
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wanted to know this haircut is called a
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taper
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so when you like just because you a stem
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stud that don't mean you have to go and
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get a lineup that's just something that
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I wanted to do I feel like I was I look
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better with it it complements my hair
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more so I went and did it so that's not
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a mandatory thing like I'm telling all
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this because this is like that's how I
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used to think because I didn't have
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nobody to tell me what's up so I'm like
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on Instagram looking at what everybody
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else is doing and just going off of that
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so I didn't got me a haircut I even
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tried to get dressed because I've seen
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so many studs haven't dressed that did
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not last with me I'ma show y'all it's
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gonna I'm gonna show you all the
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pictures and stuff while I'm talking
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it's gonna pop up but yeah
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I tried to get dressed because I thought
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okay that's what every other uh got so
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let me get it too man
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ended up having to cut a lot of chunk of
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my hair off trying to be like everybody
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else so like
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with your hair just like you know
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whatever you want to do with your hair
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do it don't go out for like nobody else
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you know if you see an idea that you
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want to try go ahead and try it but like
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don't feel like you have to do this
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hairstyle get this haircut to be like
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presentable like I had to learn how to
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embrace you know what I do have what
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kind of hair I do have and like do
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different stuff with it and just you
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know love myself love what I have and
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not try to go off of somebody else so
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with your hair and just you know try to
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go based off you all right y'all that's
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the end of the video to All You know the
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younger stud stems anybody my main
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message is to just be yourself
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