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00:12:28
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Summary

TLDRThe speaker presents a critical view on the pervasive influence of pornography in men's lives, arguing that it exploits their primal instincts and leads to a loss of control over their desires. They emphasize that while porn may provide a quick escape, it ultimately detracts from real-life experiences and relationships. The speaker questions whether men truly want to dedicate their lives to this virtual fantasy, warning that it can result in shame, isolation, and a diminished sense of masculinity. They encourage men to reflect on their choices and the long-term consequences of their actions, suggesting that the time spent on porn could be better used to develop genuine connections and personal growth.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 Pornography exploits male instincts.
  • ⏳ Time spent on porn is time lost.
  • 💔 Virtual experiences are not real connections.
  • 🚫 Excessive porn can lead to shame and isolation.
  • 🤔 Reflect on your choices and desires.
  • 💪 Focus on personal growth instead of fantasy.
  • 👥 Real relationships require communication.
  • ⚠️ Porn is not equivalent to sex.
  • 📉 Over-reliance on porn diminishes masculinity.
  • 🔄 Breaking free from porn requires effort.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The speaker addresses the audience, urging them to listen before reacting negatively. They express concern about the prevalence of pornography and how it exploits men's primal instincts, suggesting that this leads to an unhealthy relationship with sexuality. The speaker argues that men are trading their time and mental energy for virtual experiences that do not fulfill their real desires, ultimately losing control over their choices and lives.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:12:28

    Continuing the discussion, the speaker emphasizes that pornography is not a substitute for real sexual experiences and that it can lead to shame and a lack of self-awareness. They warn that relying on porn can hinder personal growth and the development of genuine relationships, ultimately leaving individuals feeling empty and unfulfilled. The speaker invites respectful dialogue, acknowledging that their views may be controversial.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • What is the main argument of the speaker?

    The speaker argues that pornography negatively affects men's lives by taking away their ability to make conscious choices and leading them to trade their time for virtual experiences.

  • Does the speaker identify as a feminist or activist?

    No, the speaker states that they are not coming from a feminist or activist perspective.

  • What does the speaker suggest about men's instincts?

    The speaker suggests that industries exploit men's primal instincts, leading to an abuse of their desires.

  • How does the speaker view the relationship between porn and real sex?

    The speaker believes that porn is not equivalent to real sex and that it creates a false sense of intimacy.

  • What warning does the speaker give about excessive porn consumption?

    The speaker warns that excessive porn consumption can lead to a loss of control, time, and ultimately, a diminished sense of self.

