You're Homeless... Now What? | Martha Stone | TEDxPiscataquaRiver

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Summary

TLDRThis talk sheds light on the issue of homelessness in the community of Portsmouth, New Hampshire, highlighting the diverse faces of homelessness and the efforts by Crossroads House, a local shelter, to address it. The Executive Director shares insights on the shelter's operations and the various challenges faced by individuals and families seeking refuge, such as lack of resources, the aftermath of traumatic events, or untreated illnesses. Through stories of different residents, the talk emphasizes that homelessness affects a wide range of people, including families, young adults, and veterans. Additionally, the speech discusses the shelter’s success in transitioning families into permanent housing and the need for community involvement to sustain these efforts. The speech ends with a call to action for greater community engagement and support, encouraging donations, advocacy, and volunteer work to help break the cycle of homelessness.

Takeaways

  • 🏠 Homelessness is a significant issue in Portsmouth, affecting diverse individuals.
  • πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦ Families with children face unique challenges in homelessness, such as education and social integration.
  • πŸ’ͺ The shelter operates at full capacity, providing more than just a bedβ€”a comprehensive support system.
  • πŸ“ˆ Common causes of homelessness include financial constraints, addiction, mental health issues, and relationship breakups.
  • πŸ“… The Greater Seacoast Coalition to End Homelessness is actively working on long-term solutions.
  • πŸ‘¨β€πŸ³ Success stories include individuals finding jobs and families transitioning to stable housing.
  • πŸ§‘β€βš•οΈ Shelter residents receive onsite health care and counseling services.
  • πŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈ Community involvement is critical for shelters to function, relying heavily on donations and volunteer work.
  • πŸ†˜ There's a call for policy and legislative support for sustainable solutions.
  • 🌟 Despite the challenges, community efforts can significantly impact reducing homelessness.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Imagining the challenges faced by the homeless, the speaker highlights the invisible nature of homelessness in their community. Despite the area's cultural and historical richness, many people, including families and children, experience homelessness in various forms, such as living in shelters, vehicles, or doubled up with others. The executive director of a local shelter shares data about national and state homelessness rates, emphasizing that homelessness can affect anyone, including those working in service jobs. The shelter operates at full capacity, accommodating people of all ages and providing support for various causes of homelessness, from financial issues to addiction and disabilities.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    The executive director shares stories of three different cases to illustrate the diverse challenges faced by the homeless and the support needed. A young man recovering from alcohol addiction needed temporary shelter to save up for housing. A family of five required extensive support, including healthcare and education services, before moving into subsidized housing. The most challenging case involved a veteran with dementia, who needed comprehensive assistance to transition into a veteran's home. The speaker underscores the unique challenges faced by homeless children, including educational disruption and social isolation, and describes the shelter's efforts to address these issues.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:33

    The shelter not only provides temporary refuge but also comprehensive support services, facilitating connections to healthcare, mental health, and substance abuse counseling. The speaker discusses the successes and ongoing goals to improve service delivery, including initiatives like a community care team to address health and housing needs collectively. Emphasizing the importance of community involvement, the speaker urges public support through donations, advocacy, and volunteering. Despite the challenges, the speaker remains hopeful that collective efforts can make a significant impact in breaking the cycle of homelessness and supporting affected individuals.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • What are common causes of homelessness?

    Common causes include lack of resources, relationship breakups, traumatic events, substance addiction, developmental disabilities, exiting prison, and untreated physical and mental illnesses.

  • How does the shelter support homeless families and individuals?

    The shelter offers living space, basic services, connects residents to health care and mental health resources, and provides case management for achieving housing and employment goals.

  • How many people were homeless in New Hampshire in the latest count?

    The latest count shows over 2,200 homeless people in New Hampshire, with nearly 5,000 utilizing shelters.

  • What is the success rate for families transitioning to permanent housing from the shelter?

    The shelter successfully transitioned 80% of families to permanent housing last year.

  • Why can homelessness be considered invisible in some communities?

    Because many homeless people may not be visibly living on the streets but staying in vehicles, shelters, or temporarily with others.

  • What challenges do homeless children face?

    Homeless children face educational disruptions, truancy, social exclusion from peers, and the stress of instability.

  • What is the Greater Seacoast Coalition to End Homelessness?

    It is a community coalition working to identify and address homelessness priorities in the Greater Seacoast area.

  • How can local citizens help the homeless or their local shelters?

    Citizens can donate goods, financially support shelters, advocate for government funding, and volunteer at shelters.

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    imagine for a moment at the end of the
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    day you have absolutely nowhere to sleep
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    tonight you have no family or friends
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    whose couch you can crash on you've lost
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    most of your belongings and only have
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    with you what you can carry what's most
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    precious or irreplaceable
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    did you pack these things or more
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    practical items you have no cash no
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    credit cards no bank account and no car
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    you have not yet eaten today is the Sun
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    begins to set and the temperature falls
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    it then begins to rain you are hungry
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    exhausted and scared and you have two
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    children with you you are homeless
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    this might seem unimaginable to you but
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    it happens every day here in our
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    community despite the fact that we live
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    in an amazing community with a cultural
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    historical and culinary attractions that
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    thousands flock to visit every year we
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    do have a problem with homelessness it's
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    unlikely if you were to walk downtown
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    that you would see anyone sleeping on
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    the street in our town but homelessness
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    can be very invisible tonight there will
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    be hundreds of people who are sleeping
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    either doubled up sleeping somewhere not
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    meant for human habitation like a
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    vehicle sleeping in a shelter or even
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    sleeping outside an attempt is made each
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    year to count the number of people who
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    are homeless in our country in our
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    community last year over five hundred
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    and seventy thousand people nationally
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    were counted in something called a
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    point-in-time count which attempts to
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    count people who are both sheltered and
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    unsheltered in our country in New
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    Hampshire that number was just over
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    2,200 nearly five thousand people stayed
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    in shelters in New Hampshire last year
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    and almost 900 of them were children
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    this is Crossroads House a 96 bed
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    privately run shelter here in Portsmouth
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    New Hampshire where I'm the executive
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    director we've been providing services
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    to the homeless since 1982 last year at
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    our shelter we provided services to 469
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    people 32 families with 53 children so
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    if I asked you to picture a typical
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    resident what image comes to mind take a
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    moment and get a picture in your head
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    did you picture someone like this living
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    on the street well it's quite possible
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    we do see people coming into our shelter
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    who have been living outside but what
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    about this a mother and a child or this
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    young woman what about a young man this
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    young man is just barely older than a
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    high school student yet he's already out
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    on his own what about these little guys
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    with the exception of that first photo
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    that I showed you all of these people
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    have recently stayed with us the reality
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    is people who are homeless look just
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    like you and me they may be serving your
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    coffee in the morning or bagging your
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    groceries at the eat at the end of the
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    day they might be cleaning the office
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    where you work or they might be driving
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    a taxi the child sitting next to your
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    child in the classroom might be
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    returning to a shelter at the end of the
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    day the point is homelessness can and
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    does happen to all types of people we
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    provide shelter to both individuals and
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    families and we operate at full capacity
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    year-round which often surprises people
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    regardless of the weather
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    homelessness happens all the time on any
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    given night under our roof we have close
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    to a hundred people and they will be
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    ranging an age from infants right up
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    through senior citizens so how do people
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    become homeless what are the causes it's
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    rarely just one thing that happens it's
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    typically a series of things some of the
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    some of the common causes are lack of
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    resources money is almost always one of
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    the issues breakups of a relationship or
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    a severe traumatic event can cause
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    someone to lose their housing
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    alcohol and drug addiction people are at
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    all stages of recovery sometimes when
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    they come to seek shelter from us people
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    with developmental disabilities I've
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    actually seen people dropped off at our
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    front door because their caregiver is no
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    longer able to care for them there are
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    people leaving prison who need a place
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    to start over and last but certainly not
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    least our physical and mental illnesses
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    which are often untreated so to explain
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    a little bit better all of these
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    challenges that people need to overcome
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    and kind of level of services that we
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    need to provide to help them overcome
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    those I want to tell you three short
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    stories the first one is about a young
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    man who stayed in a transitional shelter
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    room like this one he basically needed a
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    place to get back on his feet he had
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    fallen on hard times he had suffered
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    from an alcohol addiction but had since
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    gotten sober now in his case he didn't