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    before you start hating me in the
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    comment section
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    below just wait a bit hear me out and
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    after that we will dedicate time which
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    you
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    can
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    express what you think about what I'm
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    saying or just how dumb I am by saying
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    those
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    things you have the right to do both
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    any of what I'm about to say is not from
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    the point of view of a woman nor a
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    feminist or activist of Human Rights or
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    female rights I am off my lady horse
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    today and I'm coming from point of view
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    of
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    you clearly everything around you turned
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    to be a porn
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    is no longer just born that is born
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    almost everything is born these
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    days females are making it more easy on
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    you to get just
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    what you crave for not necessarily what
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    you
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    want don't you see that there is some
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    sort of abuse
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    about men instinct
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    male Primal Instinct of this physical
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    urge that when you feel
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    it most likely you don't get to think at
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    the very same time don't you think that
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    when somebody is doing something out of
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    an
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    instinct and people or indust Industries
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    are taking advantage of that don't you
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    think is an abuse
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    these days is the
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    easiest you've ever
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    got to see a [ __ ] to get is another
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    story yeah it's going to be very dirty
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    words
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    here move on if it's bothering
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    you now for a virtual piece of
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    meat virtual piece of meat a virtual
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    talk with another lady a virtual
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    exposure a
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    virtual sex
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    talk you are willing to trade your
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    time your
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    intelligence your ability to
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    distinguish between what you
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    want and what your body wants two
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    different
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    things don't you see how much you are
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    dedicating to
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    it don't you see how much you're out of
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    control of it it's not the masturbation
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    it's not the
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    self-pleasing
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    because I am not a man I'm not able to
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    tell things which I'm not expressing
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    experiencing but in the very same breath
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    I can
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    say is easy to see when a man is
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    watching porn when I'm saying watching
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    porn I don't
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    mean the man who is watching porn for 5
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    minutes you know what no I'm
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    including I'm including all of it all
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    kinds of men who are watching porn
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    because you are not watching porn for 2
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    minutes you are watching porn because
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    you need to release yourself and you are
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    no longer able to do it without
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    it or you just want to spend
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    time don't you see that your choice has
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    been taken away from you and you're just
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    fing for it each time you're just
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    already you're not even having
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    um a moment of a decision you just do
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    it if you're alone at home you're doing
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    it if you have free time and you don't
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    have nothing to do
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    or at least you don't want to do the
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    things that you need to do you're doing
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    it so you're trading your
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    life life you're trading your time the
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    most
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    precious thing you
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    have for a virtual
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    [ __ ] that's the the most men you can be
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    yeah I touched that I said
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    it is the most men you'll ever
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    be to go to get so many girls at once
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    and none of these girls
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    actually there for you are not there
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    with you you just use your imagination
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    your
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    fantasy and the man that you wish to be
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    into the situation and that's the
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    furthest that you can get in
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    life to dedicate your life to watch
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    things that are not
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    will never
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    beers that they're stealing you away
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    from you stealing your life away from
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    you stealing your time stealing your
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    time that you can dedicate to become
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    that man you fantasize about you
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    fantasize
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    about you probably also give your money
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    for it
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    there are men that don't watch
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    porn because there is enough porn
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    outside and if you have a good mind
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    there is enough porn inside your head
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    you
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    can have it all in your
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    head but is never just watching one
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    thing and that's it you're watching One
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    Thing 10 seconds and then you to the
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    other one and then you scroll to the
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    other one you scroll to the other one in
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    just Never Ending
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    Story and that's the only time you feel
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    a man that's the only time you feel a
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    man
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    which is not really a
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    man I'm not here to tell you how men you
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    should be or what kind of men you should
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    be I'm just here to ask you
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    are you even wanting this are you even
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    wanting to dedicate all your life for
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    this are you wanting because sooner or
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    later you're going to lose that ability
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    okay you can take pills but you're going
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    to lose that
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    ability and then what you going to do
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    after
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    that what you going to do after you not
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    able to release yourself anymore that is
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    no longer hard what you going to
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    do when you you'll find yourself broken
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    as
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    [ __ ] probably with with less time that
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    you ever
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    wanted probably with less money probably
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    with less patient with less knowing of
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    yourself because all the time you just
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    run away
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    and instead of becoming the men you
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    faked the man that you wanted to
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    be you went to the fast solution of
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    just living in a fantasy where you don't
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    even realize if right now you stop
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    watching and I'm asking you why did you
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    watch you're not going to be able to
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    tell
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    me you're not going to be able to
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    memorize
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    and it
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    is there is a lot of Shame involved in
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    that there is a lot of
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    hiding it's because you don't think this
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    is right what you're doing sex itself is
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    not a problematic thing at all we meant
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    to do it you and me came out from
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    sex but
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    not like that porn is not
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    sex it's not that porn doesn't exist in
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    real
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    life is that porn is not sex you think
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    you're doing sex you pleasing yourself
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    this is not
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    sex so clearly maybe you're even a
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    [Music]
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    virgin and the more you hide away from
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    doing the work you need to do in order
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    to become a man the less you will ever
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    become a man and the more you will want
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    to watch porn because that's the only
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    time you think you're a
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    man it's ruing your life and you just
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    don't see
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    it it's very easy to fall for it if you
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    think that everybody around you just
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    giving you what you want for
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    free but don't you see that he's not
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    really for free he's taking away the
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    most precious thing that nobody ever can
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    give you back when you decide to stop
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    the
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    membership nobody will give you back the
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    time the mind the control over your
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    actions again you will have to do it all
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    over again
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    from day
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    one and it's for
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    something that is not even lasting
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    like is not an action that last and you
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    can remind yourself of that and have a
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    good memory and have an outcome that
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    last for a long
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    time you don't even remember
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    it is an Escape Route you you don't have
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    to feel your flaws you don't have to
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    feel none of the things you feel ashamed
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    of and you run away to a place where you
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    are very much wanted cuz in the porn
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    females are acting as if they really
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    want you they really want you to [ __ ]
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    them they really want you to come on
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    their face they really want you to do
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    all the things that you wish to do to a
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    woman but you don't have either you
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    don't have the woman the woman or you
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    don't have the communication with the
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    woman that you
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    have to reach to that
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    point so you go to that place and that's
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    it everything is is happening in such a
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    short time is a shortcut for
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    everything but he not forever and then
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    you will be left without
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    nothing not without
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    nothing with
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    worse now you can hate me in the
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    comments
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    below you can say that I don't
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    understand what I'm talking about you
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    can say that I'm conservative I'm an
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    oldfashioned or whatever you want to
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    name it
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    if you have if you want to have a
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    respectful conversation I will respond
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    back to you of
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    course thank you for watching
Tags
  • pornography
  • masculinity
  • desire
  • self-control
  • real relationships
  • virtual experiences
  • primal instincts
  • shame
  • personal growth
  • life choices