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    have any major medical issues other than
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    his alcoholism he had education he had
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    experience he had job history as it
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    turned out he was a talented chef and he
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    easily found employment in our amazing
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    town with so many restaurants and he was
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    able to get back on his feet and move
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    out after only a couple of months he
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    just needed the time to save up enough
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    money for his first month's rent and
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    security deposit so we gave him a place
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    to do that but he didn't need a lot from
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    us other than a place to stay in the
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    next example I want to share was about a
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    family it was a five person family two
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    parents three little girls under the age
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    of five two of whom you see here believe
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    that was a Halloween party we threw they
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    needed a lot of support to us they came
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    to us and they needed all sorts of
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    services that we helped connect them to
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    we help them get health insurance the
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    family needed both medical care and
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    mental health care and once supported
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    the family was able both parents were
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    able to go to work they ended up mom
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    worked on her GED and they got the kids
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    in Head Start and they took parenting
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    classes so they did a lot of work while
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    they were with us but here's the
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    interesting thing once they went back to
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    work and both parents were employed they
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    were
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    still not earning enough money to afford
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    a market rate apartment in our community
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    so they needed to put their names on a
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    subsidized housing waiting list now
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    where we live here those waiting lists
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    are long for our family the wait to get
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    a subsidized apartment is six months to
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    one year for an individual it's one to
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    two years the good news is is that this
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    family was able to move out after just
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    six months into an apartment that they
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    were going to be able to afford now the
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    last story I want to share with you is
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    about a gentleman I will call Leo he
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    represents the most challenging clients
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    that we serve he was hit finding
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    permanent housing for clients like him
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    is particularly difficult because
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    they're not he was not going to be able
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    to work even if someone is on disability
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    it's often not enough to afford housing
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    now his story he was a forty plus year
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    veteran had earned a Purple Heart and
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    showed up at our shelter his last
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    possession was his vehicle one of the
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    many things that we needed to do for him
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    was help him surrender his driver's
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    license and his car because it was
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    unsafe for him to be driving he in
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    addition to many medical conditions also
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    was suffering from dementia so if you've
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    ever gone through that with your own
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    family remember having to have them
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    surrender a license you can imagine the
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    difficulty of that he had no family
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    support with the exception of one
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    brother who lived all the way on the
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    other side of the country
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    so making decisions was very challenging
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    eventually after a full year we were
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    able to secure a bed for him in a
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    veteran's home but here's an interesting
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    thing when the time came for him to move
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    out he didn't want to leave we had
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    become his new family his support the
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    people who work at our shelter and the
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    other residents made him feel safe and
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    comfortable so we had to work extra hard
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    to convince and support him in that move
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    to a place where we knew that he was
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    going to get the care that he really
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    deserved now the challenges for children
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    who are homeless are unique they grow up
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    way too fast you can imagine if a child
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    is worrying about where they're going to
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    sleep
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    every night how that could be a
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    distraction and get in the way of their
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    education and the work in the classroom
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    truancy is also common among children
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    who are homeless think about this
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    something as simple as a playdate I
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    remember once a mother who was at our
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    shelter shared a story with me she was
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    heartbroken that her children were not
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    invited to play at other children's
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    homes and they certainly weren't coming
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    back to the shelter for playdates she
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    wept as she told me this story it was
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    really heartbreaking for her people just
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    want their children to be treated like
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    everybody else the challenges for older
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    children are also unique there's the
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    shame and embarrassment of being
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    homeless being a teenager is hard enough
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    without the instability and poverty of
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    homelessness we try very hard to provide
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    for the needs of children of all ages at
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    our shelter we want them to be able to
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    participate with their peers on sporting
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    teams and going to summer camp and if it
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    means getting them address or a tuxedo
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    to go to the prom we can do those things
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    for them but the most important thing we
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    can do is provide them with a stable
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    safe home to go to home to every night
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    when people first arrive at a shelter
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    they are typically exhausted they are so
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    relieved to simply be in a place where
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    they can sleep safely we treat all of
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    the people who come to us with dignity
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    and respect and for some people it's
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    been a very long time since they've been
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    welcomed into an environment where they
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    know they can relax rest and recharge
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    the change that we see in people after
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    only a couple days can be quite
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    remarkable once people arrested we
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    connect them with our case managers we
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    have social workers that work
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    individually with every person that
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    stays with us at our shelter shelters
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    are so much more than just places where
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    people sleep and eat our case managers
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    are working with people to set goals
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    with them and figure out how they're
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    going to meet those goals creating a
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    customized plan around housing and
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    employment and helping them overcome
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    some very basic benefits think about
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    this what if you had apps
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    lutely no identification to prove who
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    you were one of the things we often have
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    to start with when we work with people
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    is helping them get a photo ID a birth
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    certificate a social security card all
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    of those things are necessary before we
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    can help them move on to connect to
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    getting employment and housing and other
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    benefits that they may need we're very
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    fortunate our shelter that we have
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    spaces where our amazing partner
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    agencies can come on-site to deliver the
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    supportive services that our residents
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    need our residents can access primary
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    health care dental care mental health
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    care and substance abuse counseling all
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    without the barriers of transportation
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    and cost they come right to us under our
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    roof and while we offer tremendous
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    number services of services and we're
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    very proud of our outcomes
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    last year eighty percent of our families
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    transition successfully to permanent
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    housing we know that we can do better
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    last year in November an amazing group
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    of community members got together for a
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    summit on homelessness this was
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    organized by the Greater seacoast
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    coalition to end homelessness of which
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    I'm a member and we got together and
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    gather the community together to help us
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    talk about what are the greatest
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    challenges that we face in the work that
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    we are doing out of this day and a half
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    summit we identified nine priorities
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    that will now drive the work of our
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    coalition for the next three to five
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    years just to give you a quick example
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    of one of the priorities that were so
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    excited we've already started working on
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    is something called a community care
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    team that we've seen seen implemented in
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    other communities successfully what this
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    is is a group of people coming together
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    to look at the people who are frequently
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    cycling through emergency rooms and
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    creating a customized plan to deal not
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    only with their medical needs but their
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    housing needs as well so we're already
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    having conversations with the local
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    hospitals about this we'll keep working
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    to improve identifying these priorities
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    but in the meantime direct service
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    providers will continue to deliver care
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    to the most vulnerable people in our
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    but we can't do it alone there are
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    several ways you can help every shelter
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    has a wish list of items you can go on
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    the website and check out the things
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    that we need you may have some in your
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    home already or you could get some
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    things while you're out shopping and
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    drop them off most shelters rely on
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    private contributions to fund their
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    operations at our shelter 3/4 of our
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    entire budget comes from private
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    donations from individuals and
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    businesses another way you can help is
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    that government funding can be volatile
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    and for those that cannot personally
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    give you can advocate among your
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    legislators to help support the funding
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    for shelters that provide such a
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    critical safety net the last suggestion
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    is to volunteer we have an amazing group
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    of volunteers who come in seven nights a
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    week to cook and serve dinner for our
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    residents there also may be
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    opportunities to put participate in
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    future community meetings like I
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    mentioned earlier all of these
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    suggestions will have an impact the
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    theme of today's talks for people like
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    this little boy and so many others don't
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    underestimate the power of your
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    involvement without you shelters would
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    not exist and thousands of people would
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    go uncared-for and unsheltered when you
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    go home tonight to the safety and
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    comfort of your own home my hope is that
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    you'll reflect on what you've heard and
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    not be overwhelmed or saddened but
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    instead be grateful for what you have
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    and be inspired and motivated to take
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    some kind of action
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    despite the magnitude of the problem you
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    can make a difference and together we
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    can break the cycle of homelessness and
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    transform lives thank you
Tags
  • homelessness
  • shelters
  • community support
  • family challenges
  • youth homelessness
  • veteran support
  • mental health
  • Portsmouth
  • New Hampshire
  • nonprofit work